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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well on this site when you try to send message to meet with ppl rite.

And when they reply back. Do you meet someone from here if the answer is no they say you have to get virfy first!!!

But when you already met and have virfy then whats the problem with that then ? Sounds like ppl really dont like to meet up and have fun time.

Bit strange site.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Uhm. Maybe they just don't want to meet?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Translation please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you're verified it doesn't entitle you to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Translation please "

Not just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get verified by cam or meet someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a profile on here many moons ago, my avatar was a picture of my love muscle, got me nowhere.

So I made the decision to put some face pics up, started getting replies, and meets. Jus'sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get verified by cam or meet someone else. "

He's verified that's part of wheat doesn't quite make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get verified by cam or meet someone else.

He's verified that's part of wheat doesn't quite make sense"

I think he's saying he messaged someone who would only meet verified people and they still told him no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Translation please "

Couldn't make head nor tail. Even tried standing on my head.

No difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah people wanna meet up, otherwise they would say they aren't meeting. They might not wanna meet you and are being polite or they genuinely can't see your verifications? I can see a few.

If certain people aren't making sense to you just ask them to explain to you a bit more or stop talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well on this site when you try to send message to meet with ppl rite.

And when they reply back. Do you meet someone from here if the answer is no they say you have to get virfy first!!!

But when you already met and have virfy then whats the problem with that then ? Sounds like ppl really dont like to meet up and have fun time.

Bit strange site. "

Just needs quotes really but the gist of it is people are saying they won't meet him coz he has no verifications. So he reckons people are using this as an excuse and don't really want to meet on here.

Not sure if the people he is talking to mean they haven't been verified and can't meet until then, or if they're saying he hasn't been verified, this part is not clear to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well on this site when you try to send message to meet with ppl rite.

And when they reply back. Do you meet someone from here if the answer is no they say you have to get virfy first!!!

But when you already met and have virfy then whats the problem with that then ? Sounds like ppl really dont like to meet up and have fun time.

Bit strange site. "

Perhaps the person in question did not want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being verified entitles you to meet anyone who will only meet verified people. Or is that just a platinum membership entitlement?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you get a block, assume it's a total no. If you get a message, with a reason or without a reason, or don't get to hear from others, then assume it's a total no, unless you ever get a message to the contrary: don't chase them up, as this is likely to put a nail into many meet coffins.

Some people give reasons and they may or may not be the only reason that they're not interested - users don't have to give any reason whatsoever, so just learn that the recipients aren't interested in you and consider blocking them, so that you don't mistakenly trouble them again, if they haven't blocked you.

People take decisions usually based on a set of factors, not just one thing. They may know they won't meet verified people and so their filters are set to prevent unverified users messaging them, but often people will weigh up the overall expectation of what some others would potentially provide and, such as how much travel, how much they find you attractive, what the sex would include, availability etc etc. They may say something simple like 'you're too far away', or 'we're not after a single guy atm' but it's probably a range of things that have influenced them to decline the offer. So it's not worth homing in on a stated reason too much, as it's likely more complicated than that.

When you find it's a brick wall, don't plan to hit it again, it's foolish. Move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No use bleating.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Translation please

Not just me then"

I too was having some difficulty understanding what OP was getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Translation ...

* I want to meet someone who doesn't meet unverified people.

* I get verified.

* they still say no to me

* what's up with that?

Answer: they don't want to meet you.

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