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By *andb69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We are noticing quite a few photographs sneaking through which show clearly recognisable girls' faces (giving a blow job etc) on a single guy's profile. Usually the man seems to take great care to ensure his own face doesn't show. Quite apart from being against Fab rules (and potentially illegal) this seems to be a real invasion of privacy and possible betrayal of trust. If reported the photos are always taken down within a few hours, but by then the damage has been done.

Because we value our privacy we might be over sensitive to this, but what do others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not interested in seeing faces or any other various female body parts on a single males profile.

It would worry me that i might end up on there!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's one reason I would never give others control over photos of me You are not sensitive you are sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are over rated anyway, I never look at them, it's the blank profiles that really appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not interested in seeing faces or any other various female body parts on a single males profile.

It would worry me that i might end up on there!"

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I often wonder if these women know their faces are being shown on here. Personally when I _iew a guys profile I want to see him,not a tiny fraction of him and a complete _iew of the woman he's with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its out of order tbh nobody knows if they gave consent and be awful to see your wife sucking a guys cock and filled at other end and she never told you! might be a turn on for some but should be stopped. We need more appreciation of this site not abuse hope admin hear it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'am glad someone else has noticed this ,I've seen quite a few recently ,with one guy in particular .Maybe the girls know about postings,but I'd be surprised if they did.If they where from a couples profile it wouldn't bother me but as it's from a mans I find it irritating (maybe I'm slightly envious) ,it's as if they're saying look at me aren't I great ,maybe I'm wrong but it does annoy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get how men think we want to see pics of their previous meets

I saw one profile and it was just a pair of tits covered in cum, I mean seriously come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get how men think we want to see pics of their previous meets

I saw one profile and it was just a pair of tits covered in cum, I mean seriously come on "

sounds from the description like they did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seem to be a lot of blokes pics who show 99% woman with 1% of his cock in the pic. I appreciate that those who approve the pics are busy, but if the male isn't in at least 45% of the pic, it perhaps should be rejected?

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By *andb69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I'm not interested in seeing faces or any other various female body parts on a single males profile.

It would worry me that i might end up on there!"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its a good filter for me, why would I want to see pictures of past conquests on a single guys profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they give their permission don't see a problem

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I keep seeing and reporting pics with photos of kids on the wall in the background, so wrong, people should be more careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem "

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"If they give their permission don't see a problem "

Its against site rules whether they give permission or not, so they need to be reported if any slip through the net.

The only faces that can be shown are the profile holders

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"There seem to be a lot of blokes pics who show 99% woman with 1% of his cock in the pic. I appreciate that those who approve the pics are busy, but if the male isn't in at least 45% of the pic, it perhaps should be rejected?"

As long as the profile holder is in the pics it will be approved.

Gawd help any pic mods having to calculate percentages based on a tiny little pic of 3 or 4 flayling bodies

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be a lot of blokes pics who show 99% woman with 1% of his cock in the pic. I appreciate that those who approve the pics are busy, but if the male isn't in at least 45% of the pic, it perhaps should be rejected?

As long as the profile holder is in the pics it will be approved.

Gawd help any pic mods having to calculate percentages based on a tiny little pic of 3 or 4 flayling bodies

"

totally get your point. But a pic of a woman from chin to thigh, with the male poster showing the base of his cock as he leant back to take the pic isnt really a pic of the male.

But yes, it must be a nightmare for admins

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

"

So only couples can upload action shots and they get rejected unless you are 100% sure that the 2 headless bodies belong to the profile holders?

Have to say it wouldnt be a hardship for me but I think some other people wouldnt be happy with that

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nothing much on here annoys me, but that really does

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd never meet anyone so indiscreet and disrespectful. Who knows what else they might do?

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her "

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

So only couples can upload action shots and they get rejected unless you are 100% sure that the 2 headless bodies belong to the profile holders?

