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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been searching some profiles and some women who i really fancy have *Not into blacks*

honestly i find black women really attractive but if a white or asian woman was prettier than a black woman id never choose my preferance over looks. I feel majority people do that. Like i do not understand why race is an attraction. I thought face body and assets were. Want to hear peoples views

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It is to some and not to others.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you were wrong...it is important to some but not to others

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It is to the welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is people with a fun attitude

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It only seems to be important when people find a profile that excludes them somehow.

I don't mind what race a guy is as long as he's hot, fit, and hung.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield


"It only seems to be important when people find a profile that excludes them somehow.

I don't mind what race a guy is as long as he's hot, fit, and hung. "

Couldn't agree more xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Because not everyone has the same preferences as you.

If a man complained he really fancies you but you won't meet him, what would you say?

You have your own preferences so whether you understand or agree with the preferences of others, you should realise that's their right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right OP.

You want to fuck them so they should (by Default) want to fuck you too.

BUT..Unfortunately it doesn't work like that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It is to the welsh "
Don't be silly, they are not a different race!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important that you are the race a person is looking for. Wasting your time if you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree, especially here in London, white women prefer bbc, personally I fuck any race, cos that's just the kind of guy I am x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Loads of guys I really fancy aren't into fat women. It's totally unreasonable.

If I want them then it's out of order for them to say no!

After all, it's all about what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more than just race, looks and body

There's character, humour, personality

These all figure highly.

But the OP has to accept that some people have preferences. I am discounted on height grounds from some profiles, if they want 6 foot plus.

I also accept its different if it's regarding race than height and I can't be Inside your head to see how that feels. I would just say its says more about them than you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! "
did you not get the memo, apparently they are now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now "
nope, it's being principalityist.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now nope, it's being principalityist. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now nope, it's being principalityist. "
I like your avatar

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now nope, it's being principalityist. I like your avatar "
I like your avatar too

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now nope, it's being principalityist. "

Are you wearing Diamondsmiles's sheep outfit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand what people are saying but. People enjoy big people. Some enjoy older. Some enjoy tall. Fitter. I get it but. Race isnt an attraction to me. Its a colour. I dont know call me old fasioned but to me race is the last thing i look for in going through profiles. Thank you for your views guys but i personally dont agree with it. But i wont be messaging every guy couple and girl who find race an attraction. Thats them i hope they find what they looking for. But for me race is not a attraction. Just a little rant

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now nope, it's being principalityist.

Are you wearing Diamondsmiles's sheep outfit?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what people are saying but. People enjoy big people. Some enjoy older. Some enjoy tall. Fitter. I get it but. Race isnt an attraction to me. Its a colour. I dont know call me old fasioned but to me race is the last thing i look for in going through profiles. Thank you for your views guys but i personally dont agree with it. But i wont be messaging every guy couple and girl who find race an attraction. Thats them i hope they find what they looking for. But for me race is not a attraction. Just a little rant "

Rants are ok, half the stuff in this forum is a rant.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I understand what people are saying but. People enjoy big people. Some enjoy older. Some enjoy tall. Fitter. I get it but. Race isnt an attraction to me. Its a colour. I dont know call me old fasioned but to me race is the last thing i look for in going through profiles. Thank you for your views guys but i personally dont agree with it. But i wont be messaging every guy couple and girl who find race an attraction. Thats them i hope they find what they looking for. But for me race is not a attraction. Just a little rant "

Getting angry about what others find attractive in a sexual partner is just going to make you unhappy. Its not worth it really.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you can rant until the cows come home but it wont change anything ...people are people and preferences will always exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would welcome a female who is not as lily white as me, would make some great images.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I understand what people are saying but. People enjoy big people. Some enjoy older. Some enjoy tall. Fitter. I get it but. Race isnt an attraction to me. Its a colour. I dont know call me old fasioned but to me race is the last thing i look for in going through profiles. Thank you for your views guys but i personally dont agree with it. But i wont be messaging every guy couple and girl who find race an attraction. Thats them i hope they find what they looking for. But for me race is not a attraction. Just a little rant "

ranting about something you have no influence over or cant change is a waste of your time and a rant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely it is. If i wasn't a human i could be a chimp, an alien, an amoeba. Where would it end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is to the welsh Don't be silly, they are not a different race! did you not get the memo, apparently they are now nope, it's being principalityist. I like your avatar "

Good job yours is facing forwards,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race has no bearing to me. It's all about connection. We either want each other or we don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I understand what people are saying but. People enjoy big people. Some enjoy older. Some enjoy tall. Fitter. I get it but. Race isnt an attraction to me. Its a colour. I dont know call me old fasioned but to me race is the last thing i look for in going through profiles. Thank you for your views guys but i personally dont agree with it. But i wont be messaging every guy couple and girl who find race an attraction. Thats them i hope they find what they looking for. But for me race is not a attraction. Just a little rant "

It's not something that affects attraction *for you*. That's the key point.

Your way is neither the right way or the only way and you don't get to impose your way on others.

People are attracted to whom and what they are attracted to. It's not a conscious decision.

If it wasn't excluding you and preventing you from getting what you want, you wouldn't give a hoot about it.

