FabSwingers.com forum: Self Praise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.

Anyone else ever noticed this?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I wanted "sexybrain" but it had been taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted "sexybrain" but it had been taken

The name or your brain

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

"I wanted "sexybrain" but it had been taken

Touche

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I wanted "sexybrain" but it had been taken

The name or your brain

Can see somebody else here as contender for "sexybrain" name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread supposed to be ironic, or are you really this spectacularly non self aware?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im prettytiedup not cos i consider myself pretty just cos its one of my fave gnr songs n im a lifelong Axl fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usernames don't get more self-indulgent than mine.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I cam think of quote a fee guys and couples on here who have usernames and profiles congratulating themselves for certain attributes or personality traits. I don't think it's just the ladies. Maybe because you're looking for women OP you notice it more on theirs since you look at their profiles more often? Speaking as someone who perves all sorts I'd say it's an even spread. Some of them may even be self-deprecating...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

'quite a few'. My nail varnish is drying so my texting is shite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this thread supposed to be ironic, or are you really this spectacularly non self aware?

Neither, my username was always meant to be slightly tongue in cheek when I conceived it years ago, and was intended to imply the mind is the sexiest organ, rather than me literally having a 'sexy brain'.

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I relate profiles to estate agents - everyone makes the best of what they have and has license to go a bit OTT with the descriptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something I've noticed a lot on here over the years, is how frequently women will compliment themselves on their profiles, claiming to be intelligent and good looking, that they have high standards, and will probably have names like 'sexybabe' or 'princesshottie', and eventually you stop noticing, but if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'.

Anyone else ever noticed this?"

No. Have a custard cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this thread supposed to be ironic, or are you really this spectacularly non self aware?

As in 'the brain is sexy' rather than 'my brain is sexy'? Fair enough. I've read the profiles of every person on this thread though, and only one has described themselves as attractive, and more men than women as intelligent. I actually think women are less likely to do so than men.

However Ligeia's point above may well be correct, that you notice if more in their profiles because that's what you're reading, while I tend to look at more male ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else ever noticed this?

No. Have a custard cream."

Just one?

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

For months I used to read ops name as SexyBrian

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"if a guy ever does the same, or call himself something like 'hunkystud' or 'sexymuscleboy' you immediately think 'what a twat'."

No I don't. And personally I think we are all entitled to big ourselves up on here, seeing as we're on here to attract people. I'm hardly likely to put my faults and foibles on my profile. I lack success as it is!

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

"However Ligeia's point above may well be correct, that you notice if more in their profiles because that's what you're reading, while I tend to look at more male ones. "

Ligeia? I thought that was you? No, hang on - I thought you were Ligeia. Ohhh, I'm so confuzzled, I don't know what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted "sexybrain" but it had been taken

The name or your brain

Boom Boom !!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Obviously as I am only looking for single men, I only notice their profiles, and the amount that state they are good looking always amazes me.

So I don't think it is just women or couples. But I would never have the audacity to categorise myself in that way (ignore the user name)

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Mine says I'm intelligent, because I am. I'm fairly confident I can back up that claim if required to do so.

It also says I'm not beautiful. I think my profile balances what I think is good and bad about myself. It's got photos I don't like much, but which show what I look like.

Even my name is a tongue in cheek dig at my own nature, not that many people understand it.

I'm often asked if I'm really a Virgo or told I spelt Virgo incorrectly.

I don't automatically think anyone bigging him/herself up is an idiot. It tends to be when people behave like idiots I think they're idiots.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Anyone else ever noticed this?

No. Have a custard cream."

You need to get past this biscuit thing. You're making me hungry and I'm starting to develop a Pavlovian response to your avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never quite understand why people need to describe themself, as in "good-looking", "handsome", "pretty", "not beautiful" - all of these things are in the eye of the beholder so if you have photos, surely people can decide for themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Anyone else ever noticed this?"

This is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never quite understand why people need to describe themself, as in "good-looking", "handsome", "pretty", "not beautiful" - all of these things are in the eye of the beholder so if you have photos, surely people can decide for themselves? "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

We all have a persona on here that we portray in one way or another, the user name is part of that.

...except for me of course. I really am a time-travelling inter-galactic hero and demi-god of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't matter of it was male/female or couple it puts me off whoever I prefer normal down to.earth people not someone who's up themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps should put "When I don the wig I instantly become a sex goddess of astounding beauty."

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

People write profiles?

Shit! I've just been looking at the pictures all these years!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am happy to give myself self praise, I know full well that I am a self absorbed, egotistical guy.

I am cool with it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

In my case it's an initial filter for those looking for beautiful women because my face photos aren't public, (at least not at the moment).

I'm fairly average looking, so those wanting beautiful need not apply.

