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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men are incredibly receptive to your compliments and/or attention, does this not dampen your attraction towards them? Knowing that all it takes is one flirty comment and you can turn their heads just like that?

I watch the behaviour of the men and women on these forums and it's plain for everyone to see that a majority of men crave attention from women, whereas the majority of women have a much more lax attitude in retrospect. Many men find this challenging behaviour rewarding because when the compliments are reciprocated, it's more of an accomplishment.

How do the ladies feel about this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh FFS. Should've been a space between 'HETEROSEXUAL' and 'WOMEN'.

*Points gun to head*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that was your acerbic wit in action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, as a HETEROSEXUALWOMAN, I feel like I can tell the difference between fab online world and real world.

There's something to be said for playing hard to get and being a little bit aloof sometimes but really, on here, who can be arsed. In real life there's the thrill of the chase, on here if I got a hint of indifference I just wouldn't bother. Men accepting compliments readily doesn't make me think any less of them, it's the crawling, desperate and insincere scattergun approach to giving compliments out from some men that has that effect.

I'm not sure if I've answered the question you asked, because I'm not sure what it was, but there's my 10p worth anyway.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I tend not to overthink fab or the forums if I did I'd be rocking in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women definitely have "the upper hand" here in a way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked it when guys were telling me i'm intelligent.

I don't read the bum kissing threads though, find them a bit boring coz no-one kisses my bum.

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Takes a lot more than that for a woman to get my attention

If you want a woman's attention then starve her of yours

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I rarely compliment anyone online if I don't know them. It would sound insincere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your first paragraph you're assuming this applies to every male on here which I don't believe it does. It certainly doesn't apply to me and that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I liked it when guys were telling me i'm intelligent.

I don't read the bum kissing threads though, find them a bit boring coz no-one kisses my bum.

"

Puckers up to prove you wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your first paragraph you're assuming this applies to every male on here which I don't believe it does. It certainly doesn't apply to me and that's for sure."

I don't even think it's a majority.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From my own personal point of _iew, compliments on my body are likely to get the least positive reaction from me. Still happy to receive them, but it's always a case of "Well steady on, you haven't seen my face yet", so if they see my face and still persist with the same level of compliments, then I am truly flattered. The one compliment that trumps it all though is one for my profile/personality. That shows that someone has taken the time to look at me and appreciate the essence of my very being.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What about bi sexual women? Why is it only for heterosexual women?

I rarely give compliments but when I do I mean them

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I like the compliments because, lets face it, we all love a bit of narcissism don't we?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


" and it's plain for everyone to see that a majority of men crave attention from women, whereas the majority of women have a much more lax attitude in retrospect. Many men find this challenging behaviour rewarding because when the compliments are reciprocated, it's more of an accomplishment.

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I don't see it that way at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about bi sexual women? Why is it only for heterosexual women?

I rarely give compliments but when I do I mean them"

This thread isn't so much about how often you give out compliments or how sincere they are, but more about men's reactions to them and whether or not it lowers your level of attraction towards them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are incredibly receptive to your compliments and/or attention, does this not dampen your attraction towards them? "

Women always compliment me on my Eyelashes and I'm all like.."What the fuck did you just say to me?"

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men are incredibly receptive to your compliments and/or attention, does this not dampen your attraction towards them?

Women always compliment me on my Eyelashes and I'm all like.."What the fuck did you just say to me?""

Ha-ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I liked it when guys were telling me i'm intelligent.

I don't read the bum kissing threads though, find them a bit boring coz no-one kisses my bum.

Puckers up to prove you wrong "

Thanks.

*gazes into your finger eyes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum is triple posting today for some reason.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What about bi sexual women? Why is it only for heterosexual women?

I rarely give compliments but when I do I mean them

This thread isn't so much about how often you give out compliments or how sincere they are, but more about men's reactions to them and whether or not it lowers your level of attraction towards them."
you didn't answer my question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about bi sexual women? Why is it only for heterosexual women?

I rarely give compliments but when I do I mean them

This thread isn't so much about how often you give out compliments or how sincere they are, but more about men's reactions to them and whether or not it lowers your level of attraction towards them.you didn't answer my question "

Yes, bisexual women apply too. I only said heterosexual because it automatically suggests attraction towards men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those men whose attractiveness to women is prone to reduction only have to utter a few words for it to happen. It matters not whether it is in relation to a compliment.

