FabSwingers.com forum: As expected

By *empting Devil. OP Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Over my time on Fab I've met a lot of forumites and, of course, they have met me!

The most frequent comment is that I'm not what they expected.

Generally that is followed up by "well I don't know what I expected, just not this" which either means they gave it no thought or that I come across on the forums very differently to in real life!

What has your experience of this been?

BTW I'm not asking for opinions of other forumites, just opinions of how you are seen by what you write and how people differ when they meet you in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd one this...I have had comments such as'You look younger than I expected' to ' I liked you in your sexy underwear photos' and ' You are not my type' so I guess we all make judgements and put our expectations on the person we are about to meet to some extent. For my part, I have tried not to prejudge people but it is tricky. Like reading a novel and then seeing the movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I got was you're nice,no other feedback. I don't really care what people think of me on the forums,I'm not on here to attract men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not what they expected - in terms of appearance?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I rarely meet people and are told their opinions of my Fab persona compared to me in real life, but when they do it seems I am exactly what they expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am told my pics don't do me justice and I look better than I do in my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get "your pictures don't do you justice" or "your a lot more mature for your age than I thought you'd be" lol

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By *empting Devil. OP Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not what they expected - in terms of appearance? "

Nope. In terms of what they expect about my personality from reading my forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had a few different range of comments before. Some nice and some a little questionable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been blocked by the folk ive met from the forum so clearly im a twat lol

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By *empting Devil. OP Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I am told my pics don't do me justice and I look better than I do in my pics

I was asking in relation to how people build an image of you based on your forum posts.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The best one was that I wasn't as strict/fierce or scary as they thought I would be.

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By *empting Devil. OP Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"The best one was that I wasn't as strict/fierce or scary as they thought I would be. "

I seem to get that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get 'you're not as scary in real life' ........alot lol. (oh little do they know! The bodies under my patio said otherwise) and you 'arent up your own arse at all' No wait they do say that lol.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I get that I come across as a self absorbed twat & I thank them for their kind words...

Result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a person in virtual life will be different to the same person in real life. That's normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea? No one has ever said anything like that to me?

And I'd be far too terrified to ask. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has your experience of this been?

Interesting to say the least.

On a separate note..

I met a couple on here that I thought would be an instant clash..

I thought, no way..

...met them and they were actually really nice and a really good laugh.

There are some that have been exactly as I expected ...others have not.

Bottom line is, you can't judge people on Forum Post's alone.

But there are also underlying traits that just can't be hidden.

I read lots on here and I just find it fascinating what people say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay well I had joined back in 2011 and I was single at the time.

I explained how much I weighed in my profile and actually had pictures of my body so People could get an idea.

What pissed me off was a couple of the guys that I met for a social first said to me "you're bigger than I thought" what in the actual fuck?

I Mean clearly stating my weight and having a few body pictures, naked I might add...wasn't good enough!

So when I do eventually get back into meeting people I will probably get the same response again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Generally I get told I'm just the same only nicer

one person said they thought I would be gobby and opiniated and that they where right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I've met were as I thought they would be. I think.

Someone said I was the same in real life. I was well chuffed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only met TinaTitz and Cali (knew Cali before I started posting on the forums) from the forums.

All others we've met as a result of fab say we're just as expected - sassy, cheeky funny, naughty and good natured

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you was BL I was scared of ya .. but ya my wife now and I love ya lots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually comments relate to physical comments, rare I get much about how I come across on the forums. Probably because I never say much interesting on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to get 'you're not as scary in real life' ........alot lol. (oh little do they know! The bodies under my patio said otherwise) and you 'arent up your own arse at all' No wait they do say that lol."

Yeah but you did try to kill me....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Usually comments relate to physical comments, rare I get much about how I come across on the forums. Probably because I never say much interesting on here

But you say it naked and distract people.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What has your experience of this been?

Interesting to say the least.

On a separate note..

I met a couple on here that I thought would be an instant clash..

I thought, no way..

...met them and they were actually really nice and a really good laugh.

There are some that have been exactly as I expected ...others have not.

Bottom line is, you can't judge people on Forum Post's alone.

But there are also underlying traits that just can't be hidden.

I read lots on here and I just find it fascinating what people say.

