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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

So basically I met this couple on here about 20 miles away from me, chatted properly, added each other as friends and seen each other's pictures. Fast forward to another day a meet for Friday at a hotel close to them was arranged as they prefer that and would also share cost. Got a mail today saying they prefer meets from London and up North due to discretion when we've already seen each other's photos and I didn't recognise them from anywhere and doubt if they do recognise me either. After seeing their verifications before messaging them I noticed they also met guys that were in their own city and neighbouring towns which was why I gave it a try in the first place. Just wondering if any singles or couples has experienced such before as i was a bit confused although can't and won't ask them why. And of course I've been smoothly blocked lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sound like a bit of an excuse. But you'll never know......onwards and upwards as they say

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they may have found it easier saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

They simply changed their minds and made up an easy excuse by the sounds of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling they were attempting to let you down gently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol seems they were just another one of them who teases to meet and yes then the popular block button after, classic

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

When you say met, do you mean contacted on here? or met in person?

If it is the former I would suggest that you were talking to the male of what was a couple but the wife, either no longer exists or has stopped playing but he has not deleted the profile or the photo's.

Looks like a real enough profile because of the verifications.

I'd suggest you report this to Admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've met locals before, but have now changed their mind then something could have happened in between then.

I don't mind bumping into people i've fucked, speak to them in the street, but not when i've got my kids with me.

Also, one guy local to me was well into me and i kept bumping into him at the park when out with my kids, it was awkward seeing him coz he wanted a relationship and i didn't. So this put me off meeting locals for a while. I've chilled out a bit about it again and am meeting locals for now, if i have any problems coz of it i will change my mind back to not meeting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It might be that your legal warning is so lawfully watertight, they got scared that being in receipt of your photos would cause them to be subject to some form of legal ramification even though you sent them and rather than you get their names and addresses and get them summoned to court and explain themselves with a public gallery of hooting ne'er-do-wells chortling with glee at yet another Fab legal warning doing it's business, they got scared.

Or they changed their mind about meeting you.

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Don't worry about the small stuff

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"It might be that your legal warning is so lawfully watertight, they got scared that being in receipt of your photos would cause them to be subject to some form of legal ramification even though you sent them and rather than you get their names and addresses and get them summoned to court and explain themselves with a public gallery of hooting ne'er-do-wells chortling with glee at yet another Fab legal warning doing it's business, they got scared.

Or they changed their mind about meeting you. "

brilliant

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'll have you. And we're not local either

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"lol seems they were just another one of them who teases to meet and yes then the popular block button after, classic "

Exactly what I taught while casually having my sweet and sour chicken

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"Don't worry about the small stuff "

Not necessarily worrying I try as much as possible to figure out why or what I did wrong so as not to make same mistake twice. #TeamSaveSingleGuysReputation lol

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"When you say met, do you mean contacted on here? or met in person?

If it is the former I would suggest that you were talking to the male of what was a couple but the wife, either no longer exists or has stopped playing but he has not deleted the profile or the photo's.

Looks like a real enough profile because of the verifications.

I'd suggest you report this to Admin. "

By met I mean just ran into their profile, put them in my hotlist, watched their updates before breaking into their inbox like S.W.A.T team not too keen in reporting as I haven't done it before. Here to have fun lol

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"It might be that your legal warning is so lawfully watertight, they got scared that being in receipt of your photos would cause them to be subject to some form of legal ramification even though you sent them and rather than you get their names and addresses and get them summoned to court and explain themselves with a public gallery of hooting ne'er-do-wells chortling with glee at yet another Fab legal warning doing it's business, they got scared.

Or they changed their mind about meeting you.

brilliant "

Hahaha who knows! Most likely was a change of mind after days of chatting and agreeded on a date.

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"It does sound like a bit of an excuse. But you'll never know......onwards and upwards as they say "

Part of Fab obstacles I guess.

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"I'll have you. And we're not local either "

If only I wasn't restricted

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'll have you. And we're not local either

If only I wasn't restricted "

Take it off if it's too tight!

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By *edallion OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"If they've met locals before, but have now changed their mind then something could have happened in between then.

I don't mind bumping into people i've fucked, speak to them in the street, but not when i've got my kids with me.

Also, one guy local to me was well into me and i kept bumping into him at the park when out with my kids, it was awkward seeing him coz he wanted a relationship and i didn't. So this put me off meeting locals for a while. I've chilled out a bit about it again and am meeting locals for now, if i have any problems coz of it i will change my mind back to not meeting."

That's a very good reason you have. Hope he's no longer bugging you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Past experience often directs current choices and behavior.

It's better for you and them not to meet if there's any hint of it being wrong in some possible way.

Move forwards, you likely all had positive intentions but it didn't work out.

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