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is it possible to love someone too much?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do people think, can one person be so in love with another so that it's too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put the word ( LOVE ) in brackets so I don't ever catch it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It can lead to them treating you badly or you treating them badly. I will never be in love again

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

www.youtube.com/watch?v=8f3cppV4GGY

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i think it is possible to smother another person if that is what you mean ...that can become slightly intollerable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think it is possible to smother another person if that is what you mean ...that can become slightly intolerable "
yes your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love doesnt exist it was just invented by hallmark and film producers to make money

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Yes. It can lead to them treating you badly or you treating them badly. I will never be in love again "
That's sad as you come across as a very lovable person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes sometimes because you worry about them, I don't just mean a partner I mean your kids too. is it wrong to love your kids too much?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

the love my mum had for my dad was amazing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Too much for what?

Our own feelings are private and only ourselves can ever experience them, as well as quantify them.

Can our behaviors be influenced by our emotions - Yes. But we have control over how we behave, even if we are overwhelmed.

Just acting based on emotions is somewhat like a child or an animal that can't think.

Others may think someone loves them too much, but this is possibly telling of something else. Too much, too soon. An imbalance. A partner or both having issues. Perhaps a blind love that one has, potentially not really knowing the object of their love.

Love is probably more a symptom of something. Most things can be appropriate in the right context, so there's not one simple answer this question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I can love anyone at all. Probably a good thing on here

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By *addymax77Man
over a year ago

leicester

Nope!! That's your soulmate .. The one you would lay down and die for.. If you've found that youre so lucky xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No. In the wrong way? Yes.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Nope!! That's your soulmate .. The one you would lay down and die for.. If you've found that youre so lucky xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope!! That's your soulmate .. The one you would lay down and die for.. If you've found that youre so lucky xx"
I count my blessings every day for my soul mate and consider myself to be very lucky indeed. I wouldn't change a single thing about him. Slushy maybe but never a truer word spoken.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I don't think you can love someone too much, especially if they love you in the same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. It can lead to them treating you badly or you treating them badly. I will never be in love again That's sad as you come across as a very lovable person. "

I can live without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and often it's time to walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer from it all the time.

Hoardes of 'em. Or should that be herds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When love becomes possessive it becomes too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think it is possible to smother another person if that is what you mean ...that can become slightly intollerable "

that's not love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you both feel the same way and it's your soulmate as someone said earlir, yes if it's unreciprocated or obsessive.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Too much for what?

Others may think someone loves them too much, but this is possibly telling of something else. Too much, too soon. An imbalance. A partner or both having issues. Perhaps a blind love that one has, potentially not really knowing the object of their love.

Love is probably more a symptom of something. Most things can be appropriate in the right context, so there's not one simple answer this question."

Exactly, context is everything. I suspect the OP has something out of balance in mind.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Yes. It can lead to them treating you badly or you treating them badly. I will never be in love again That's sad as you come across as a very lovable person.

I can live without it "
I never realized you had a choice in such things.

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By *addymax77Man
over a year ago

leicester

Good for you!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on your character - I love to infinity my daughter, partner, cats and a few others (parents have died but same with them).

My love is unconditional but never has a dark side i.e. jealousy, control or possessiveness.

It's just a lovely feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I can love anyone at all. Probably a good thing on here "

Nor me, I have never been in love in all my life, I have never had that feeling of butterfly's in my tummy when I know I'm going to see someone or been in a hurry to get home to the one I love, I love my kids with all my heart but that's a different type of love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I can love anyone at all. Probably a good thing on here

Nor me, I have never been in love in all my life, I have never had that feeling of butterfly's in my tummy when I know I'm going to see someone or been in a hurry to get home to the one I love, I love my kids with all my heart but that's a different type of love"

thats really nice to read about your kids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow

Some amazing and varied answers.

Guess everyone has a different take on love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, If you love someone then you love them.

Too little or too much doesn't enter into the equation you just love them...Simples

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, If you love someone then you love them.

Too little or too much doesn't enter into the equation you just love them...Simples

Gimp"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and often it's time to walk away "

This, as it's not fully reciprocated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think love is a that feeling you get, ultimately combined with choice. You make a conscious decision to love someone. I think you choose to put the other person first, treat them with respect and want to do things for them. For me that's what separates a teen crush with grown up, adult love in a relationship.

Having said that, I love you all, you are all kinda Fab.

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