Personally I am not bothered about someone's sex. If I like them it doesn't matter to me if they're male or female. I'm not telling you that it's unfair that you won't meet men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are attracted to who they are attracted to... yes we all have preferences, mine is young, hot with the body of a greek god irrelevant of ethnicity.... People on here will choose to condemn others for their choices but ultimately if you don't agree with the aforesaid choices .... move on! This site allows people to experience their utmost fantasies, desires and wanton urges ... so allow them to do that, If your boot doesn't fit it move on to where it does x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I could equally rant about other people trying to tell me who and what I'm permitted to be attracted to but I can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what people are saying but. People enjoy big people. Some enjoy older. Some enjoy tall. Fitter. I get it but. Race isnt an attraction to me. Its a colour. I dont know call me old fasioned but to me race is the last thing i look for in going through profiles. Thank you for your views guys but i personally dont agree with it. But i wont be messaging every guy couple and girl who find race an attraction. Thats them i hope they find what they looking for. But for me race is not a attraction. Just a little rant "

I don't understand half of what people do on here, race isn't a big deal to me either but it may well be for some people. Just leave them to it and focus on enjoying yourself with people who are interested.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Actually, one thing I can't understand, OP, is if race is not important, why do you mention yours in your username, your profile title and your profile text?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just not attracted to a look that certain nationalities have, some people are attracted to those unique features, its as simple as that, you can't help what your attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont get hang up on thr race thing on here. Get over it.

I am asian I meet and talk to people that would like to talk and meet me.

If I dont match someones preference I dont message the and thats not just to do with race, it could be interests the fact I have a beard.

I am what I am take it or leave it the decison is yours I wont lose sleep over it I wont hassle you about it.

Just live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the spark for me, if you can be yourself around your meets then go for it.

People who say they want a specific race/cock size or even weight, that's ok to me aswell, we're all here for one thing, and there being direct in what they want.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd rather concentrate on people that I click with than race but if it's their preference to not be interested based on my race then that's fine, i can't do anything about it so don't get down about it. Let them be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could be interests the fact I have a beard."

We got rejected once because of His beard, they even said "if he shaves it off we will come around right now" we carried on watching TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could be interests the fact I have a beard.

We got rejected once because of His beard, they even said "if he shaves it off we will come around right now" we carried on watching TV. "

I had that with my piercing, he said he'd meet me of I took it out, I told him not to do me any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been searching some profiles and some women who i really fancy have *Not into blacks*

honestly i find black women really attractive but if a white or asian woman was prettier than a black woman id never choose my preferance over looks. I feel majority people do that. Like i do not understand why race is an attraction. I thought face body and assets were. Want to hear peoples views "

Each to their own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id want you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Absolutely it is. If i wasn't a human i could be a chimp, an alien, an amoeba. Where would it end.

"
Either a microscopic slide or a test tube..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually, one thing I can't understand, OP, is if race is not important, why do you mention yours in your username, your profile title and your profile text?"

Not to confuse people. Ive been told because of flash some of my pics i look white. Yes i know its weird. Or that i stolen a white guys photo. But i just wanted to hear views but its gone outta control. It doesnt bother me just confused on how people find it an attraction. Anyway it is great to hear views and i stick to mine. We are all different why we have discussions and forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race isn't important

Racecars ARE important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Race isn't important

Racecars ARE important "

You guys never change. ..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no interest in anyone's race, creed or colour. If I'm attracted to someone then I'm attracted to them. But we all have preferences otherwise we would find everyone attractive and we don't.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Pointless post as personal needs are just that. You should like x and y foods but they don't please your tastes but they do others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been searching some profiles and some women who i really fancy have *Not into blacks*

honestly i find black women really attractive but if a white or asian woman was prettier than a black woman id never choose my preferance over looks. I feel majority people do that. Like i do not understand why race is an attraction. I thought face body and assets were. Want to hear peoples views "

I've been searching some blackmens profiles who I really fancy and there not into white large chicks(how very dare they

Do you see where I'm coming from, your profile has 'ebony' in the name, blue header mentioning your black, mentioning your own preferences eg age(I'm too old how very dare you your pictures etc all are filters to attract people who like blackmen, so if a woman has no blacks its what it is there preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is also too young for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He is also too young for me! "

the cheek of him

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

so presumably you are attracted to tall, small , large framed, small framed women, straight men, bi men, asian, european people etc etc ...if not ...why not ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I never see a thread on here by black guys say " for god sake why do all these white women want bbc, jeez girls, how steriotypical are you, what like all black guys have big dicks .. really??"

People have preferences deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WWC only for me. White welsh cock

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

No need to get all angry and bitter. Am pretty sure even couples of same race turn each other down talk less of a single guy. We are all here for our own fantasies which are different. Some may reject you based on huge cock size, small size, a verification on your profile from someone who doesn't play safe or has a picture of an unprotected sex with someone clearly not their partner, some white women even reject every white guy so it's not just you. Some people might because they aren't used to people of your race like not having any friend from that race not necessarily racism every time. I have been rejected as many others here have without knowing the reason(s) but I move on to someone else that I think might be interested and for a younger guy it's not that easy as most profiles want from 25years which doesn't bother me too much as I concen on those interested in people like me. No need ranting as it would put people off and who knows might block you as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I never see a thread on here by black guys say " for god sake why do all these white women want bbc, jeez girls, how steriotypical are you, what like all black guys have big dicks .. really??"

People have preferences deal with it

"

Jeez man who said anything about bbc, how very stereotypical of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I never see a thread on here by black guys say " for god sake why do all these white women want bbc, jeez girls, how steriotypical are you, what like all black guys have big dicks .. really??"

People have preferences deal with it

Jeez man who said anything about bbc, how very stereotypical of you "
hehe, these threads always the same, its always about not fitting into other peoples preferences..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I never see a thread on here by black guys say " for god sake why do all these white women want bbc, jeez girls, how steriotypical are you, what like all black guys have big dicks .. really??"

People have preferences deal with it

Jeez man who said anything about bbc, how very stereotypical of you hehe, these threads always the same, its always about not fitting into other peoples preferences.. "

that will never change

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