FabSwingers.com forum: Nerves

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Why do people get nervous?

I have a job interview this aft, and I am shitting it. I can't see fight or flight coming into it, as the worse thing that could happen is not getting the job and remaining on this course I am doing and get the qualification.

But my bowels have different ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you care?

If you didn't care you'd be calm as a cucumber.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Because you care?

If you didn't care you'd be calm as a cucumber. "

very true. If I don't care I'm calm, if I do I get nervous & talk a lot

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Think sometimes in these situations we just totaly out of our comfort zones? Our Bodies have an awful habbit of acting differently even if we try blag how we really feeling! Deep breaths! And good luck in your interview

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because things out of the norm make our minds wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck! I had an interview this morning and was SO nervous beforehand but once sat in front of the panel I was fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people get nervous?

But my bowels have different ideas"

Arrive a little early, go to the loo and run your hands under cold water. This was a tip given to me years ago and it really helps to calm the nerves (and avoid sweaty hands). Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you care?

If you didn't care you'd be calm as a cucumber.

very true. If I don't care I'm calm, if I do I get nervous & talk a lot"

I'm the same, the more a care about something the more I brick it and start waffling like mad....still, let it not be said there are lulls in the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some rescue remedy. Great for calming nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you care?

If you didn't care you'd be calm as a cucumber.

very true. If I don't care I'm calm, if I do I get nervous & talk a lot

I'm the same, the more a care about something the more I brick it and start waffling like mad....still, let it not be said there are lulls in the conversation

I keep having to do a double take every time i see your avatar now!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

How did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try some rescue remedy. Great for calming nerves"

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"How did it go?

Not too great. I didn't have my GCSE certificates, so they didn't interview me.

I've NEVER been asked for them before.... Ever! I got them 25 years ago. I probably lost them 24 years ago.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"How did it go?

Not too great. I didn't have my GCSE certificates, so they didn't interview me.

I've NEVER been asked for them before.... Ever! I got them 25 years ago. I probably lost them 24 years ago."

Better luck with the next one

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"How did it go?

Not too great. I didn't have my GCSE certificates, so they didn't interview me.

I've NEVER been asked for them before.... Ever! I got them 25 years ago. I probably lost them 24 years ago."

I think that's a bit unfair. Owing to the passing of years, you aren't likely to have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you hadn't got the job anyway.

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Sorry to hear you hadn't got the job anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you care?

If you didn't care you'd be calm as a cucumber.

very true. If I don't care I'm calm, if I do I get nervous & talk a lot

I'm the same, the more a care about something the more I brick it and start waffling like mad....still, let it not be said there are lulls in the conversation

I keep having to do a double take every time i see your avatar now!"

So do I and it's me! Very confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear you hadn't got the job anyway.

Ta"

That bull that is......who keeps gcse certs that long?!

Sounds like a really anal employer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people get nervous?

But my bowels have different ideas

Arrive a little early, go to the loo and run your hands under cold water. This was a tip given to me years ago and it really helps to calm the nerves (and avoid sweaty hands). Good luck!"

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Sorry to hear you hadn't got the job anyway.

That bull that is......who keeps gcse certs that long?!

Sounds like a really anal employer...."

It was HMRC (or Inland Revenue in old money)

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