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"Hey guys Anyone been to chameleons club, Darlo?, what do you think about it? - We've been to Xtasia and quite like it...tempted by Chams but not sure?..." What is it that your not sure about? | |||
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"Hey guys Anyone been to chameleons club, Darlo?, what do you think about it? - We've been to Xtasia and quite like it...tempted by Chams but not sure?... What is it that your not sure about?" Nerves lol, Dress code, x | |||
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"I've been going on my own as a single fem for years now and love it like a second home almost. Lol I feel comfortable to go on my own and meet lots of great people and have a laugh with them as well as fun. Saturday nights are couple only nights if u want to try that first. ![]() We may just do that, were not to judgemental when it comes to mixed night to be honest, sometime the guys talk more and dont always try it on (at Xtasia anyway) I asume as chams seems friendly it may be the same? Not sure id have the confidence as a single woman! Go you! ![]() | |||
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"I've been going on my own as a single fem for years now and love it like a second home almost. Lol I feel comfortable to go on my own and meet lots of great people and have a laugh with them as well as fun. Saturday nights are couple only nights if u want to try that first. ![]() we really liked chameleons but bizarrely for us found the atmosphere much better on the Friday night (that allows single guys) than on the Saturday (couples) night lol - we liked it so much in fact that we missed going to the party on Saturday we were meant to ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. " You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it?" It's a good way of ing out those who are there for troublemaking purposes. | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it?" You can wear sexy lingerie, men can wear shorts, but tbh, most people dispense with even that and stick to a towel after 1/2 an hour. Nobody will judge you for having a few pounds here n there. | |||
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"I like the people at Chams,I don't like the dress code,Its ok for me as I can wear what I like but Rob hates wearing a towel,we're not really jacuzzi or spa people for swinging,and prefer dress clubs,however we have had a great time whenever we have been to Chams" You'd LOVE Abfabs. We've been a few times and it's really good. The clientelle dress up to go and you get a good mix of people from all walks of life. | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? It's a good way of ing out those who are there for troublemaking purposes." can you explain this please? Ive been going there for about 10 years now and can honestly say ive never know anyone or a incidence where anyone has gone just to cause trouble? Ok theres always going to be the odd bit of trouble, ive seen a few couples fall out there in my time, the odd guy who cant take no for an asnwer etc but not people going for the soul purpose of trouble making | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it?" People dont judge at chams. All ages...all sizes etc Its the nicest one i have been to in a mile ![]() | |||
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"I think the whole towel thing puts my partner off to as he says he cant keep them up lol, which to be honest neither can I! but i suppose all in all we wont know until we try, like most things! Thank youx" Heres a tip for keeping towels up. Go have a quick shower first and hey presto...it stays up. when you been in a while, you dont care anyways ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like the people at Chams,I don't like the dress code,Its ok for me as I can wear what I like but Rob hates wearing a towel,we're not really jacuzzi or spa people for swinging,and prefer dress clubs,however we have had a great time whenever we have been to Chams You'd LOVE Abfabs. We've been a few times and it's really good. The clientelle dress up to go and you get a good mix of people from all walks of life." Its on my to do list,Ive heard good things about it ![]() | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? People dont judge at chams. All ages...all sizes etc Its the nicest one i have been to in a mile ![]() i do understand what they mean tho I remember the first time i went i thought it was going to be like walkiing into a porn set Full of good looking, slim young women and i would stick out like a sore thumb And its nothing like that at all, its just like being in a pub with your m8s really, but with play rooms if needed, you can actually have a night there and never have to go anywhere near a play room or a naked person Once your in there and you see everyones not perfect, people of all ages, sizes and colours go, you will soon forget your stood there half undressed lol | |||
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"The first time I went, I was tremendously self conscious - hated the idea of the towel, really wanted to be dressed. Felt really uncomfortable. Second time I went was last week, and I was walking around naked at times. It didn't seem to matter. ![]() ahhh man i mssed you walking about naked ![]() ![]() | |||
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"ahhh man i mssed you walking about naked ![]() You didn't miss much... ![]() | |||
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"The first time I went, I was tremendously self conscious - hated the idea of the towel, really wanted to be dressed. Felt really uncomfortable. Second time I went was last week, and I was walking around naked at times. It didn't seem to matter. ![]() Bugger. Why did i have to get tonsilitis????? | |||