I always remember our first meeting and that you used to sign off every post. I don't think we've ever had a whole conversation offline though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has your experience of this been?

Interesting to say the least.

On a separate note..

I met a couple on here that I thought would be an instant clash..

I thought, no way..

...met them and they were actually really nice and a really good laugh.

There are some that have been exactly as I expected ...others have not.

Bottom line is, you can't judge people on Forum Post's alone.

But there are also underlying traits that just can't be hidden.

I read lots on here and I just find it fascinating what people say.

I always remember our first meeting and that you used to sign off every post. I don't think we've ever had a whole conversation offline though.

I bumped into you at a club with the meet I was with and I didn't even know who you were then.

Bumped into you at a few socials too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning

We always get " you're both exactly as your profile states & your pics are obviously up to date " so no nasty surprises lol x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The best one was that I wasn't as strict/fierce or scary as they thought I would be. "

Yep...a recurring theme!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

In some ways I'm the same and in some ways I'm not what they expected is usually what's said, though some say I'm exactly what they expected.

A lot say I look better in person than in my photos (though I know that's not what you were asking).

People tend to find me less argumentative in person. I'd say that I'm not, but that many people won't say in person the things they feel it acceptable to say on here, at least not in the same way. My principles are the same but it shows less.

There's less scope for misunderstandings when meeting in person too as there are more methods of communication open.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think people think I'm a buffoon, even if they don't say it directly to ma face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally get told my Arse is better than my face and no wonder you don't use a face pic on fab

That and you talk out of your arse so much I can see why you use and arse avatar

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think people think I'm a buffoon, even if they don't say it directly to ma face

You're a buffoon.

HTH!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet."

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet."

Mine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I normally get told my Arse is better than my face and no wonder you don't use a face pic on fab

That and you talk out of your arse so much I can see why you use and arse avatar

I'll gladly kiss it... I mean your face, or not, I don't know - so confused!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been blocked by the folk ive met from the forum so clearly im a twat lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

im still convinced your julie andrews.. floaty dresses and sings the hills are alive.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I think people think I'm a buffoon, even if they don't say it directly to ma face

You're a buffoon.

HTH!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been told anything, I guess I don't post enough or say anything of interest for people to build an image

I do think that the internet is a strange place to try a glean a picture of a person though, it can be very easy to recognise the best and worst of a persons character and not the rounded whole. All it takes is a bad day and an angry rant and a person seems like a ill tempered defeatist whereas in reality they're a warm humourous person

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"The best one was that I wasn't as strict/fierce or scary as they thought I would be. "

Ohh you were exactly as I expected. not in the least scary..

cant remember if anyone had an opinion about me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've never met anyone from the forums.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

I wonder if you are as scary in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get told I'm far prettier in real life than my pics do me justice for.

So yeah, that's nice

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I've never met anyone from the forums.

So the fluoresant green suit was an apparition then huh ???

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

I've got crystal wheels and View coming to my party. If we can persuade Blackspice could we persuade you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality wise i think the general feedback is that im the same.. ive attended 3 group socials and have tended to be one of the louder characters/making jokes etc.

looks wise i know im a dissapointment,, im fat and have tripple chin, im short..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"personality wise i think the general feedback is that im the same.. ive attended 3 group socials and have tended to be one of the louder characters/making jokes etc.

looks wise i know im a dissapointment,, im fat and have tripple chin, im short..

I'm short, fat, spherical and old. I don't think we can take on others expectations of us. We are what we are.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm average-ish height, fat, have double chins and don't regulate my body temperature well so I sweat a lot. And I can't recognise faces.

People can take me or leave me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"personality wise i think the general feedback is that im the same.. ive attended 3 group socials and have tended to be one of the louder characters/making jokes etc.

looks wise i know im a dissapointment,, im fat and have tripple chin, im short..

I'm short, fat, spherical and old. I don't think we can take on others expectations of us. We are what we are.

You are not spherical or old! I can't argue with short but so what? Now behave!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"personality wise i think the general feedback is that im the same.. ive attended 3 group socials and have tended to be one of the louder characters/making jokes etc.

looks wise i know im a dissapointment,, im fat and have tripple chin, im short..

I'm short, fat, spherical and old. I don't think we can take on others expectations of us. We are what we are.

