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By *rneil OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester and pembrokshire

It makes me laugh when new members complain about the amount of messages they are getting. It's a swingers site people contact you via messages if nobody contacted them they would be moaning the site is crap. Just saying

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps they don't expect 200 messages, nor know about filters or that it levels off?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish i got loads messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I set up my single profile, with filters, only minimal information and no pictures I had 300 plus messages from single guys in a couple of days. I deliberately left the account empty until after the new flag went after problems on an earlier account. I just found it rather pathetic to be honest but Iit provided an impressive block list.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I set up my single profile, with filters, only minimal information and no pictures I had 300 plus messages from single guys in a couple of days. I deliberately left the account empty until after the new flag went after problems on an earlier account. I just found it rather pathetic to be honest but Iit provided an impressive block list.

Her"

Cracks me up when people message when you first join and don't have a picture up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I set up my single profile, with filters, only minimal information and no pictures I had 300 plus messages from single guys in a couple of days. I deliberately left the account empty until after the new flag went after problems on an earlier account. I just found it rather pathetic to be honest but Iit provided an impressive block list.

Her

Cracks me up when people message when you first join and don't have a picture up!! "

Especially when they say what great pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I agree most people would rather have in inbox full of messages than be completely ignored

Even if its an unmanagable amount for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the next life (if there is one) I ever get a vajaja, I might be lucky enough to experience this phenomena.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I set my filters so I only get what I hope will be from the right people.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

Don't think I've received a message so far this year Nothing local has caught my eye, so not really fussed by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ??? People actually send messeged here ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I've received a message so far this year Nothing local has caught my eye, so not really fussed by that."

Yeah but you are a long, a long way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say we have ever been inundated enough to care about it. Some people just love to have something to moan about or attract attention.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Can't say we have ever been inundated enough to care about it. Some people just love to have something to moan about or attract attention. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wish i got loads messages lol"
I bet If they lined up your Type of reply over the time fab has been Going it would run Into many thousands and will build on that into the future along with similar sites used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer less messages. It's not often i get more messages than i can handle, but i can totally understand why people complain about it, it's very stressful getting loads and we all need to vent sometimes.

When i get too many messages i will put a status up asking people not to message me and it helps keep my inbox quiet while i sort it out. They might not be moaning if they mention it in a status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these lots of messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say we have ever been inundated enough to care about it. Some people just love to have something to moan about or attract attention. "
I,m a great believer in that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got filters set and still get around 200 per day And some women get more. It's impossible to keep on top of that many makes it harder to find the ones you want to meet because you end up doing a mass delete of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when I first set mine up..no pics and only said women looking to meet men..I was getting hundreds a day..ridiculous...just shows alot of men have no standards n will nob anything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say we have ever been inundated enough to care about it. Some people just love to have something to moan about or attract attention. "

And you have a stunning profile...

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