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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ma'am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really bothered by it. It just goes in the file B1N

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We don't hate it.

We just ignore it.

Use it as another filter!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't hate it.

We just ignore it.

Use it as another filter!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc "

Yes.

Familiarity comes with time and permission from you.

Terms like baby, hun, etc are just as they sound- over familiar.

However there are a great deal of people on here who just see this site as a numbers game and they keep trying the same old thing loads of times hoping for a bite. If you don't offer something they just move on to the next.

If they read your profile, fit the bill, and treat you with respect they might stand a chance of meeting you however a lot of people on here can't be bothered to take that time and just want a quick fuck.

We hope you are contacted by decent people in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest they can call me what they like. I don't sweat the small stuff

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not keen on it, if they continue I ask them to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love some one to be over familiar with me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc "
Hate is a vastly overused word to imply mild irritation. I don't hate anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends who it's from.

Generally any sort of pet-name pisses me off..but some have said it and it's ok depending on who it is.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I hate the assumptions that all they have to do is message, say a few compliments and I'll snap their hand off to drag them into bed...

But some are amusing, if not then I'll just use the block button....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc Hate is a vastly overused word to imply mild irritation. I don't hate anything?"

Its not.. Hate is to detest, dislike, loathe etc

So if someones dislikes something strongly which the OP does then it is actually hate its just a word that is used to convey a multitude of feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby" or "Darling" doesn't sound quite right to me, without knowing the person well of course.

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc Hate is a vastly overused word to imply mild irritation. I don't hate anything?"

Maybe mis-used by some but dont assume thats the case by all. Everyone has the capability todispise certain things and to them it is much more than a mild annoyance

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there is no perfect massage, more often than not you can't do right for doing wrong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is no perfect massage, more often than not you can't do right for doing wrong...."

I had a massage once that was pretty much perfect.. ...in fact quite a few

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"there is no perfect massage, more often than not you can't do right for doing wrong...."

I dont require a perfectly constructed message, just dont like when people act like they know me when they dont

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


""Baby" or "Darling" doesn't sound quite right to me, without knowing the person well of course."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"there is no perfect massage, more often than not you can't do right for doing wrong....

I dont require a perfectly constructed message, just dont like when people act like they know me when they dont "

oh well, they will know now then

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"there is no perfect massage, more often than not you can't do right for doing wrong...."

Start at the neck rather than the feet (as they may be ticklish!)

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put things like darlin, babe or sweety in messages because I know it can offend some people. It doesn't bother me at all if I receive it though because I don't see it as any different to speaking to a bloke and saying mate or pal.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

As long as its not over used or used patronisingly then it dosent bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc "
need help with the decorating saz baby!?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes hun,baby,darling ,sexy all in first messages used a few times *shudders*

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"When people are over familiar with with you in and opening message by using terms such as baby etc need help with the decorating saz baby!? "

That message would have been fine without the baby on the end. Please excuse me while I breathe and count to 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is no perfect massage, more often than not you can't do right for doing wrong....

Start at the neck rather than the feet (as they may be ticklish!)

A"

I missed that one

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By *cankeepMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes, I bloody hate 'x's from people on the first hello (especially from blokes). I mean, if someone you'd never met before walked past you in the street and said "Hi!" and landed a kiss on you, I'd be bit freaked!

Mind you, it seems to be a reflexive thing for some people - I have a very good friend who totally showers her texts and emails with 'x's. Again, if I was kissed half way through and at the end of every sentence whilst talking, I'd be a bit freaked!

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