You're only short compared to people taller than you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Looks wise I'm exactly as expected, people who I haven't met before always have the upper hand as they come up and say hi diamond and I don't know who they are

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

I've got crystal wheels and View coming to my party. If we can persuade Blackspice could we persuade you?

Ooh yes!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

I've got crystal wheels and View coming to my party. If we can persuade Blackspice could we persuade you?

Ooh yes!!!

Working on a personalised invitation to Bkackspice right now.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I get you are tall lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely meet people from the forum but those I do meet I normally chat to extensively beforehand so there aren't usually any surprises.....I've never had anyone say that I'm different to how they thought I'd be.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Generally that I'm as mad as expected but not as scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only met one lovely lady from the forums, but I'm hoping to meet a lot more people at the Townhouse forum social in Feb.

I'm sure they'll be surprised how quiet I really am

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I've never met anyone from the forums.

So the fluoresant green suit was an apparition then huh ???

Well there was that other guy in the same outfit - talk about embarrassing!

In all honesty everyone I've met has been pretty much exactly how I'd thought they'd be. Very few surprises!

*although I thought Ryan would be taller!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I get you are tall lol

Well that is true. You don't seem tall to me. And then I remember I'm wearing 4-6" heels and you aren't!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest I've only ever had a couple of real surprises

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There are some who I can spend hours in their company and there are some only a couple of minutes but you don't get on with everyone so ive been surprised at some. I try and be the person on the tin I suppose

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I get you are tall lol

Your voice was huskier than I had imagined but otherwise your forum persona matched your at a party persona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ' you're not as I expected' for various reasons, can tell me in May when I meet some of you!

In general a few comments have been I'm easy to get on with, more talkative & way more naughty than first thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never bother to ask!...

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

It died in the foam Friday!

That was the fifth to go the same way.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

It died in the foam Friday!

That was the fifth to go the same way.

Now you were always "he plays cool but is really looking for love" to me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I get you are tall lol

Your voice was huskier than I had imagined but otherwise your forum persona matched your at a party persona.

It's years of being fag ash lil lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I never bother to ask!...

I always thought I'd see you with a knife belt and a pelt hanging from your waist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

It died in the foam Friday!

That was the fifth to go the same way.

I've bumped into you all over the place.

Funniest one was at a railway crossing in the Arse end of nowhere.

No soul in site turned the corner and you was stood there...

I was like WTF..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get ' you're not as I expected' for various reasons, can tell me in May when I meet some of you!

In general a few comments have been I'm easy to get on with, more talkative & way more naughty than first thought.

And you're way more naughtier than I thought also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never bother to ask!...

I always thought I'd see you with a knife belt and a pelt hanging from your waist.

Had you seen me last week that would have been spot on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general a few comments have been I'm easy to get on with, more talkative & way more naughty than first thought.

You bloody well are!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I never bother to ask!...

I always thought I'd see you with a knife belt and a pelt hanging from your waist.

Had you seen me last week that would have been spot on..."

All week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never bother to ask!...

I always thought I'd see you with a knife belt and a pelt hanging from your waist.

Had you seen me last week that would have been spot on...

All week?

Ok, Saturday and Sunday...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Apparently I'm shorter, a lot more sweary and naughtier in real life. Other than that, pretty much as expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My play mates always ask do you do a lot of sport? "No" says I, you must work out then? "Nope". Then they tend to run their hands from my pubic region to my chest while saying mmmmmmmmmmm such smooth skin.... by that point I feel awkward so I suck their cocks just to shut them up!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

It died in the foam Friday!

That was the fifth to go the same way.

I've bumped into you all over the place.

Funniest one was at a railway crossing in the Arse end of nowhere.

No soul in site turned the corner and you was stood there...

I was like WTF..

*note to anyone reading this! Neither of us were out dogging!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Apparently I'm shorter, a lot more sweary and naughtier in real life. Other than that, pretty much as expected."
oh I once got told not from this site that they where expecting me to swear like a trooper and talk with a black country accent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

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pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

I get a look of slight disappointment (I may possibly imagine this) since I'm one of the rare few who looks better in photos than real life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

your pics show you as cute pretty woman with a lovely smile, so in effect by saying you're just as your pics - they're telling you you are

S x

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over a year ago

"Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

It died in the foam Friday!