Have to say it wouldnt be a hardship for me but I think some other people wouldnt be happy with that"

I don't like action shots - they do not influence me to meet (sometimes exactly the opposite)... I'd much prefer a decent couple of body shots. But then as I have been told, I'm a prude anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her "

you might be meeting her if he hasn't washed his cock proper..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of pics with me and playmates in them, with consent from them.Eyes are edited out and portions of the face...plus I make sure my meet hs seen before I've uploaded.

seen plenty of couples profiles with recognisable faces that arent them in their pics too.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a pic were we were asked to take down of the mrs and myself playing taken at ours in the bedroom

It got reported for some reason we got asked to remove it within hours or our profile will be removed

Personally i think this happens to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

So only couples can upload action shots and they get rejected unless you are 100% sure that the 2 headless bodies belong to the profile holders?

Have to say it wouldnt be a hardship for me but I think some other people wouldnt be happy with that"

I couldnt really give a toss what people think if I have pics of others on my profile...and neither do my meets.

we engage before and after what we like, more often than not its some filthy pics of our meetup(s) as well as having a good laugh and shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

"

Same with couples though.

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By *andb69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her "

Could you tell me how someone who is not registered on Fab can give their permission for a photograph to be uploaded? I think you will find there isn't any way to do this

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

Same with couples though."

Completely agree, sorry should have stated that profile pics should match the people on the profile. Single ladies, only them etc.

I wouldn't meet a single from a couples profile, nor would I meet a couple from a single - and dislike the guess who it is pictures where you aren't sure who is who...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her

Could you tell me how someone who is not registered on Fab can give their permission for a photograph to be uploaded? I think you will find there isn't any way to do this"

If you're stupid enough to let someone take a photo of you, consent is surely implied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single guys pictures should be of single guys.

If they have a load of photos of other ladies, then damn sure I am not adding myself to that portfolio!

Same with couples though.

Completely agree, sorry should have stated that profile pics should match the people on the profile. Single ladies, only them etc.

I wouldn't meet a single from a couples profile, nor would I meet a couple from a single - and dislike the guess who it is pictures where you aren't sure who is who... "

I know it might sound I'm getting at your 'prudeness' lol- but a vast majority of us like group sex..s well as pics..

why shouldnt we display our way of meeting?-a log as its within the rules obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her

Could you tell me how someone who is not registered on Fab can give their permission for a photograph to be uploaded? I think you will find there isn't any way to do this"
maybe pics of more than the holder of a single profile should only be for friends and not be shown pubicly?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"If they give their permission don't see a problem "

If the other person is identifiable, it's against the rules.

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By *andb69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her

Could you tell me how someone who is not registered on Fab can give their permission for a photograph to be uploaded? I think you will find there isn't any way to do this

If you're stupid enough to let someone take a photo of you, consent is surely implied. "

Far from it - many people enjoy photography as part of their private sex life. There is no implied consent for one of the pair to then splash the images across the internet. This is precisely why the UK government has just introduced a new law covering "Revenge Porn". How do we know that some of the uploaded images are not flouting that law?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"We are noticing quite a few photographs sneaking through which show clearly recognisable girls' faces (giving a blow job etc) on a single guy's profile. Usually the man seems to take great care to ensure his own face doesn't show. Quite apart from being against Fab rules (and potentially illegal) this seems to be a real invasion of privacy and possible betrayal of trust. If reported the photos are always taken down within a few hours, but by then the damage has been done.

Because we value our privacy we might be over sensitive to this, but what do others think?"

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Its very irresponsible.

Im sure we can report the profile to the admin.

Couple pics can be taken in such a way to hide the face of the

partner...so there should be no excuse.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When I see pics of a lass on a single guy's profile I always here Brucie saying, 'Didn't they do well?'

