FabSwingers.com forum: Broken Heart

By *rown_cock_edin OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Who was the first person to really break your heart (when you finally understood the meaning of a broken heart) and why?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever has (and long may that continue...)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have never had my heart broken, I am still with my first love and he will never hurt me - unless I ask him to

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only had my heart broken once and it was by the first guy I lived with. When I look back I wonder what poccessed me to be with him in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex. And it was awful. Had never ever felt like that before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband when he took my kids.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Unfortunately I've had a few broken hearts but they heal thank goodness and ive never let each experience harden it. Just taught me valuable lessons

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By *rown_cock_edin OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice. Both a long time ago.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I've never really had my heart broken, but have, in my mid-forties, the most powerful, all-consuming case of unrequited love I've ever experienced.

I don't for a minute claim it's as bad as having a broken heart, but it's seriously hard in its own right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had three but u learn from it pick urself up dust yrself off and carry on not worth feing sorry for urself if it wasnt meant to be it wasnt meant to be.But there is someone out there just havent met them yet.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thing is with broken hearts you can either let them affect your life or pick yourself up and dust yourself down and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The breakdown of my marriage has been really painful and affected me quite badly, although I have hidden it well for the kids sake. I am fine most of the time but have times/days when I do feel like my heart is breaking. It isn't a nice feeling but it get's easier with time xx

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

My ex. I was broken hearted when I first left, but realised as timewent on that it wasn't a healthy relationship nor a true representation of a loving one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a guy i was with for near 12 years

totally destroyed me

long time ago mind shit happens i suppose lol

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By *rown_cock_edin OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Awww may your days be filled with smiles and you mind occupied with laughter always

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Once. Couldn't hold food down for a week. I was at college when it happened. Stood outside my class and I got the worst text I could have gotten from this guy. I've been married and divorced since then, and nothing hurt more than that text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i been married and divorced since as well

couldn't be more happy now mind love life

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Who: Juliano Belletti

Where: Stade de France, Saint-Denis, Paris

When: 17/05/2006

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my ex

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

A guy I met in a bar, fell for him in a big way, we spent so much time together and got on so well. Then one day he rang and asked to meet me and told me that the girl he split with just before we met was pregnant with his baby and that he felt he should be with her and the baby. We had only been together 3 months and I was devastated.

They split up again before the baby was even born, he's since had 4 more kids all with different people. Every time a relationship goes tits up he texts me to say hi. Lol. I'm much wiser to it all now. He's a player. We are friends but that's it.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

My ex wife when she decided she needed us to separate.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been upset but I don't think I have ever been broken hearted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my heart broken twice and as much as I don't want to admit it , I've done it to someone ( not as blunt as it sounds ) .

Me when I was 17. Was madly in love and one day I just got the text!

The other was with my ex . Instead of growing some balls and sorting it out , we used to argue day in day out . Worked hard and long hours to give her everything . She lapped the money , but not me working . Had a bust up and she told me to just leave . I did and it was the hardest thing I had to do . Walking away from a house , wife , and 2 lovely kids . Instead of talking it through we just went at each other . Things were said , a few of my things damaged and then it was too late to sort out . Dealing with a broken marriage is hard , but a broken heart from losing your children never fixes . Some may think I deserve it , and I think I do . 5 years later and I still feel it every day . I see my children every other day and have them every other weekend .

I don't think a real broken heart does repair , but then maybe mine is in a different way .

Just my 2 pence worth .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate, he only went and got himself killed in an accident, the dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some girl at school. We are still friends now and see each other regularly but it hurt back then. She'll often apologise , I think she thinks it really affected me. I sulked for about a week then climed back on the horse.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No one, but I broke a lasses heart when I was at Uni, when I broke up with her. Something I wish I'd handled differently to this day

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm only aware of breaking one guys heart and he will periodical text me going on about it. It was the guy I was seeing before jay, I never loved him but he did me.

We had a row and went to go home and I said if you go and don't talk it through you don't come back, so it was his own fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ive had my heart broken,, just wish he'd have gone about breaking it in a different way to how he did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once and it was in 2007, never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought my ex husband leaving me 10 years ago broke my heart, but then when my dog died last year I realised what a broken heart felt like. I don't think anyone is capable of breaking it like that ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just once a couple of years ago. I was in a vulnerable place. He kept telling me that we would work as a couple and I believed him. Months later I found out, on face ache, he had moved in with his best mate's wife. How dumb was I? Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last ex. I couldn't eat or sleep properly for days afterwards. I don't think you recover completely; I'm now S mark II!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I thought my ex husband leaving me 10 years ago broke my heart, but then when my dog died last year I realised what a broken heart felt like. I don't think anyone is capable of breaking it like that ever again."

Oh yes! I will agree with this, this must be my only time as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only allowed it to happen once. I knew it was coming. Think it's good to experience all of what life has to offer - even the horrible bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex husband when he took my kids."
Did you get them back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in relationships and sometimes I have been hurt when they have ended. However, I've had my heart shattered into a million pieces 6 years ago, when I discovered my childs mother was advertising for intimate encounters on PlentyOfFish, we had been together 7 years and I was crushed. I hadn't slept with anyone else in almost 8 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a guy i was with for near 12 years

totally destroyed me

long time ago mind shit happens i suppose lol "
i know why I'd totally destroy you if I had the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THREE TIMES. What a wimp!

Dished a bit out as well. Reccon I deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my son pretty much destroyed me, broken heart doesn't come close to describing that. There have been several failed relationships but I am too stubborn/resiliant to let it effect me like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ex 9 years ago when she dumped me and cheated on me with a man twice her age.

I've had my heart broken many times after that but they weren't as bad as the first time but it still hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Losing my son pretty much destroyed me, broken heart doesn't come close to describing that. There have been several failed relationships but I am too stubborn/resiliant to let it effect me like that."

Can't even imagine that level of heartbreak. What was his name?

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By *hell82Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Losing my nan, brother and cousin all within 9 months was a heart breaker

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By *hell82Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Losing my son pretty much destroyed me, broken heart doesn't come close to describing that. There have been several failed relationships but I am too stubborn/resiliant to let it effect me like that.

X x x x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X x x x x x"

I lost my son when he was 20 months old, I never knew what pain felt like till that happened

No man has ever broken my heart because I have never been in love so have never cared about anyone to be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broke my own heart when through my own stupid actions broke the heart of the lass I loved

Sometimes you don't know what you've got until it's gone.

Ah well,ce la vie

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

when my grandad passed away. Horrible grief and heartbreak.

Been gutted over relationship break ups and upset, but nothing comes close to what I felt for my grandad.

Goodness knows what it's like to lose a child, some brave people on here, I know I wouldn't cope.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Once.... And then went on a sex rampage which I might add isn't the best thing to do but at least I got over him!

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