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"Er...I wasn't parading around the bar area like that, nor was I circling with the single male trail. It was just the jacuzzi to the changing room and back. Can we get back to reassuring the OP?" spoil sport ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'll send you a pic by PM, ok?" deal ![]() | |||
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"I'll send you a pic by PM, ok? deal ![]() or no deal! lol wots in box number 4? lol ![]() | |||
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"I'll send you a pic by PM, ok? deal ![]() Should have sent that by PM, to be honest! Brain wasn't engaged... | |||
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"The first time I went, I was tremendously self conscious - hated the idea of the towel, really wanted to be dressed. Felt really uncomfortable. Second time I went was last week, and I was walking around naked at times. It didn't seem to matter. ![]() Dam i missed that, only time i ever saw you was when you were hiding under the stairs ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Second time I went was last week, and I was walking around naked at times." . ![]() ![]() | |||
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"to keep towel up ether use a nappy pin or a hair clip the ones that have the teeth " or just go to wilkos and buy the Velcro ones ![]() ![]() | |||
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"......... You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? It's a good way of ing out those who are there for troublemaking purposes. can you explain this please? Ive been going there for about 10 years now and can honestly say ive never know anyone or a incidence where anyone has gone just to cause trouble? Ok theres always going to be the odd bit of trouble, ive seen a few couples fall out there in my time, the odd guy who cant take no for an asnwer etc but not people going for the soul purpose of trouble making" You're taking trouble in the people misbehaving sense. I meant trouble as in the police or the press or local busybodies or anyone really who doesn't have the best interests of swinging in their heads. Getting your kit off on admission is a bit like watching that new couple while out dooging. You don't know who they are and you don't want to wander up to their car with your cock hanging out in case they're cops or journalists. Hang back for a bit and let them get started. Once she's got her tits out or her arse against the window it's a safe bet they're not planning to put you on page 1 or in a cell. | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? You can wear sexy lingerie, men can wear shorts, but tbh, most people dispense with even that and stick to a towel after 1/2 an hour. Nobody will judge you for having a few pounds here n there." Thats a shame as I think I would feel vulnerable, and as I am a little larger than 'a few extra pounds' lingerie is out...I would feel very uncomfortable among all the beauties....oh well, thats one of our list for the future. ![]() | |||
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"Thats a shame as I think I would feel vulnerable, and as I am a little larger than 'a few extra pounds' lingerie is out...I would feel very uncomfortable among all the beauties....oh well, thats one of our list for the future. ![]() . Eh? Based on personal experience, one looses his/her self-conciousness and vulnerability soon after seeing the others strip down without a care in the world. ![]() | |||
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"Thats a shame as I think I would feel vulnerable, and as I am a little larger than 'a few extra pounds' lingerie is out...I would feel very uncomfortable among all the beauties....oh well, thats one of our list for the future. ![]() ![]() Appreciate that pearl...but trust me, no fun at all if your overweight and very concious of being so...if im not happy 'inside' I wouldnt be happy outside.. | |||
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"Thats a shame as I think I would feel vulnerable, and as I am a little larger than 'a few extra pounds' lingerie is out...I would feel very uncomfortable among all the beauties....oh well, thats one of our list for the future. ![]() ![]() Why not go on a bbw night lots of big ladies there and noone bats an eyelid. But they dont any night. Im a size 24/26 and ive never felt out of place | |||
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"Appreciate that pearl...but trust me, no fun at all if your overweight and very concious of being so...if im not happy 'inside' I wouldnt be happy outside.." . What I tried to say is that, you won't be the only one carrying extra few pounds! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why not go on a bbw night lots of big ladies there and noone bats an eyelid. But they dont any night. Im a size 24/26 and ive never felt out of place" . You beat me to it! ![]() | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it?" Self conscious - have you seen your own avatar? | |||
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"Self conscious - have you seen your own avatar?" . Face is not showing though. ![]() | |||
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"I think the whole towel thing puts my partner off to as he says he cant keep them up lol, which to be honest neither can I! but i suppose all in all we wont know until we try, like most things! Thank youx" Take your own and attach a bit of velcro to them...that way you won't be worrying about them falling off. I was really wary of going to chams...found the prospect really daunting, but a couple of good friends took me along with them and I have to say I loved it and have been back several times...only wish I lived round the corner ![]() | |||
