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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends really if they have pics or not, if they dont it makes me wonder what they look like! also sounds kinda desperate!! then again they could be the kind of people who can have sex and enjoy it with no attraction there?

miss pink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just think "desperate" i want a fussy guy cos im a fussy girl ...

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Some peeps state on their profile thats looks are not important.

If someone contacted you saying that, how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some peeps state on their profile thats looks are not important.

If someone contacted you saying that, how would you feel?"

id think that may be he thought i wasnt good looking ????...block him !!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

any hole's a goal kinda person.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'd think they were one of those people who post on the forum that "personality comes first everytime... looks are a bonus"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends really if they have pics or not, if they dont it makes me wonder what they look like! also sounds kinda desperate!! then again they could be the kind of people who can have sex and enjoy it with no attraction there?

miss pink"

...or that they have a different _iew as to what they find attractive?

some folk think that the mind is the greatest aphrodisiac...me included

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Desperate

Mercedes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minger!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will probably say they’re desperate, even though they’ll say its personality that’s most important elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth."

I don't have low self esteem!

i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

oopps gremlins lol

Any holes a goal lol yeah sounds about right would never go there where the hell has peoples standards gone these days ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i just think "desperate" i want a fussy guy cos im a fussy girl ..."

*Nods in agreement*

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

**taking notes ready for the next "looks v personality" thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they have big Tits who cares what they look like...Mine are huge so no one notices what I look like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth.

I don't have low self esteem!

i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet. "

but you have to have some attraction to them??? when im on all fours looking in my mirrored wardrobes i want to like the look of whoever is giving me the full treatment from behind ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks not important is pure baloney. Everyone has standards or if they dont they have low self worth.

I don't have low self esteem!

i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet.

but you have to have some attraction to them??? when im on all fours looking in my mirrored wardrobes i want to like the look of whoever is giving me the full treatment from behind .."

yes i do, but it has to be a mentl one. done the pretty boys to death and found that unless they have a mind to match, im not interested, yet i have found if a man can stimulate me mentally, i really dont care what they look like!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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yes i do, but it has to be a mentl one. done the pretty boys to death and found that unless they have a mind to match, im not interested, yet i have found if a man can stimulate me mentally, i really dont care what they look like!"

With you there to a certain extent, hence why I have looking for the whole package on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?"

i dont think it means "i will shag anyone"

To me i think it means, not looking for 'super models' or maybe there more interested in the perosn as whole rather than just looks

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By *ush girlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

i dont think it means "i will shag anyone"

To me i think it means, not looking for 'super models' or maybe there more interested in the perosn as whole rather than just looks"

I agree to an extent but anyone who says they don't need an attraction must be just a serial shagger. Personality will always out shine looks but you don't want a munger with bad breath facing you in the next pillow over do you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

i dont think it means "i will shag anyone"

To me i think it means, not looking for 'super models' or maybe there more interested in the perosn as whole rather than just looks

I agree to an extent but anyone who says they don't need an attraction must be just a serial shagger. Personality will always out shine looks but you don't want a munger with bad breath facing you in the next pillow over do you???

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i'm sure all those not-so-attractive, but highly intelligent men that marilyn munroe bedded woke up thinking "what a bad breathed munger"...which is possibly why she slept with them...

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By *ush girlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Haha "munger" I meant minger but for some reason predictive text changed it lol

money makes the world seem oh so attractive.

speaking of which....

Anyone know how Wayne Rooney did btw hehehe

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It would be easy to say that for us looks are not important because it’s true... to a point!

We could be presented with Mr and Mrs Drop-dead-gorgeous but if they don’t make us laugh, don’t make us feel totally comfortable etc. then it just isn’t gonna happen. There are a couple if physical things that we can’t cope with but other than that it’s a package deal, so I guess it would be more accurate if we said for us ‘you don’t have to be super-models’ but that can be misleading too so we’d have to stick to ‘package’.

What do we think when a profile says ‘looks not important’? Nothing really, whatever we read or hear we try to see the best in it. ‘Yes’ they might be totally un-fussy but what is so big and clever about having a shit list a mile long? “Oh no, I wouldn’t touch a woman unless she’s within half an inch of 36-24-36 and between 25 to 30 years old” what does that get me... no play!

Perhaps our profile should say ‘You have to guess what we think is attractive and then be it if you want to shag with us’. Fat thin, tall, short, big tits small tits, big cock small cock... what is too fat = physically incapacitated, too thin = if I wanted to shag a skeleton I’ll go dig one up... cock too small, it needs to function, cock too big, it needs to fit and so on. Somehow I’m thinking if this appeared on our profile we wouldn’t be doing so well in this hobby.

All that aside there could be a couple out there who are perfect for you in every way possible BUT if you put too much emphasis on their profile you may never meet them where you might find they will say, ‘We have many talents including social skills and sexual skills but English composition isn’t one of them’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha "munger" I meant minger but for some reason predictive text changed it lol

money makes the world seem oh so attractive.

speaking of which....

Anyone know how Wayne Rooney did btw hehehe "

he scored first

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

At the risk of sounding like a survey, looks are neither important nor unimportant.

It's just a factor. I saw a lady on cam earlier who was no supermodel, had two chins, but there was something in her smile and her eyes...confirmed in her profile...she looked lots of fun. So elements of her looks suggested personality...?!

