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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A young woman said im too toned? Do women like a fatter guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure you aren't confusing her words and she said two toned. Maybe she didn't like your fake tan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No tan at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can you take a comment like that seriously lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can't really tell by your photos most are just women's faces with your cock in their mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

Is this a self admiration fishing thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it as well many times and that I spend to much time in the gym lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women do. Some women don't. Some women don't give a fuck......bit like most things in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had it as well many times and that I spend to much time in the gym lol "

Me to mate hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just that particular woman prefers a non-toned guy? Bit of a sweeping generalisation based on one comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had it as well many times and that I spend to much time in the gym lol

Me to mate hahaha"
Yes pal, we cant win them all can we lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

Is this a self admiration fishing thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally as a bigger girl I prefer bigger men as a rule. however there are always exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can anyone be too toned or did she think she wasn't good enough for you because she wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Really ?? which pictures was she looking at ??

seems to be a think here where people say strange things like that in order to put people off..

Rather like I don't meet silver or gold members.. I have seen that a few times but too muscular that is a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men. If I like a man who is toned it's because I like him,not his muscles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned "

I don't think it would be because of your size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had it as well many times and that I spend to much time in the gym lol "

Me too but then again I just hand the towels out

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah i get this all the time......-_- haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. "
I don't get why so many compare the real world to this, cos you wouldn't approach a woman the same way as you do on here in the real world as you cant compare it as this is for sex, so if it is for one night, why not go for it?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned "

I'm an 18/20 and I have met a lot of toned men.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I personally dont like overly toned men Like an average everyday sort of bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. I don't get why so many compare the real world to this, cos you wouldn't approach a woman the same way as you do on here in the real world as you cant compare it as this is for sex, so if it is for one night, why not go for it?."

Yes its just for fun, I only meet men for an hour so its hardly the same as looking for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned

I'm an 18/20 and I have met a lot of toned men. "

Ive met one really toned man but at that time,I had lost four stone in weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned

I don't think it would be because of your size."

wish I knew the reason then

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. I don't get why so many compare the real world to this, cos you wouldn't approach a woman the same way as you do on here in the real world as you cant compare it as this is for sex, so if it is for one night, why not go for it?.

Yes its just for fun, I only meet men for an hour so its hardly the same as looking for a relationship."
Yes that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep in reasonable shape, think I'm pretty good for my age, I don't think I compare to some of the guys on here (not that I want to tbh) but I have actually had the same.

I may be wrong but, let's be honest, with the ratios on here I suspect that the women can afford to be very particular in what they want, so if they want to meet an un-toned man, I rekon they've got a pretty good chance.

Anyhow, it's their choice isn't it and I respect that. Ask yourself, if the tables were turned and tons of women were scrabbling to meet a lot fewer blokes, would you be choosy (blonde/brunette-bbw/athletic - big boobs/ little boobs) I suspect so.

Horses for courses my friend. Onwards and upwards (hopefully) lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Each to their own, you weren't her personal choice.

As to the ladies on here who like me are on larger side, how do you know they wouldn't look at you in real life? I've at least 3 male friends who are very buff themselves married to ladies size 20 plus they really love larger curvier girls one of them its his 2nd marriage and he's actually gone for someone larger this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was telling fibs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "

I agree with this post and have deleted emails from 'out of my league' guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like toned but as the saying goes ~ each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned "
ironic that i prefer a larger woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had it as well many times and that I spend to much time in the gym lol "

and ive heard you like gladiator films

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "

Is our date off then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A young woman said im too toned? Do women like a fatter guy?"

Too toned

Isn't that an old record label?

Madness, the specials, selector etc

Oops I did it again, showed my age.....

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Could be down to her own insecurities with her body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend once told a guy he was too nice to just fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my men to be in tip top condition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own, you weren't her personal choice.

As to the ladies on here who like me are on larger side, how do you know they wouldn't look at you in real life? I've at least 3 male friends who are very buff themselves married to ladies size 20 plus they really love larger curvier girls one of them its his 2nd marriage and he's actually gone for someone larger this time. "

Yes that too, have known lots of fat women who were married to fit looking men and stayed married as well, I was a size 20 when I met my hubby hes always been slim that's because he does all the hard work.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Really ?? which pictures was she looking at ??

seems to be a think here where people say strange things like that in order to put people off..

Rather like I don't meet silver or gold members.. I have seen that a few times but too muscular that is a new one "

to all of that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world. "

It sounds as if you have plenty of experience on the subject

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either "

Same here. If I get the feeling anyone just sees me as a convenient set of holes or in terms of something specific they want, (like a particular kink), I'll decline.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Sounds like a different excuse for the thanks but no thanks to me.., I was told I was too good looking once... Shoulda gone to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like not joining the gym could be a blessing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have turned men down in the past for being too fit looking or too good looking, they wouldn't lol at me twice in the real world so I wouldn't meet them off here either

Yes but what about the men who aren't fit or that good looking who wouldn't look at you twice in the real world.

It sounds as if you have plenty of experience on the subject "

just saying, just because a bloke is fit and doesn't want to know you in the real world what makes you think that the unfit ones would, just because they aren't fit. this is my confused face by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure you aren't confusing her words and she said two toned. Maybe she didn't like your fake tan. "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sometimes people say things like that in an attempt to let you down nicely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't too toned. Don't start hitting the pies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people say things like that in an attempt to let you down nicely.."

yes, sometimes if someone likes to mention how good looking they are or how good looking their meets were I think I wouldn't like them because they are overly vain or concerned about looks so I say thanks but youre too good looking for me.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Must admit, I'm not a massive fan of the ripped/fully toned muscley look.

I like my guys well built, strong but with a little extra padding (I guess you could call it the old "rugby player" physique).

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find toned men dont generally want to meet women my size. Id feel the same tbh as the lady you mentioned ironic that i prefer a larger woman"

having read your profile, its not my bum and boobs that are big, I have a belly too. you also like slimmer women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A young woman said im too toned? Do women like a fatter guy?

Too toned

Isn't that an old record label?

Madness, the specials, selector etc

Oops I did it again, showed my age....."

It might be Madness to meet the OP, or didn't like the Undertone to his profile. I think it was Bad Manners of her to say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had it as well many times and that I spend to much time in the gym lol

Me too but then again I just hand the towels out "
lol that's fun as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buster he sold the heat,

With a rocksteady beat.

An earthquake is erupting,

But not in orange street......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it. delete and move on. There will always be people who don't want to meet you, for whatever reason. The reason is irrelevant really, as it's an individual preference. And people are all different and want different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, carry on eating creme eggs two at a time.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Honestly sounds like a polite no thanks to me.

Why worry about what someone who doesn't want to meet thinks about you? I don't get it. I'm not to everyone's taste, but I move on and keep looking.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont over analyse things ...if someone decides you arent for them then just move on regardless of the reason they give ...you will never be everyones cup of tea !

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