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What do you men like to see women wear on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you men like to see women wear on a meet .? Nice fitting jeans .? Heels? stockings or a dress ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile

The rest is window dressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A smile

The rest is window dressing "
lol xxx its good to smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like tight jeans. My first thought is they're going to be a bugger to get off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understated on appearance but sexy under is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something she is very comfortable wearing - her fave jeans, simple top.

Seeing a woman comfortable in her own skin and what she has against it is far, far sexier than her being glammed up with an inch of slap on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something they're comfy in....

Some of my best times have been with lasses I knew well enough they'd be comfortable enough with me I'd go round and they'd be in pyjamas or t shirt and trackies or some such things

The packaging doesn't fuss me too much to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't like tight jeans. My first thought is they're going to be a bugger to get off. "
lol I love them make my legs look really long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what I feel comfortable in not what a guy wants to see me in.. I'm not into the whole dressing up in sexy lingerie etc.. a nice matching bra and knickers some nice jeans and a wee top is my usual outfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear whatever feels most casual and comfortable for you, the goal is to see you naked anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something they're comfy in....

Some of my best times have been with lasses I knew well enough they'd be comfortable enough with me I'd go round and they'd be in pyjamas or t shirt and trackies or some such things

The packaging doesn't fuss me too much to be honest. "

Love turning up in my pj's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight dress and lingerie only works if the woman is not self conscious wearing it.

Let's face it, who doesn't like cleavage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As little as possible

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Something she is very comfortable wearing - her fave jeans, simple top.

Seeing a woman comfortable in her own skin and what she has against it is far, far sexier than her being glammed up with an inch of slap on...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are on an actual meet not a social..... I like them to be wearing me and my wife xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

El usually goes top short skirt no knickers high heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do like stockings and heels but main thing is what your comfortable in

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Just turning up.... Is a start.. Anything else is a bonus..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I HATE it when I get asked this question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to go against the trend, and I like to dress up, at least a bit.

I'm a massive attention slut so I like it when guys stop and look at me when I'm dressed up. And that doesn't happen when I'm slumming it.

Plus I like escaping from my very mundane, dull life and dressing up helps me pretend I'm not a stay at home mum and maybe I'm a tiny bit more exciting than that.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Whatever makes her feel confident and sexy.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm going to go against the trend, and I like to dress up, at least a bit.

I'm a massive attention slut so I like it when guys stop and look at me when I'm dressed up. And that doesn't happen when I'm slumming it.

Plus I like escaping from my very mundane, dull life and dressing up helps me pretend I'm not a stay at home mum and maybe I'm a tiny bit more exciting than that."
yes I like to dress up too its makes me feel good when I do and makes it feel special. x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Anything that makes her feel confident and sexy..

If she's confident she'll look and feelgood

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I wear what I feel comfortable in not what a guy wants to see me in.. I'm not into the whole dressing up in sexy lingerie etc.. a nice matching bra and knickers some nice jeans and a wee top is my usual outfit "

I don't really dress up for a meet. Jeans and a nice top, in summer ballerina pumps & in winter boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always put in some effort - whether I'm going to Sainsburys or going on a meet. I will pay more attention to make up etc, but that's part of my look and has been for several years. (I worked as a make up artist for a bit, and eventually would chop off a finger to work at MAC)... but I dress for me, not for the guy I'm seeing. I also feel my sexiest in matching bra and pants, but stockings are a logistical nightmare for me, so would rather put them on in the bedroom...

Funnily enough, the lovely man I'm seeing at the moment seems to find me MORE attractive in my pyjamas, with no make up on... whilst he doesn't mind my wet look stockings or my thongs, he likes me for me, and not the bra I'm wearing... which is totally at odds with how I'm used to being perceived... but it's quite nice actually! (I still put some effort in though, but that, as I say, is for me. ! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that they are comfortable in and something in which they can be themselves.

The reason we're meeting is because i'm attracted to her one way or another. And that is unlikely to change.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to go against the trend, and I like to dress up, at least a bit.

I'm a massive attention slut so I like it when guys stop and look at me when I'm dressed up. And that doesn't happen when I'm slumming it.

Plus I like escaping from my very mundane, dull life and dressing up helps me pretend I'm not a stay at home mum and maybe I'm a tiny bit more exciting than that."

When you do dress up - do you feel comfortable in it or do you feel self conscious?

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I like the lady to have made an effort if we are on a social meet as I always do.

If it's a sex meet I love body stockings !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something comfortable and understated. A pair of pvc thigh boots would do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something they're comfy in....

