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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier said than done the sexing up part haha

That said I try a little with my pics ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Easier said than done the sexing up part haha

That said I try a little with my pics ..."

You're a good-looking guy with no dick pics. You're already onto a good thing

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?"

Yes - and I'm fucking awesome.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

To be fair, my photos are pretty rubbish.

I've made some effort to show what I look like but not masses of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "less is more" is certainly something I believe in.

Someone should want to see what's behind the clothes and to discover more...

Rather than just slapping it on the table and shouting "ere you go luv"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?

Yes - and I'm fucking awesome. "

Well give the other person's eyes back! That's just weird. And probably illegal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?

Yes - and I'm fucking awesome. "

Alriiight! That's what I like to hear!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like my profile and pics

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?

Yes - and I'm fucking awesome.

Well give the other person's eyes back! That's just weird. And probably illegal. "

Shan't. I'm going to put them in a jar on my mantlepiece.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

JimiUK,

Just noticed you're in Ringwood. I'm in Christchurch. Fancy a drink?

(PS: Not a sexy drink).

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?

Yes - and I'm fucking awesome.

Well give the other person's eyes back! That's just weird. And probably illegal.

Shan't. I'm going to put them in a jar on my mantlepiece. "

I'm calling the police

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Get in Jim you've pulled

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Get in Jim you've pulled "

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"JimiUK,

Just noticed you're in Ringwood. I'm in Christchurch. Fancy a drink?

(PS: Not a sexy drink)."

I have been known to gout for the odd pint....don't see why not.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief "

Piss off the pair of you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

Piss off the pair of you. "

Ah, you want to be alone with your date. Understandable.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

My pics are awful. Apparently I look younger and more handsome in the flesh.

Prob is I hate my pic being taken. I cannot stand to ponce about in front of someone with a camera.

Fortunately my prose is passable enough for me to be having fun here.

I agree it would be good to have a better profile but I just never seem to get round to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Get in. Let's get ratted and talk about birds and footy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got some pics and a pretty fun profile lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I am only posting on this thread to see if the bearded wonderment promised by the OP turns into something approaching Christian Göran levels of magnificence.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Does having 14 out of 18 pics being torso pics not count as having countless selfies from the same angle then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am only posting on this thread to see if the bearded wonderment promised by the OP turns into something approaching Christian Göran levels of magnificence. "
lol he is Swedish like me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

Piss off the pair of you. "

Fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am only posting on this thread to see if the bearded wonderment promised by the OP turns into something approaching Christian Göran levels of magnificence. "

It's definitely on the road to that particular destination, Ligeia.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

Piss off the pair of you.

Fancy a shag? "

Aye, why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does having 14 out of 18 pics being torso pics not count as having countless selfies from the same angle then? "

Not when I am tensing so hard that I could pass as constipated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag "
lol would say about the same.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

Piss off the pair of you.

Fancy a shag?

Aye, why not? "

Meet you behind the bike shed then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag "

NO-ONE has a better six-pack than Shag.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

Piss off the pair of you.

Fancy a shag? "

He's already taken now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at my profile from a females perspective....

then I blocked me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag "

It's photoshop, or maybe used Shag's pictures

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Get in Jim you've pulled

That'd be because he's fucking awesome probably.

Despite being a creepy eye thief

Piss off the pair of you.

Fancy a shag?

Aye, why not?

Meet you behind the bike shed then "

Woohoo!

I've pulled.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag

NO-ONE has a better six-pack than Shag."

Hummm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag

It's photoshop, or maybe used Shag's pictures "
Yes that's a good point lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag

NO-ONE has a better six-pack than Shag."
We got about the same pal I recon.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Anyway you lot need to turn boring I have to go to sleep I have to be up at 5 am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does having 14 out of 18 pics being torso pics not count as having countless selfies from the same angle then? "

Beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.

"

At last!

Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.

At last!

Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. "

Whoda thought it possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Evie on that point. If most the pictures are the same, be it cock or body it bores me.. I like to see all of person, not repetitive photos x

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.

At last!

Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. "

Does that mean that his value is diminishing quicker than yours?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"

At last!

Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am.

Does that mean that his value is diminishing quicker than yours?"

Chip...you have gone down in my estimations by mentioning that

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Does having 14 out of 18 pics being torso pics not count as having countless selfies from the same angle then?

Not when I am tensing so hard that I could pass as constipated."

ah....thought there would be a distinction, thanks for clarifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't rewritten my profile in years, simply because I doubt I could word it much better than I already have, and I still get complimented on it today. As for my pics, I feel they all show off my personality rather well, even the humour in my cock pics is there to highlight that there's more to me than my large member.

At last!

Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am. "

Self depreciation seems pointless to me - single male swinging status generally takes care of that by itself

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Easier said than done the sexing up part haha

That said I try a little with my pics ..."

Your pics are pretty good, I had to fan a few.

Selfies don't work for most people imo, so get some mates to take a few, even if just messing about.

Take a hundred pics and just use 1or 2. You know that is what works for the best models, so it's fine for mere mortals. It's good to assume its tough on here, to keep you on your toes. Rotate and add new pics. Avoid anywhere near a toilet.

If your homes a mess, tidy it or have pics taken elsewhere, even at a furniture store if really desperate.

Smiles soften you, and you look more welcoming.

Any lad who wants some tips on which to use, message me.

If you're short of mates, who don't need to know pics are for fab, meet other fab users and lend each other a helping hand.

It's better to have variety than 6 stomach, head and cock shots from slightly different angles.

Show empathy for the viewers and it speaks volumes. Many check your profile and pics before reading your messages.

I've seen some profiles with a killer pic - it kills my interest. Use intuition to recognize a photo that shows you in poor esteem and replace it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

At last!

Somebody who is more self-depreciating than I am.

Does that mean that his value is diminishing quicker than yours?

Chip...you have gone down in my estimations by mentioning that "

Well yes, depreciation would normally mean a downward estimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a "I think I'm great" thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a "I think I'm great" thread "

You're welcome.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I love a "I think I'm great" thread "

I don't know why it's just for the blokes though.

I'm bloody amazing too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a "I think I'm great" thread

You're welcome. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking hell the OP has a better 6 pack than shag

NO-ONE has a better six-pack than Shag."

I do unfortunately it's covered in about 1inch of fat. But trust me they are awesome I can feel them.

All I need to do is another 10 kgs and I will be there.

Maybe 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just sitting here quietly pissing myself at the thought of men going to a furniture shop to take their fab profile pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just sitting here quietly pissing myself at the thought of men going to a furniture shop to take their fab profile pictures. "

That's a brilliant idea. Maybe we can pop in to ikea and do some clothed pic's so it looks like we live in a modern House

All be it with price labels on everything. Lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Gents, do you ever look at your profile/photos through eyes other than your own? Do you ever put yourself in a hypothetical scenario where you are a lady viewing your profile? If so, what do you see? I find this really helps when creating a successful profile, always go into it with the mindset of "Would I meet me?".

Here's a tip - no million and one cock pics, no fucking horrible selfies all from the same angle pulling a face like you've been given a Tabasco enema, just sex yourself up, guys. Women make the effort, so why can't we? What's stopping you?"

Some ladies make an effort, many others don't and because of the numbers they will still gain lots of interest, a guy on the other hand could make a great effort and still receive little interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just sitting here quietly pissing myself at the thought of men going to a furniture shop to take their fab profile pictures.

That's a brilliant idea. Maybe we can pop in to ikea and do some clothed pic's so it looks like we live in a modern House

All be it with price labels on everything. Lol "

It's the little pencils everywhere that would give you away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man speaks sense.

Women,TV and couples should do it too. Everyone so quick to judge that men aren't that fussy X

They should be!

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