FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Time wasters

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people say they will meet, then let you down last minute?

I've spent money on sexy lingerie, candles, stockings, toys etc.....

and guys/ couples let us down.

We cant understand it, does anyone else have this happen?

We get really horny looking forward to the evening and having fun with someone new.

It's just so annoying xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had it once. I'm either lucky or I choose carefully.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Happens all the time, has happened to us today in fact.

I don't know what goes through their heads, I just block and move on. It still rankles though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

In well over 2 years on here now, never had a timewaster or a no show.

I am careful with who I meet, and have strict criteria that work for me.

Sorry it has happened, but the only constant for people with no shows is yourself and your way of selecting meets.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

3 times a nite sometimes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people say they will meet, then let you down last minute?

I've spent money on sexy lingerie, candles, stockings, toys etc.....

and guys/ couples let us down.

We cant understand it, does anyone else have this happen?

We get really horny looking forward to the evening and having fun with someone new.

It's just so annoying xx"

Have a nice biscuit. It makes life so much more tolerable.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Why do people say they will meet, then let you down last minute?

I've spent money on sexy lingerie, candles, stockings, toys etc.....

and guys/ couples let us down.

We cant understand it, does anyone else have this happen?

We get really horny looking forward to the evening and having fun with someone new.

It's just so annoying xx

Have a nice biscuit. It makes life so much more tolerable."

I'm enjoying the HS solution to all the problems of the world. We'll all be happy. Fat.... but happy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had this happen... Yet... What a pain in the arse that must be!! I would be livid. Some people have no appreciation for other people's time & efforts.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not forgivable without notification imo, but we also need to manage our own expectations.

Work out if there's something about the other people - their commitments, distance, delay between arranging, confirming and the meet Date. How they speak about it, any hesitancy, resistance or ambiguities. If its just ourselves then what can we do differently that may secure more success?

Alot of people have family and work ties that come first, so expect that some issues may occur.

If you meet a clubs then you have a backup for play too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happened to me..........yet.

I'll slip up at some point I'm sure.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us a couple of times and while its very annoying we tend to re evaluate or choices , we love meeting single guys ourside of clubs but due to the let downs of a small minority we tend only to meet at clubs .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top