Some of my best times have been with lasses I knew well enough they'd be comfortable enough with me I'd go round and they'd be in pyjamas or t shirt and trackies or some such things

The packaging doesn't fuss me too much to be honest.

Love turning up in my pj's "

If you were doing the turning up yeah, p.j's would be odd.

I've turned up at lasses houses before who i've known well to chill and have fun with them and yeah, they've been in p.j's its nice when you get that familiar you can relax and not care I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last two men I dressed up for didn't acknowledge it so I'm sticking with what I feel comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What do you men like to see women wear on a meet .? Nice fitting jeans .? Heels? stockings or a dress .. "

Chanel No5 and a bonny smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To know a woman has made the effort to look super sexy just for you, is the ultimate turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to go against the trend, and I like to dress up, at least a bit.

I'm a massive attention slut so I like it when guys stop and look at me when I'm dressed up. And that doesn't happen when I'm slumming it.

Plus I like escaping from my very mundane, dull life and dressing up helps me pretend I'm not a stay at home mum and maybe I'm a tiny bit more exciting than that.

When you do dress up - do you feel comfortable in it or do you feel self conscious?"

I LOVE it. I hate that my lifestyle requires me to be practical. That I can't even brush my teeth or hair without stopping repeatedly because a child is screaming. Makeup doesn't get a look in on a normal day. That wearing trainers is practical (essential!) to leg it after them when they do a runner.

So when my husband babysits and I'm allowed out to play, I feel like... err... a sexy Cinderella. A bit magical.

The whole reason my husband got me onto Fab is he knows how much of a turn on I find it when I see another guy checking me out. It's an addictive feeling.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Men get me as I am...I do make an effort though

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

when i invite guys over to have their cock sucked (a personal hobby), I let them choose from the pic on my profile that shows 6 outfits which seems to please them

if they can't decide, i choose, or i open the door naked except for heels.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"A smile

The rest is window dressing "

This works for me - always smiling but not always dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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When you do dress up - do you feel comfortable in it or do you feel self conscious?

I LOVE it. I hate that my lifestyle requires me to be practical. That I can't even brush my teeth or hair without stopping repeatedly because a child is screaming. Makeup doesn't get a look in on a normal day. That wearing trainers is practical (essential!) to leg it after them when they do a runner.

So when my husband babysits and I'm allowed out to play, I feel like... err... a sexy Cinderella. A bit magical.

The whole reason my husband got me onto Fab is he knows how much of a turn on I find it when I see another guy checking me out. It's an addictive feeling. "

There's the difference - you're comfortable with it - as sexy because of that

Although you in jeans, shirt and trainers is a damn good look too

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don't forget the hat....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to go against the trend, and I like to dress up, at least a bit.

I'm a massive attention slut so I like it when guys stop and look at me when I'm dressed up. And that doesn't happen when I'm slumming it.

Plus I like escaping from my very mundane, dull life and dressing up helps me pretend I'm not a stay at home mum and maybe I'm a tiny bit more exciting than that."

Ditto - you want to feel at your best!

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By *ouple1973Couple
over a year ago

clowne


"To know a woman has made the effort to look super sexy just for you, is the ultimate turn on.

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i totally agree

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

TBH if I met a guy who said he didn't care, I'd think him too desperate and wouldn't meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i invite guys over to have their cock sucked (a personal hobby), I let them choose from the pic on my profile that shows 6 outfits which seems to please them

if they can't decide, i choose, or i open the door naked except for heels."

Choice of 6 outfits is ideal on the seventh day of the week, naked and heels

Might move to Brighton

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"when i invite guys over to have their cock sucked (a personal hobby), I let them choose from the pic on my profile that shows 6 outfits which seems to please them

if they can't decide, i choose, or i open the door naked except for heels.

Choice of 6 outfits is ideal on the seventh day of the week, naked and heels

Might move to Brighton "

only been here a year, it's atrocious for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we go out I wear a fitted mini dress no bra and crotchless knickers and strappy heels with bright pink or red toenails then when I'm on dancefloor getting wandering hands;) then different things when we go dogging but always legs out for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TBH if I met a guy who said he didn't care, I'd think him too desperate and wouldn't meet him"

Don't think that'd be a fair statement in my opinion. I hope none of my meets thought of me as desperate but then again, i haven't met them in their pyjamas.

I think it goes without saying that you'd make yourself look presentable and look good. But, i don't expect women to go over the top. Especially, not on a social meet.