I wonder if her standards extend down to my level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah,,,looks are important espically mine! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.

However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.

However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.

However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.

However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.

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Its -"Every hole a Goal" !

thats wot rooney says anyway...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.

However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.

However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.

Its -"Every hole a Goal" !

thats wot rooney says anyway...lol "

Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.

However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.

However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.

Its -"Every hole a Goal" !

thats wot rooney says anyway...lol

Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?"

Yeah i always like the LAST word! lol lol

regards:

adrian chilles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.

However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.

However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.

Its -"Every hole a Goal" !

thats wot rooney says anyway...lol

Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?

Yeah i always like the LAST word! lol lol

regards:

adrian chilles "

Then you realise you will potentially alienate people. Just a thought if you want people to interact with you on a positive level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While looks have merit they are not the be all and end all to induce the act of fornication. Without the visual stimulus arousal is less likely to take place.

However you can be attracted to the way someone’s mind works, their personality or their play desires. Some will find other stimulus’s cause arousal even with someone who doesn’t physically appeal.

However in the majority of cases people will not wish to have sex with someone who repulses them or they find unattractive. There are always exceptions though and that’s where the expression ‘any holes a goal’ comes in. Not pleasant but it is accurate for some.

Its -"Every hole a Goal" !

thats wot rooney says anyway...lol

Do you feel the natural desire to post after everyone and on every thread? Not a complaint by the way just an enquiry?

Yeah i always like the LAST word! lol lol

regards:

adrian chilles

Then you realise you will potentially alienate people. Just a thought if you want people to interact with you on a positive level. "

wELL ITS A only a laugh!

regards:

chritina blakey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" what does that get me... no play!

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For me personally there are certain things I look for in a playmate. If they are not there then no play it is!

It's not my intention to play with all the single men on site, shag every night or make my life revolve around swinging!

My time is limited, even more so with my new job which will involve travelling around the country again. Therefore like my other interest when I get a chance to indulge it has to be something special I enjoy. Luckily I have local playmates, if none are available and I don't feel like going out, a good book, a glass of rioja and Luther Vandross in the background is a better proposition for me than playing with someone just because.

That's what works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, that means "I'll shag anything that moves!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of a subjective statement to make, I always wonder if they are telling the truth or are insecure about their own looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its like when people have on their age range 18 to 99, to me thats the numbers side of 'looks unimportant' i dont think they would shag anyone who messaged them between the ages of 18 and 99 lol nor would they shag anyone who mailed them regardless of looks, to me it just means....'im not judgemental on age and looks', or 'i will talk to anyone with a _iew of meeting'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as wayne rooney says:

"every holes a goal" lol

seriously though i think "good looks" does help n alful lot.

but then again bad looking people can be sexy too! odd that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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...or that they have a different _iew as to what they find attractive?

some folk think that the mind is the greatest aphrodisiac...me included"

Completely agree...and it also means that you are not chasing a particular type or look but are open to people's individuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?"

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't have low self esteem!

i'm just not so shallow nor inexperienced as to believe the best sex in the world is going to be with the best looking guy on the planet. "

And also in total agreement with this one..There is no correlation betwen "socalled" good looks and the quality of a encounter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx "

You'd never hear Stevie Wonder saying that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

You'd never hear Stevie Wonder saying that. "

Have ya seen his new piano?? xx

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx "

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well he has not.. thats for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin"

that has distinct advantages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin"

Not in my case ya not lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

You'd never hear Stevie Wonder saying that.

Have ya seen his new piano?? xx "

Nope, neither has he though.

Always thought it a bit comical that a blind man sang about looking in a mirror. Why didn't someone say to him, "No man, that's the wall."

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin

Not in my case ya not lol xx "

True I can look you directly in the nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin

Not in my case ya not lol xx

True I can look you directly in the nose

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also a shorter way down to where it matters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?"

i think they will shag anything and makes me not want to contact them or reply to them so i dont

i know this is a swinging site but id like to feel sexy and wanted

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin

Not in my case ya not lol xx

True I can look you directly in the nose

also a shorter way down to where it matters? "

Trust you to realise that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think when you see that phrase on someones profile?

Means they think like me i loves a good personality

Looks are a bonus in my eyes

xx

Would have thought it a bonus if me and you can see their eyes, I;m usually up to their chin

Not in my case ya not lol xx

True I can look you directly in the nose

also a shorter way down to where it matters?

Trust you to realise that lol"

I am kind of guessing...;-)

Mind you, looks still matter even there?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


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i just think "desperate" i want a fussy guy cos im a fussy girl ..."

Ditto on that.

But you will find those with a low self esteem set low standards for meets because they fear rejection.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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i just think "desperate" i want a fussy guy cos im a fussy girl ...

Ditto on that.

But you will find those with a low self esteem set low standards for meets because they fear rejection."

Not always.... after all the munters are usually really greatful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always good looking! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybody knows what floats there boat visually,so would have to assume they were desperados!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THAT MAN OFF CORRIE! LOL

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have to feel attracted to them, looks, figure and personality, so looks are important to me.

Is someone feels looks are not are not I would steer clear personally as I am probably not going going to learn what makes them tick- I am not hear for that in great depth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some ugly peeps about! lol

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