If they're happy to wait to see the photos, (if I decide I'm potentially interested), then that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol

do you ? I have never noticed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol

do you ? I have never noticed that

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Yes I do sometimes, well spotted there

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol

do you ? I have never noticed that

Yes I do sometimes, well spotted there

keep up the good work

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I think I might call my self ChampionTheWonderHorse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I noticed it to op, but then I complement myself about my 6pack as well lol

do you ? I have never noticed that

Yes I do sometimes, well spotted there

keep up the good work

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Thanks pal I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am happy to give myself self praise, I know full well that I am a self absorbed, egotistical guy.

I am cool with it."

I think you might be my soul mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words and meaning are specific to the individual rendering them.

I had to choose a suit for a funeral and I went for shiny and considered poser material. My brother scorned me saying u can't wear that at a funeral its to showy. All I saw was a shiny suit.

Ppl have to be careful they are not infringing how they define things to be onto others. I guess that's where confusion and arguments begin

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"For months I used to read ops name as SexyBrian

Me to but then I saw 'the pic' lol....

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

The way some guys describe themselves often puts me off answering any message they've sent me, I feel that I wouldn't be up to their standards and wonder why they messaged me in the first place, but that's just me I suppose

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some names can come across as arrogant, but then a lot can just be crude. A fair amount is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Words and meaning are specific to the individual rendering them.

I had to choose a suit for a funeral and I went for shiny and considered poser material. My brother scorned me saying u can't wear that at a funeral its to showy. All I saw was a shiny suit.

Ppl have to be careful they are not infringing how they define things to be onto others. I guess that's where confusion and arguments begin"

Very, very true...so many arguments are essentially based on different associations with words and different beliefs on what is approrpiate. In many cases it really does not matter as it is one person's opinion versus that of another.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"The way some guys describe themselves often puts me off answering any message they've sent me, I feel that I wouldn't be up to their standards and wonder why they messaged me in the first place, but that's just me I suppose "
I quite agree that sometimes the words chosen, username and text of profile or message, can be a turn off.

And of course, one person's turn off can be another person's turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else ever noticed this?"

No I still think what a twat when women do it. Something far sexier about people who are under stated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else ever noticed this?

No. Have a custard cream.

Just one?"

Oh, alright. Have a chocolate bourbon too. And that is "too," not two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is my motto:

I train like an animal in the gym. I do whatever it takes, if that means train chest 3 hours in the gym to get a monster chest. I do it. Eat one more tuna tin. I do it. This year my goal is to get to 90kg flat in body weight. I am 82kgs now, unleash the monster within you

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Here is my motto:

That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything??

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

To answer the question.. I suppose my name can be read like that, although actually my bum is the part of me I dislike the most but after putting my pics up ages ago it got comments and Lucy (from SOTB) I think it was started calling me hot bot so I just changed it for a laugh and it's stuck in slightly different variations now for 2 years.

I don't really pay attention to usernames like that but I do think that when people describe themselves In that way on a profile it's funny.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Here is my motto:

It's a bit long for a motto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my motto:

It's a bit long for a motto!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my motto:

That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything??

"
lol not much really, but just to motivate everyone

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Here is my motto:

It's a bit long for a motto!"

That's your no-nonsense, power hungry suit vibe coming out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my motto:

It's a bit long for a motto!

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Yes it is quite long aint it lol, but fun one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my motto:

That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything??

and who's the lucky man inside him?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Here is my motto:

It's a bit long for a motto!

Yes it is quite long aint it lol, but fun one

unleash the monster mmmm I like lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

pretending*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my motto:

That's very interesting ST but What the feck has it got to do with anything??

and who's the lucky man inside him?"
That would be me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my motto:

It's a bit long for a motto!

Yes it is quite long aint it lol, but fun one

unleash the monster mmmm I like lol"
Yes, thought that was a fun one too

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

[Removed by poster at 08/02/15 19:38:47]

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman..."

"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...

"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards

she will get you......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to be Awesome-ErectJim-69, but I thought that was a bit of a mouthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is subjective, I find Mrs l attractive, she finds me attractive, so does that make us an attractive couple??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...

"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards

You're so dead!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own I say ... lol god it would be boring here if things was just normal .

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...

"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards

You're so dead!!!"

Oops, better put me affairs in order before Chams at the end of the month...just see the headlines in the Currant Bun - HAPPY HOOKER DROWNED IN HOT TUB HORROR AT SEX CLUB!!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"AmazinglyAwesomeEgotisticalSelfAbsorbedWonderWomanWhoIsTheBestShagEver_1967 was already taken when I joined

don't worry, it was s single guy preending to be a woman...

"She" changed her name to Wyrdwoman shortly afterwards

You're so dead!!!

Oops, better put me affairs in order before Chams at the end of the month...just see the headlines in the Currant Bun - HAPPY HOOKER DROWNED IN HOT TUB HORROR AT SEX CLUB!!!!"

You'll never know when it will happen. Just that it will happen.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

At least you know if you have praised yourself it was genuinely meant.

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