We'd only have this conversation if someone mentions what to wear or what they want to see me/her in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something she is very comfortable wearing - her fave jeans, simple top.

Seeing a woman comfortable in her own skin and what she has against it is far, far sexier than her being glammed up with an inch of slap on...."

This!

I hate men who try to dictate what they want me to wear on a meet, instant turn off!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"TBH if I met a guy who said he didn't care, I'd think him too desperate and wouldn't meet him

Don't think that'd be a fair statement in my opinion. "

And we all have opinions, which is what makes it interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if a woman dresses for herself, whether jeans or skirt, make up etc, then she will feel confident in herself and that confidence is sexy in itself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something she is very comfortable wearing - her fave jeans, simple top.

Seeing a woman comfortable in her own skin and what she has against it is far, far sexier than her being glammed up with an inch of slap on....

This!

I hate men who try to dictate what they want me to wear on a meet, instant turn off! "

Oh totally! That'd just be weird!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe a long fur coat not real fur or Belted Trench coat with heels or boots , red lips and nails and that's it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like tight jeans. My first thought is they're going to be a bugger to get off. lol I love them make my legs look really long. "

Oooh jeans it is then but keep the heels on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing sexier than a classy looking woman...

Black stockings with suspenders do wonders!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when a lady looks exactly that - sophisticated and ladylike. I place a lot of emphasis on my appearance as I think it's important to make an effort, so I really appreciate it when a lady reciprocates.

What defines that is up to her - but for me personally, a very light dusting of makeup and a carefully selected outfit that emphasises her figure is intoxicating....

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I love it when I'm asked what I'll wear for a meet.

My usual response is snorkel and flippers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when I'm asked what I'll wear for a meet.

My usual response is snorkel and flippers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when I'm asked what I'll wear for a meet.

My usual response is snorkel and flippers.

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That's ok - the green pubic wig and Unshaved back hair was too much though...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I love it when I'm asked what I'll wear for a meet.

My usual response is snorkel and flippers.

That's ok - the green pubic wig and Unshaved back hair was too much though... "

I've got an orange pubic wig but it leaves me with a rash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What do you men like to see women wear on a meet .? Nice fitting jeans .? Heels? stockings or a dress .. "

Nice smile , sparkling eyes and good company.

Its not what they wear but the person x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever she feels comfortable wearing. I don't really mind either way. A private 1-2-1 meet it's all about relaxed comfort for me. Anyway, a peachy bum looks just as hot in a pear of jeans as it does in a LBD!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something she is very comfortable wearing - her fave jeans, simple top.

Seeing a woman comfortable in her own skin and what she has against it is far, far sexier than her being glammed up with an inch of slap on...."

What if they're more comfortable in a dress and high heels and a full face of makeup? I know I am.

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By *urray MintMan
over a year ago

Brewtoon

Loads and loads of layers !

Parkas ,duffel coats ect .... Lol

Slowly peeling off each layer until finally finding leather coated nips and a fire side rug ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to go against the trend, and I like to dress up, at least a bit.

I'm a massive attention slut so I like it when guys stop and look at me when I'm dressed up. And that doesn't happen when I'm slumming it.

Plus I like escaping from my very mundane, dull life and dressing up helps me pretend I'm not a stay at home mum and maybe I'm a tiny bit more exciting than that.

Ditto - you want to feel at your best! "

I'd much rather feel dressed up. I'm not, and don't feel, sexy when slobbing about in casual clothes. And I like the little details - lingerie to unwrap, hair styled so it can be messed up, lipstick applied so it can be smudged, nails painted so my hands will look good wrapped around his cock...

All part of the game to me.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Something they're comfy in....

Some of my best times have been with lasses I knew well enough they'd be comfortable enough with me I'd go round and they'd be in pyjamas or t shirt and trackies or some such things

The packaging doesn't fuss me too much to be honest. "

...... but depending on the place you`re meeting and how well you know them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I wear varies, tends to be based on ~ who, where, when & why

One of the sexiest meets I've had was when I turned up wearing a white strappy vest top, skinny jeans & sandals ~ minimal make up and bed head but I felt great & that's what counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight jeans and shirt with no bra. Always works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I wear varies, tends to be based on ~ who, where, when & why

One of the sexiest meets I've had was when I turned up wearing a white strappy vest top, skinny jeans & sandals ~ minimal make up and bed head but I felt great & that's what counts."