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"

I know it might sound I'm getting at your 'prudeness' lol- but a vast majority of us like group sex..s well as pics..

why shouldnt we display our way of meeting?-a log as its within the rules obviously"

I enjoy group sex with like minded people... I just don't see the need to share those images with people who were not there.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"When I see pics of a lass on a single guy's profile I always here Brucie saying, 'Didn't they do well?' "

Or check the veris, and see if she is still meeting... and bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know it might sound I'm getting at your 'prudeness' lol- but a vast majority of us like group sex..s well as pics..

why shouldnt we display our way of meeting?-a log as its within the rules obviously

I enjoy group sex with like minded people... I just don't see the need to share those images with people who were not there. "

well I'm saying it is OUR choice to display the pictures..regardless of who wasnt there.I dont think its wrong to enjoy being voyeured, even by people you havent met or wouldnt meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I feel cheated when there's too much of someone else in a pic and it's definitely wrong that users do this. They're possibly a cause of other single men messaging them, so it's not without its payback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all about respect.....and some people just do not have any,for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem

The problem for me is if I'm looking for a guy I want to see pics of him not pics of just his cock getting sucked, I don't care what his last shag looked like I'm not meeting her

Could you tell me how someone who is not registered on Fab can give their permission for a photograph to be uploaded? I think you will find there isn't any way to do this"

I was assuming they're all on here I guess.

Gott to say, all my pics 'protect the innocent' and are only available on request, I do find pics really horny though, my bits have appeared on others profiles (not my face granted) and I'm quite flattered but I wouldn't dream of sharing pics without the other parties permission or taking steps to protect identities.

Take the point that ladies want to see the guy only though hence my pic selection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my own information really, when the ladies select taking pics as one of their preferences, what does that infer....surely it's a bit more intimate than selfies isn't it? Or am I being naive here, genuine question.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Jeeez you lot do go on, poor single men, it wasn't till half way down the thread that someone seemed to realise how sexist it was and added the same comment for single ladies too.

I have pics of me with friends and yes they all knew about it as it was the guys actually taking the pics at the time, I am also on a few friends profiles and yes I knew about them too.

I am sure if anything was too remiss admin would of dealt with it, you all spend far too much time worrying about what other people do on here

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By *ollyDayDreamerWoman
over a year ago

Gorleston

I thought it was just me who was totally put off when seeing another woman in a single males profile.....Phew!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had pics attached to a message that were almost all of women with barely anything of the man. I asked why they think I want to see women having sex. One said to see the kind of women I have sex with. Why would that be attractive to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my own information really, when the ladies select taking pics as one of their preferences, what does that infer....surely it's a bit more intimate than selfies isn't it? Or am I being naive here, genuine question."

For me, yes it's more intimate than selfies and it can be taking photos with a partner.

I wouldn't expect to see them show up on the guy's public photos though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my own information really, when the ladies select taking pics as one of their preferences, what does that infer....surely it's a bit more intimate than selfies isn't it? Or am I being naive here, genuine question.

For me, yes it's more intimate than selfies and it can be taking photos with a partner.

I wouldn't expect to see them show up on the guy's public photos though. "

Not when they are trying to attract other women with them. If it's just for people who like looking at those pics then fine but if they are here to meet women I don't find it attractive in the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically,you get lots of couples' photos with just the woman and no man in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they give their permission don't see a problem "

True but I do often wonder, I have seen a fair few profiles that say, safe sex only all bareback pics are with my ex partner

And I think I wonder how many ex girlfriends really give permission for their pics to be shown on a public website In order to aid their ex in getting a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironically,you get lots of couples' photos with just the woman and no man in them "

Bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if they are uploaded with the other person's permission, I still find it a strange way to try to encourage others to meet. Fine if there's a selection of different photos as well, but if I was going to meet someone I'd rather see a photo of their face or body, not two inches of their cock disappearing into someone else's mouth.

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By *andb69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Ironically,you get lots of couples' photos with just the woman and no man in them "

We don't see the irony in this given all the complaints about the pictures of men's cocks.

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By *andb69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Jeeez you lot do go on, poor single men, it wasn't till half way down the thread that someone seemed to realise how sexist it was and added the same comment for single ladies too.

I have pics of me with friends and yes they all knew about it as it was the guys actually taking the pics at the time, I am also on a few friends profiles and yes I knew about them too.

I am sure if anything was too remiss admin would of dealt with it, you all spend far too much time worrying about what other people do on here "

The point is not that other people are in the picture it is that some people are willing (against the rules and possibly against the law) to show the faces of others who cannot give their consent, yet go out of their way to hide their own faces.

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