Assuming of course there was a level of attraction, if not, it just confirms undesirability

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"What about bi sexual women? Why is it only for heterosexual women?

I rarely give compliments but when I do I mean them

This thread isn't so much about how often you give out compliments or how sincere they are, but more about men's reactions to them and whether or not it lowers your level of attraction towards them.you didn't answer my question

Yes, bisexual women apply too. I only said heterosexual because it automatically suggests attraction towards men."

Last time I checked bisexual women were attracted to both...

I rarely give compliments on here, but when I do they are sincere. I hate the comments about "you are gorgeous" when all I have on show is my arse... and likewise would never say that to anyone unless I actually see them in the whole as it were.

I may compliment someone on something they have said on the forum, or a great profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone recently who-for lack of a better description - blew my mind in bed and out of it. I felt I wanted to tell him and couldn't find the words without it sounding like flattery or bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met someone recently who-for lack of a better description - blew my mind in bed and out of it. I felt I wanted to tell him and couldn't find the words without it sounding like flattery or bullshit "

I don't mind, sweet cheeks, just say it here. This is an open space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont give them out often most because guys ignore them and say 'oh your just saying that'

When i get compliments on here I take it with a huge pinch of salt!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I've ever received a compliment on the forums I haven't noticed. I prefer my posts to be complimented, not me.

Of course I get plenty of compliments in messages. I have to take them with a pinch of salt however - I have one pic of my back, yet I am 'stunning', 'gorgeous', and have 'amazing pics'.

I wouldn't worry too much. Most women on here know the difference between a compliments and a thinly veiled plea for a shag.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

As a BISEXUALWOMAN I have no business posting on this thread other than to say I take compliments on here from people I have had no prior interaction with with a massive pinch of salt and compliments from others in the spirit in which they were intended, either genuine or as forum banter. Much like real life to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these "compliments" you speak of?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are these "compliments" you speak of?"

Voice tokens of joy from the womb bandits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my own personal point of _iew, compliments on my body are likely to get the least positive reaction from me. Still happy to receive them, but it's always a case of "Well steady on, you haven't seen my face yet", so if they see my face and still persist with the same level of compliments, then I am truly flattered. The one compliment that trumps it all though is one for my profile/personality. That shows that someone has taken the time to look at me and appreciate the essence of my very being."

Oh my. What a big essence of your very being you have...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Oh my. What a big essence of your very being you have... "

Shagtonight certainly has some 6 PACK competition.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From my own personal point of _iew, compliments on my body are likely to get the least positive reaction from me. Still happy to receive them, but it's always a case of "Well steady on, you haven't seen my face yet", so if they see my face and still persist with the same level of compliments, then I am truly flattered. The one compliment that trumps it all though is one for my profile/personality. That shows that someone has taken the time to look at me and appreciate the essence of my very being.

Oh my. What a big essence of your very being you have... "

I bet you say that to all the beings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my. What a big essence of your very being you have...

Shagtonight certainly has some 6 PACK competition. "

Shh, no-one has a better six-pack than that legend.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I didn't even know who you were until I looked at your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha loving some of these replys...this is fabs..not plenty of fish lol. How can anyone pay a compliment other than 'nice arse' 'great tits' when that's all they are seeing you as on your pics? lol.

Acerbic I was intrigued by you post so I had a read of your profile..love it..soooo funny. Personally I find a personality more of a turn on than a big cock..but you appear to have both lol. Made my day reading that haha. Darcy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hahaha loving some of these replys...this is fabs..not plenty of fish lol. How can anyone pay a compliment other than 'nice arse' 'great tits' when that's all they are seeing you as on your pics? lol.

Acerbic I was intrigued by you post so I had a read of your profile..love it..soooo funny. Personally I find a personality more of a turn on than a big cock..but you appear to have both lol. Made my day reading that haha. Darcy x "

Now THAT kind of compliment really does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Takes a lot more than that for a woman to get my attention

If you want a woman's attention then starve her of yours "

what does it take then to get your attention?

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