FabSwingers.com forum: "Long time no speak.."

By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

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I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

I look at their photo/username and automatically feel bad because I don't recognise them so I go on their profile to see when I last messaged them, and it turns out I never have! (Unless they have a new profile)

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its to get you to talk to them, or at least pay attention to them and on that front it seems to have worked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Ignore any mistakes I make or if I've posted this in the wrong section, this is the first time I'm starting a thread)

I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

Wow, it's been ages, how are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of these, I just block them.

More annoying are the people you've met (and decided to not meet again) who message pretending to not remember you. Rude.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Dont get annoyed, either ignore, delete, block...or if they are hot respond.

But yes,it does happen.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"I get a lot of these, I just block them.

More annoying are the people you've met (and decided to not meet again) who message pretending to not remember you. Rude. "

Why not block them too! Simples

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it irritating. I'd rather someone try and get this Sheila interested in a fair dinkum way than by using subterfuge. Right, I'm off to chuck a kangaroo on the Barbie

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Its to get you to talk to them, or at least pay attention to them and on that front it seems to have worked!"

That didn't even come into my head!

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"(Ignore any mistakes I make or if I've posted this in the wrong section, this is the first time I'm starting a thread)

I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

Wow, it's been ages, how are you? "

Hahaha, I asked for this

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

Hi stranger, long time eh??

Other than the above

Ive only ever used it with people that I generally have not spoke to in ages, but it looks like it works as an icebreaker. Don't know how it would get you after the first couple of mails though, but to get your foot in the door is always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Ignore any mistakes I make or if I've posted this in the wrong section, this is the first time I'm starting a thread)

I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

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Iv had that a few times.

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I get a lot of these, I just block them.

More annoying are the people you've met (and decided to not meet again) who message pretending to not remember you. Rude. "

I haven't had that yet, but that's quite horrible!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Its to get you to talk to them, or at least pay attention to them and on that front it seems to have worked!"

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Dont get annoyed, either ignore, delete, block...or if they are hot respond.

But yes,it does happen.

I did ignore them, it just started to grate on me a bit

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I find it irritating. I'd rather someone try and get this Sheila interested in a fair dinkum way than by using subterfuge. Right, I'm off to chuck a kangaroo on the Barbie

Haha I agree! Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Ignore any mistakes I make or if I've posted this in the wrong section, this is the first time I'm starting a thread)

I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

It says you have mailed me and I've mailed you .....?....

yours must have been one of the more polite put downs ....

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Love the hair colour!!!!! Dyed or wig?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have an obscenely bad memory I can't remember if I've spoken to some people before,so I check out their profile and say no thanks if I'm not interested

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"(Ignore any mistakes I make or if I've posted this in the wrong section, this is the first time I'm starting a thread)

I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

It says you have mailed me and I've mailed you .....?....

yours must have been one of the more polite put downs ....

I recognise your name but can't see a photo to comment, but I did notice your filters & I'm 23 so it may have been you doing the "polite put down"

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Love the hair colour!!!!! Dyed or wig?"

Thank you, it's dyed

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By *oftDoMeNow OP Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"As I have an obscenely bad memory I can't remember if I've spoken to some people before,so I check out their profile and say no thanks if I'm not interested "

I can't send the "no thanks" messages, makes me feel uneasy after some of the abuse some "men" send back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its to get you to talk to them, or at least pay attention to them and on that front it seems to have worked!

This exactly, what's more annoying, is the fact that I rack my brains for a while, trying to decide, whether I have had contact with them before, and start wondering if I'm loosing my marbles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it loads and like you always check the profile to see if I actually have spoken to them before, i do have a good chuckle at the ones who try it in the hope I'll reply though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had it loads and like you always check the profile to see if I actually have spoken to them before, i do have a good chuckle at the ones who try it in the hope I'll reply though!"

Ahh hello lovely, long time no see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've also had a few of them. One even said "don't i know you" just to get me to respond. and like a fool i did.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It does open up the possibilities for some fun with replies!

"How are you? Did the sex change op go on?"

"Long time no speak - hope you managed to get that jar out of your arse eventually?"

"Hey! How's you? Looks like hanging those weights off your cock did/didn't (*delete as appropriate) work!"

"Sorry - I've no idea who you are. Can you send me your full name/address/bank details to jog my memory?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does open up the possibilities for some fun with replies!

"How are you? Did the sex change op go on?"

"Long time no speak - hope you managed to get that jar out of your arse eventually?"

"Hey! How's you? Looks like hanging those weights off your cock did/didn't (*delete as appropriate) work!"

"Sorry - I've no idea who you are. Can you send me your full name/address/bank details to jog my memory?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does open up the possibilities for some fun with replies!

"How are you? Did the sex change op go on?"

"Long time no speak - hope you managed to get that jar out of your arse eventually?"

"Hey! How's you? Looks like hanging those weights off your cock did/didn't (*delete as appropriate) work!"

"Sorry - I've no idea who you are. Can you send me your full name/address/bank details to jog my memory?"

Hahahaha I'm going to try this today!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you're a site supporter you can see if you've ever been in contact before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Ignore any mistakes I make or if I've posted this in the wrong section, this is the first time I'm starting a thread)

I've never had this before on here, but recently I've received a few messages saying "long time no speak", "hello stranger", or anything that implies I've spoken to these people before..

Does this happen a lot? Does anyone understand the point in it?

At first I thought I must look like someone they've spoken to before, but I doubt that now

I don't know if I'm just irritable today but it's starting to annoy me..

We get it too. It's usually total bullshit, a way to get you to respond. We like it, as it's a sure sign somebody is a real sad sack, and hence makes blocking easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I have an obscenely bad memory I can't remember if I've spoken to some people before,so I check out their profile and say no thanks if I'm not interested

I can't send the "no thanks" messages, makes me feel uneasy after some of the abuse some "men" send back

Abusive messages don't bother me. I've only had a couple and I deleted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had it loads and like you always check the profile to see if I actually have spoken to them before, i do have a good chuckle at the ones who try it in the hope I'll reply though!

Ahh hello lovely, long time no see

Who the fuck are you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had it loads and like you always check the profile to see if I actually have spoken to them before, i do have a good chuckle at the ones who try it in the hope I'll reply though!

Ahh hello lovely, long time no see

Who the fuck are you?!

cheeky focker. You worst nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao chancers

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