And it would have shown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally a dress and heels. Hair dine. Little make up. Always painted nails

I was getting dressed in a club changing area and a fellow fab female. Asked after I got dressed. Are you a vicar ???

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Social skinny jeans, boots and top. Play meet the works..stockings, suspenders matching underwear and a lace dress. Whatever I feel like wearing on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the meet, done socials wearing jeans and tshirt on race tracks, skirt and heels at pub, or regular meets that have seen me in my pjs or dressing gown...but they dont normally stay on...have to say always wear nice matching underwear though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"El usually goes top short skirt no knickers high heels"
oh yes ????

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Whilst its the stock "PC" answer, its true we like our meets to wear whatever they feel most comfortable in, but if a lady was to ask what we would like to see her in, the answer would be stockings, heels and a dress or skirt, such a cliché but so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst its the stock "PC" answer, its true we like our meets to wear whatever they feel most comfortable in, but if a lady was to ask what we would like to see her in, the answer would be stockings, heels and a dress or skirt, such a cliché but so sexy "

"Tar and brush" spring to mind.

For me the reasonable I want her to be comfortable is because it is in no way sexy if she isn't.

Whilst the clothing may look good - her being uncomfortable doesn't and you might as well put a tutu on a piglet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why you asking them. They get what they are giving and like it or else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dressing in short skirts, stockings and heels for a meet. I feel comfortable in sexy clothes and it makes me feel sexy and gets me in the mood for a meet.

When we've met couples we've both been disappointed when the other woman doesn't make an effort. When someone turns up with greasy hair it's not great, and yes it's happened

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

They get me as I am. Otherwise my neighbours would know I'm up to something! One of my best meets was an encounter in the woods whilst walking the dogs. Well, I always have on jeans and my rather shabby dog walking coat with walking boots. Anyway, I like revealing the sexy side of me from such unpromising appearance. I do find it odd to meet a man in his pyjamas though! Just a towel would be an improvement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight jeans, flowery dress, leggings

I love it when a girl shows off her knicker lines through pants n leggings

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know what to wear fo days meets

Evening meets are fine of your meeting for a drink in a pub you can dress up, do your make up, put your heels on and look nice

But what do you wear if meeting in the day for a coffee? I mean really are jeans acceptable? I don't feel comfortable wearing full make up in the day but would this be acceptable?

I have actually turned down day time meets on many occasions simply because I haven't know what to wear without looking to over done for day time but not looking like I've made an effort, because I really don't think guys would be happy with me turning up in my usual day time gear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something tasteful and stylish ,failing that ,leather and satin,thigh highs and a faint scent.A bottle of wine in one hand a hotel key in the other and a menu in her bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What do you men like to see women wear on a meet .? Nice fitting jeans .? Heels? stockings or a dress .. "

As Marrilyn Monroe said when asked what she wore to bed "Chanel No.5"- but seriously- whatever she is comfortable in really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear what I feel comfortable in not what a guy wants to see me in.. I'm not into the whole dressing up in sexy lingerie etc.. a nice matching bra and knickers some nice jeans and a wee top is my usual outfit "
do you fold or throw?

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

After years of perfecting how lingerie highlights the female form and sexuality I like stockings and basque or suspenders heels etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never know what to wear fo days meets

Evening meets are fine of your meeting for a drink in a pub you can dress up, do your make up, put your heels on and look nice

But what do you wear if meeting in the day for a coffee? I mean really are jeans acceptable? I don't feel comfortable wearing full make up in the day but would this be acceptable?

I have actually turned down day time meets on many occasions simply because I haven't know what to wear without looking to over done for day time but not looking like I've made an effort, because I really don't think guys would be happy with me turning up in my usual day time gear "
i dnt think anyone would complain

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A smile

The rest is window dressing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do we like r men wearin more like?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" What do you men like to see women wear on a meet .? Nice fitting jeans .? Heels? stockings or a dress ..

Nice smile , sparkling eyes and good company.

Its not what they wear but the person x x"

Aw, another sweet one! I am far keener to meet men who are more interested in what's inside the wrapping. ..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I never know what to wear fo days meets

Evening meets are fine of your meeting for a drink in a pub you can dress up, do your make up, put your heels on and look nice

But what do you wear if meeting in the day for a coffee? I mean really are jeans acceptable? I don't feel comfortable wearing full make up in the day but would this be acceptable?

I have actually turned down day time meets on many occasions simply because I haven't know what to wear without looking to over done for day time but not looking like I've made an effort, because I really don't think guys would be happy with me turning up in my usual day time gear "

Aw I bet they would be! ! I do the black lace but at night, but for a lunchtime pub meet its usually white jeans and a colourful top, something like that. I even went to a pub meet in jods and boots straight from the stables - there were no complaints!