That was the fifth to go the same way.

huh? The fro wasn't real??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

your pics show you as cute pretty woman with a lovely smile, so in effect by saying you're just as your pics - they're telling you you are

S x"
awww thankyou

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over a year ago

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

I get a look of slight disappointment (I may possibly imagine this) since I'm one of the rare few who looks better in photos than real life..."

I think you must be imagining it....although I feel the same....I'm very good at hiding the bits I don't like in my pics.

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over a year ago

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

I get a look of slight disappointment (I may possibly imagine this) since I'm one of the rare few who looks better in photos than real life..."
im sure its just in your mind your beautiful

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over a year ago

"Apparently my photographs don't do me any justice, I'm much prettier in person

I think everyone on this thread/on fab gets told this - it's nice though. Shows we're all a friendly bunch I guess

S x

pfffft I don't, I just get told I look exactly the same

I get a look of slight disappointment (I may possibly imagine this) since I'm one of the rare few who looks better in photos than real life...

I think you must be imagining it....although I feel the same....I'm very good at hiding the bits I don't like in my pics."

Keep the lighting low....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who conclude I'm an idiot early on are rarely disappointed. Those that don't, tend to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met any of you lot yet but I expect that if i do, you may comment on the lack of a thick white winter coat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly get ignored and when I send pics I never get a reply, people must think I'm an arsey person and an idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best comment was I'm not up my own arse because its what they expected

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

People seem to find me as they expect....one of my favourite comments was 'Wow, you should advertise these more!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obi..

Where's the Fro Bro!

It died in the foam Friday!

That was the fifth to go the same way.

Fro? I thought it was a dead poodle?!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I never tend to find out, as most of my meets pop out to their car for something after 2 minutes without returning and then leave fab

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I never tend to find out, as most of my meets pop out to their car for something after 2 minutes without returning and then leave fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get ' you're not as I expected' for various reasons, can tell me in May when I meet some of you!

In general a few comments have been I'm easy to get on with, more talkative & way more naughty than first thought.

And you're way more naughtier than I thought also

That's because you were a bad influence.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I was told they expected a fire breathing dragon, but I look cute and much younger than my years.

At the time I was 54...cute and 54 don't belong in the same sentence!

You are still my fantasy social meet.

You, View, Blackspice, and Crystal Wheels are mine.

I've got crystal wheels and View coming to my party. If we can persuade Blackspice could we persuade you?

Ooh yes!!!

He hasn't said no

Get your names down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we don't really know what people's opinions of us are?

Everyone we have met and been just what we expected, apart from one person who turned out to be even better than their posting persona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get your as barking as i/we envisaged, he gets, you poor poor thing you have our sympathies!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I get your as barking as i/we envisaged, he gets, you poor poor thing you have our sympathies!

What did you expect? You are as barking as envisaged!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Despite clearly explaining up front the few people I have met on the forums have always been surprised at how metallic I am. I am part glitter, part human, part internet. It can be off putting but sexy I think.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Despite clearly explaining up front the few people I have met on the forums have always been surprised at how metallic I am. I am part glitter, part human, part internet. It can be off putting but sexy I think.

You have to sort out the glitter trails though.

I think you're better on the internet. In the real world you're so so.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

You have to sort out the glitter trails though.

I think you're better on the internet. In the real world you're so so.

Pah! You're just saying that to scare people off. Thank you. x

BTW I think you're very tall comparatively speaking.

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By *empting Devil. OP Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I get your as barking as i/we envisaged, he gets, you poor poor thing you have our sympathies!

What did you expect? You are as barking as envisaged!

I get cheese!

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over a year ago

"I get your as barking as i/we envisaged, he gets, you poor poor thing you have our sympathies!

What did you expect? You are as barking as envisaged!

I get cheese!

OI I resemble these remarks!! No wonder..... We can never get a meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest we don't really know what people's opinions of us are?

Everyone we have met and been just what we expected, apart from one person who turned out to be even better than their posting persona

That would be me of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine you fart glitter.

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By *empting Devil. OP Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I get your as barking as i/we envisaged, he gets, you poor poor thing you have our sympathies!

What did you expect? You are as barking as envisaged!

I get cheese!

OI I resemble these remarks!! No wonder..... We can never get a meet!!

I literally got cheese! I was gifted with some by a random during a social meet in a pub.

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