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By *olly Rogerer OP   Man
over a year ago

Braintree

Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

C. Always C.

Followed by;

D. Close all of the doors and windows and stick the gas on.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't send messages but if i did.... I wouldn't ask why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B.)

Sometimes

C)

I did take the option C once and got a shitty reply back asking why I deleted the message lol!

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

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By *olly Rogerer OP   Man
over a year ago

Braintree

I myself am C. But it got me thinking, they have taken the time to politely decline and then i am thinking, would a "thanks for replying, good luck message" do any harm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C if I sent messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply with a simple thanks, enjoy your day, type message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't send messages but if i did.... I wouldn't ask why"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually B, once I then recieved back "no problem" to which I replied "you're welcome". we continued the polite replies for several more turns, was probably the longest message exchange I'd had at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply with that's fine, bye, then I block them lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

C). And I make a note on their profile so I don't contact them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C.

But that's bitten me on the ass a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly B)

Never A)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

Just your standard "No problem,hope you find what you're looking for,take care n have lots of fun" type message.....sometimes get the "thanks you too" replies,sometimes not.

I'm here for fun,not to spit my dummy out and spew forth abuse to anyone that doesn't reply/want to play........that's just pure crazy fucking mental!(n not in a nice way like me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say no thanks I know they are playing hard to get so I stalk them to the ends of the earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nice to be polite and say 'thanks anyway' ,takes seconds to write and shows a bit of respect/manners

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

B - with a msg saying I may msg them again in a month or two to see if they have lowered their standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

"

You forgot D

Tell them they are a fat cunt who you didn't want to meet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood. "

Hence a possible reason why no success for you so far?

Myself either B or C

One B message....as with another poster led to a few back n forth messages ......and then her suggesting a meet. We met several more times too. So it does pay to be polite!

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA


"Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

You forgot D

Tell them they are a fat cunt who you didn't want to meet anyway "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B followed by a "I must look like a man" self annoyance session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood.

Hence a possible reason why no success for you so far?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B polite 'No thanks' always get a polite response

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood.

Hence a possible reason why no success for you so far?

"

whooooosh moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

"

Always, always thank them for bothering to reply. Manners cost nothing!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always a polite B. . Manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood. "

Does it matter why? It wont change their mind so why make an issue out of it?

My biggest pet hate on here are guys who ask why when I say no thanks to them, these type of questions never end happy I find 90% of men who ask why finish the message session abusively, because guys who can't take a simple no thanks certainly can't handle the truth when you tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I question my very existence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B - with a msg saying I may msg them again in a month or two to see if they have lowered their standards "

Ha ha! Like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood.

Does it matter why? It wont change their mind so why make an issue out of it?

"

Repeated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest pet hate on here are guys who ask why when I say no thanks to them, these type of questions never end happy I find 90% of men who ask why finish the message session abusively, because guys who can't take a simple no thanks certainly can't handle the truth when you tell them"

Well said, that girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood.

Does it matter why? It wont change their mind so why make an issue out of it?

Repeated "

Haha you've got a right attitude problem haven't you

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By *olly Rogerer OP   Man
over a year ago

Braintree


"Always A. I demand to know what possible reasons they have for turning down someone they've never had contact with apart from the few lines of text I've sent. Ignorant fucks. Grrr, it does boil my blood.

Does it matter why? It wont change their mind so why make an issue out of it?

My biggest pet hate on here are guys who ask why when I say no thanks to them, these type of questions never end happy I find 90% of men who ask why finish the message session abusively, because guys who can't take a simple no thanks certainly can't handle the truth when you tell them"

im sure he was taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

"

My usual response is C. Since no one is obliged to reply to messages, so they didn't have to even send me a "no thanks" reply.

B - sometimes, depending on what they've said as their, " no thanks".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B mainly.

Manners cost nothing.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"B mainly.

Manners cost nothing."

Manners? To further message someone who has said they aren't interested?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Since I prefer C as a response when I say no thanks, I do the same when someone says no thanks to me. I also make a note that they aren't interested.

Saying 'No thanks' means I am not interested and don't want further messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B mainly.

Manners cost nothing.

Manners? To further message someone who has said they aren't interested?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I prefer C as a response when I say no thanks, I do the same when someone says no thanks to me. I also make a note that they aren't interested.

Saying 'No thanks' means I am not interested and don't want further messages."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

You forgot D

Tell them they are a fat cunt who you didn't want to meet anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me once. The guy explained he's into bigger girls. I thanked him for his reply and wished him luck on fab. Simples! xx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Good evening fellow singletons. (Mainly men i admit for this one)

When you send a message to another single or couple, we all know by reading threads that some get annoyed by no response. But when you do get a "no thanks" do you

A/ ask why not

B/ send another message thanking them for at least replying

C/ delete the message without doing anything

My usual response is C. Since no one is obliged to reply to messages, so they didn't have to even send me a "no thanks" reply.

B - sometimes, depending on what they've said as their, " no thanks"."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually B, once I then recieved back "no problem" to which I replied "you're welcome". we continued the polite replies for several more turns, was probably the longest message exchange I'd had at the time"

Story of my life

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