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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people block you for no apparent reason?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because they can.....

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

no big deal , just move on to those who dont block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I will from now on

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The reason may not be apparent but since a choice has to be,actively made to block someone then there is a reason.

Of course this being the Internet it can be an irrational or obscure reason, perhaps they don't like the colour of the wallpaper in the background, perhaps they hate selfies taken in public loos, perhaps any incidence of text speak makes their inner grammar nazi incandescent, perhaps they recognise you, perhaps, perhaps, perhaps!

You'll go crazy trying to second guess people. Accept, let go, move on.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first "

I do it and I don't consider myself ignorant, it is merely a click of a button on a pc that places a stranger on a list that reminds me there is something about them I may not care for, they are not looking to meet someone like me and a million other reasons.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

Some people use it as a filter; for either them not matching or the person not matching ;block ensures they don't contact and waste each other's time.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I suppose in a way it's handy as you won't waste your time trying to get back in touch. I have even had requests from a few guys to block them because if this reason

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There is always a reason.

You just won't know what it is.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

We had someone add us as a friend send a message, they wanted veris and as we had none they noticed said message when you do. Which we know have photo type but they blocked us so can't tell them lol

Shame as well thought they may have been very helpful in starting cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a way of filtering people out that you don't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"

What was the last thing you said to her?

You'll undoubtedly find a clue there.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Because they have a reason, whether you can understand it or not.

If someone contacted me specifically to say "I'm blocking you because ..." I'd think them a bit of a dick. Blocking someone means you don't want further contact so just do it, without further contact!

Very often being blocked is a blessing.

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By *aul_the_nudistMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM


"Some people use it as a filter; for either them not matching or the person not matching ;block ensures they don't contact and waste each other's time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"

Well as a guess.

She's found someone else she likes better.

You've pissed her off somehow

She's changed her mind

Because she can!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"

It could be accidental or there may be a reason. You can't change it. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, that's their choice. Get over it.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!"

Maybe she got bored, maybe you said something she didn't like, maybe she thought you were never going to meet, and it was wasting time, maybe she just had enough... You'll never know...

Focus on the people who want to speak to you, not those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I said bye for now I'm off too bed soon, 2 mins later im history ha ha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"This person was on my friends list for ages and we had been chatting a lot then all of a sudden.......blocked!!

Well as a guess.

She's found someone else she likes better.

You've pissed her off somehow

She's changed her mind

Because she can!"

Or she's decided that they'd been chatting/friends for so long without anything happening that it wasn't going to.

There are lots of possibilities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree I've always said that if someone does want to chat I leave them alone and I still do

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.

do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.

I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I agree I've always said that if someone does want to chat I leave them alone and I still do"

But you get hurt enough about it to start a thread and you expect them to justify themselves to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm definitely over it and great photos by the way...don't block me!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.

do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.

I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought."

*blocks View for having the audacity not to care if I block him or not * Bloody cheek!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

You could drive yourself crazy trying to work it out, I'd let it go if I were you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first "

It's not ignorant perhaps your not there type, perhaps you met someone they are related to, perhaps you've said something in the forums they don't like a block is not a punishment it's a filtering tool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great answer cheers pal

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.

do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.

I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought.

*blocks View for having the audacity not to care if I block him or not * Bloody cheek! "

I can't reply as I am not giving you another thought... dam, I just did...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just threw the question out there this is a forum after all just to get some feed back

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"because I am direct, I don't fawn over people and I will stand up for myself, I am an openly bisexual male I am blocked quite a lot.

do I care: not a jot, do I think less of the people who have exercised their right to block me..... nope.

I get on with my very happy life and don't give them another thought.

*blocks View for having the audacity not to care if I block him or not * Bloody cheek!

I can't reply as I am not giving you another thought... dam, I just did..."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People block people. It is a tool of the site.

perhaps they weren't keen on you from the start, but decided to give you a chance to grow on them, but you didn't?

I get blocked all the time. Sometimes for being an arse, sometimes for being a minger. Sometimes I don't find out I have been blocked until Face Pic Friday. Then I curl up in a little ball and cry myself to sleep, mourning the friendship that never had the chance to be*

Move on.

*not even slightly true.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I suppose in a way it's handy as you won't waste your time trying to get back in touch. I have even had requests from a few guys to block them because if this reason "

How bizarre, surely it would have been easier for them to block you

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We are new here, so hi. We always ask prospective guys a question designed to rule out possible work related contacts. A very nice guy then said he did indeed have possible work links so we very pleasantly agreed to block one another as seemed logical thing to do. We would not block without a specific reason, be that someone pushy or on occasion just a "feeling" that this person wasn't for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you for no apparent reason?"
there is always a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always a reason.

You just won't know what it is.

A"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I block for all sorts of weird and wonderful reasons

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Why do some people block you for no apparent reason?"

You know those times in life someone upsets/annoys you to the point of wishing you had a gun? On fab you have the block button......Gone.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why do some people block you for no apparent reason?"

It might not be apparent to you but there will always be a reason. You don't need to know the reason, it's their decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they can....."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is the best way to stop you're self wasting others time as you have looked at their profile and desided that you are both not looking for you're type

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I had to block someone last night... Reason - cant take no for a answer. Ive told him on many occasions that i don't want to meet him.. He sends message after message..and sent another 4 within minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they can.....

lol "
love purple ronny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have been by accident?

They'll notice eventually if they did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be no rhyme or reason to it!

Usually mid conversation.

Happened yesterday -

Received a reply to a nice conversation that had been going on with someone.

Nothing untoward in the reply - yet can't reply to her because now blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could drive yourself crazy trying to work it out, I'd let it go if I were you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never be that ignorant, I would tell them with a reason first "

I block people all the time, especially the ones who message "fancy a fuck" or "Her meet alone?" And the random adds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you for no apparent reason?"

please don't celebrate people that apply the block button as it was put there for a reason,same as friends request button. They don't need to have any reason to use it

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"There is always a reason.

You just won't know what it is.

A"

Wise words!

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