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"Its brill----its hot! ![]() No! never,,,just making n ic words about it... ![]() | |||
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"Its brill----its hot! ![]() ![]() Well how can you comment then? | |||
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"Well how can you comment then?" . He is just agreeing with everyone else as usual! ![]() | |||
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"Why not go on a bbw night lots of big ladies there and noone bats an eyelid. But they dont any night. Im a size 24/26 and ive never felt out of place . You beat me to it! ![]() Kisses to you both...xxx As for 'own avatar'...note the skilfull camera angle..not intended to deceive..but I have to look at it as well! lol | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? You can wear sexy lingerie, men can wear shorts, but tbh, most people dispense with even that and stick to a towel after 1/2 an hour. Nobody will judge you for having a few pounds here n there. Thats a shame as I think I would feel vulnerable, and as I am a little larger than 'a few extra pounds' lingerie is out...I would feel very uncomfortable among all the beauties....oh well, thats one of our list for the future. ![]() No dont take it off your list, keep it on!!! I am also self conscious, had two kids, will never have the flat board stomach id love, no-one cared, and there was a lady at least a size 24 and everyone was chatting with her, no-one said anything to her and she looked sexy! Also when a lady (not slim) went to get out of the jacuzzi, the guys helped her out, no-one made a comment, they made sure she was safe and she wasnt slim. So dont worry about it, yes its a little uncomfortable the first time, but once you start having fun, you will forget your self consciousness, i promise that ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Chams is probably the premier swing club in the UK. It may have an undress on arrival policy but after 1/2 hour of people walking around in towels, or nothing at all, you'd feel overdressed if you were the only one in clothes. It's a cool club and the people are respectful. You have to undress virtually straight away?...not nice for people who may b a little self conscious really is it? You can wear sexy lingerie, men can wear shorts, but tbh, most people dispense with even that and stick to a towel after 1/2 an hour. Nobody will judge you for having a few pounds here n there." Its not about the fact that others wont judge..or a case of 'there are other large/ugly etc people there so dont worry about it'... Its not about how they feel..Its about how I feel inside..if they are ok with it then good luck to em...but Im not, and the fact that im oblidged to sit there like a dressed turkey in the butchers window waiting to 'be selected' while hubs has to sit in a towel or a pair of shorts..(he has a scar on his leg which he is slightly conscious about) And the mindset that it is to out those who may be there to cause trouble, in my opinion, is complete bollocks. Its a shame because Chams sounds a great place, even for non swingers like us...but I need to feel comforatble..not much to ask surely? | |||
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"Seems that CamSwing2011 has a valid opinion. However, how long will it be before Chams-Mafia that dominate the Fab site will take issue with this?" Whatever anyones' opinion is, in open forum, will of itself be subjective and valid to the poster's knowledge of the subject. The large numbers of Chameleons members who frequent this swingers site speaks volumes to the premis that their knowledge of the establishment in question engenders a (generally) positive response to the OP, with no further editorial or recourse to cliched epithet in order to distract from a clear absence of suitable realistic response to the primary interrogation. IMHO. ![]() | |||
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"Seems that CamSwing2011 has a valid opinion. However, how long will it be before Chams-Mafia that dominate the Fab site will take issue with this?" i agree that they have an opinion on how THEY feel about going to a club such as chams. if they dont feel comfortable with the dress code there then there are plenty of other clubs where people remain dressed until they wish to play that they can choose from. Why is it when yo stick up for people/clubs/places/activities on here you get knocked for it? i would think that the membership lists and waiting lists etc for Chams shows that despite what the 'chams mafia', as you put it, say it is a well like club. I personally have the opposite problem with clubs, i would feel much more self conscious if i went to a club like Xstasia and i wuld worry about what i was wearing, if i looked silly etc...at chams everyone is the same, either in sexy lingerie or a towel and i feel a lot less self conscious. Find what works for you - not everything will x | |||
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"Thought you only had to get changed when you left the bar area. If you just want to sit and drink then stay in your clothes, although a non swinging club may be a cheaper option. Chams Mafia! LOL! I live in York and have visited once and even I recognise what a great club it is." Chams: Love it! ![]() | |||
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"Love Chams. Wish they had one in Scotland!" Open one, between the two of you... You could call it McFOAMYs... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hey guys Anyone been to chameleons club, Darlo?, what do you think about it? - We've been to Xtasia and quite like it...tempted by Chams but not sure?..." Check out their website & re_iews!!! | |||
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