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over a year ago

I dress for me and I love to get dressed up. I dress depending on how I'm feeling. Had a meet once where all I had on under my coat was hold ups and undies

It's always my choice x

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over a year ago


"I never know what to wear fo days meets

Evening meets are fine of your meeting for a drink in a pub you can dress up, do your make up, put your heels on and look nice

But what do you wear if meeting in the day for a coffee? I mean really are jeans acceptable? I don't feel comfortable wearing full make up in the day but would this be acceptable?

I have actually turned down day time meets on many occasions simply because I haven't know what to wear without looking to over done for day time but not looking like I've made an effort, because I really don't think guys would be happy with me turning up in my usual day time gear "

If I meet someone during the day it's straight from work, so they get me in boring worky clothes

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over a year ago

I've only had a few daytime meets with one guy, but usually wore short skirts, tights and ankle boots with a black top. Made an effort with hair, make-up & nails (red, always red!!) as feels like escapism from normal life.

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over a year ago


"I've only had a few daytime meets with one guy, but usually wore short skirts, tights and ankle boots with a black top. Made an effort with hair, make-up & nails (red, always red!!) as feels like escapism from normal life. "

You are a classy woman, you know that Morning!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I'm pleasantly surprised by this thread, I do actually feel uncomfortable in the whole stockings etc get up, and although I style my hair and put makeup on I don't wear the type of makeup I would put on to go for a night 'out out' because I'm always conscious I will end up with panda eyes.

I guess I'm more comfortable going with a pretty girly look other than sexy, and it's very reassuring that some men like that

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over a year ago


"I'm pleasantly surprised by this thread, I do actually feel uncomfortable in the whole stockings etc get up, and although I style my hair and put makeup on I don't wear the type of makeup I would put on to go for a night 'out out' because I'm always conscious I will end up with panda eyes.

I guess I'm more comfortable going with a pretty girly look other than sexy, and it's very reassuring that some men like that "

"Panda eyes" yes it's a problem!!

My distinction is: daytime - no eye shadow but still plenty of mascara.

Clear lip gloss instead of coloured, haha! x

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over a year ago


"I've only had a few daytime meets with one guy, but usually wore short skirts, tights and ankle boots with a black top. Made an effort with hair, make-up & nails (red, always red!!) as feels like escapism from normal life.

You are a classy woman, you know that Morning!"

Haha thank you! Morning! x

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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Full Bio Warfare suit...

safe sex and all that

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over a year ago


"I never know what to wear fo days meets

Evening meets are fine of your meeting for a drink in a pub you can dress up, do your make up, put your heels on and look nice

But what do you wear if meeting in the day for a coffee? I mean really are jeans acceptable? I don't feel comfortable wearing full make up in the day but would this be acceptable?

I have actually turned down day time meets on many occasions simply because I haven't know what to wear without looking to over done for day time but not looking like I've made an effort, because I really don't think guys would be happy with me turning up in my usual day time gear

If I meet someone during the day it's straight from work, so they get me in boring worky clothes "

Yeah but I do community nursing, I don't drive so I cycle round my calls so my work cloths are a navey NHS top, cycling leggings and trainers, hair tied up, I don't think any guys on here is going to want to meet me from work its OK if you work in an office or something like that cause you go to work smart, you could put a suit and make up in and look nice to work and your meet

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over a year ago


"Loads and loads of layers !

Parkas ,duffel coats ect .... Lol

Slowly peeling off each layer until finally finding leather coated nips and a fire side rug ! Lol"

Well done, you just turned a gang bang into a game of pass the parcel

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"Loads and loads of layers !

Parkas ,duffel coats ect .... Lol

Slowly peeling off each layer until finally finding leather coated nips and a fire side rug ! Lol

Well done, you just turned a gang bang into a game of pass the parcel "

That would be an ace party game

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Something she is very comfortable wearing - her fave jeans, simple top.

Seeing a woman comfortable in her own skin and what she has against it is far, far sexier than her being glammed up with an inch of slap on...."

Right answer

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over a year ago

I love it when the way we are dressed is part of the scenario or situation. It's extra special when there are clothes to unwrap, make-up to smudge and hair to mess up.

PJs and a duvet would be just as nice, but in a different way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get quite dressed up for a meet but I'd love to be able to accommodate and be in my dressing gown for people to call round!

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