FabSwingers.com forum: Your longest relationship?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine was 9 years, which doesn't seem long compared to lots of my friends.

How long is/was your longest relationship to date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years. I married the guy, then he cheated on my when I was pregnant and that was the end of that... prick. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had one relationship it lasted 9 years, I've been single more years than I've been with someome

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

6 hours, I had had my leg over by then....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

4 and a bit years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"6 years. I married the guy, then he cheated on my when I was pregnant and that was the end of that... prick. Lol

Sounds like a right charmer ! You were better off out if it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too long....from 15-41

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

23 years and still counting

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

5 years, I don't have a long attention span lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

8 years.

It was good but, with hindsight, I should have ended it sooner.

I hurt him and I regret that.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I met my ex husband at school when I was 12 and flicked him off just before my 40th birthday, so quite a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current one....22 years this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 years. I married the guy, then he cheated on my when I was pregnant and that was the end of that... prick. Lol

Sounds like a right charmer ! You were better off out if it. "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months...yeah I'm not a keeper....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years, we split up 3 years ago but still see each other most days and get on, support each other.

sometimes i'm tempted to get back with him, he's pretty hot and good in bed, and we get on still, but i'm selfish and have been for a few years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years, only married for one though I got ill and our relationship fell apart.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

25 years with ex-husband.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We've been together 9 years this year and it's my longest relationship. Before this one my longest was 4 years.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

My longest was 6 years...and it was a waste of 6 years. I should have ended it 6 months in.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

"18 months...yeah I'm not a keeper....

Lol

... Not 18 minutes?!?!

My longest is 7 years

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

8 yrs 9 months and I'd still love to fuck her

up the arse with a cactus, the greedy bitch

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"6 hours, I had had my leg over by then...."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

3 years but it should have ended much sooner

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

About 4 years or so.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Only had one, lasted a year and was long distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20yrs

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

19 years and counting...........

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"8 yrs 9 months and I'd still love to fuck her

up the arse with a cactus, the greedy bitch

Still a prickly subject eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're into our 5th year now previously P's was 4yrs and Js was probably about 45mins

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

8years + and still in it

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

We been together since we were young, 14 years now and still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was 2 sex dates with the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one I am in now, 9yrs

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

20 years, should've ended it way before though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years, but it shouldn't have lasted that long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years 23 years and 6months of em was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its amazing how many of us stay in relationships even when we know its way past its sell by date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 years, still going strong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its amazing how many of us stay in relationships even when we know its way past its sell by date "

Yep, my first serious relationship was 6 years. We split briefly after 6 months and I should have left it that way. Hindsight is a wonderful thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one we are in which is into its tenth year

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

A month!

I left him as he kept bring up kids which I don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its amazing how many of us stay in relationships even when we know its way past its sell by date

Yep, my first serious relationship was 6 years. We split briefly after 6 months and I should have left it that way. Hindsight is a wonderful thing! "

In the 9 years me and my ex was married 8 of them were sexless I have no idea why I stayed with a man for a further 8 years who had lost interest in me after only 1 year of marriage, I often ask myself why but I have no answers

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

26 years with the Dennis the Menace fan club. I've still got the badge and membership card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband died 6 weeks before we would have been married 18 years we were together 19 years in all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was 9 years, which doesn't seem long compared to lots of my friends.

How long is/was your longest relationship to date? "

17 tears I mean years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of 11 years, straight after one of 9 and a half years! The 11 year relationship produced a lasting friendship and 2 beautiful kids. I still wish i'd never met the guy I had the 9yr relationship with though - he gave wankers a bad name!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years and still amazing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its amazing how many of us stay in relationships even when we know its way past its sell by date

Yep, my first serious relationship was 6 years. We split briefly after 6 months and I should have left it that way. Hindsight is a wonderful thing!

When you're in it though you cannot see it so clearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years. We were married for the last 6 months of that up until he beat me so badly he broke my jaw and a few ribs.

No sympathy needed, well shut of him.

Wan**r!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

15 ...first 5 of them were fun then we grew apart and it was hard work tbh ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years, was very sad when it ended but onwards and upwards

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

"6 years. We were married for the last 6 months of that up until he beat me so badly he broke my jaw and a few ribs.

No sympathy needed, well shut of him.

Wan**r!

is he in prison 4 doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years but felt like i got a life sentence

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Coming up for 29 years

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By *hoenix_TRMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Managed 6 years in my 20's. Since then a couple of no more than 2 years. I have grown to enjoy the single life to much now to contemplate settling down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27years (seperated two years now been enjoying the single life since)

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

15 years with my ex. Never married. Been single now 2 and a half years now

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

44 yearsand counting

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Five or six for me, single now for over eight years and not in a hurry to find my next partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years with the ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 years but it should have ended much sooner"

your not far off that with your current one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god im so crap.. 6 months was my longest

*sits on the relationship failures bench*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15...then 11... then 6...working my way down to a one night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"My husband died 6 weeks before we would have been married 18 years we were together 19 years in all "

Thats very sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 yrs 9 months and I'd still love to fuck her

up the arse with a cactus, the greedy bitch

Still a prickly subject eh

Bum bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 looooooong years .....

Won't be doin that again anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years and I had a child from that relationship. Been seperated over 5 years and only now I can say that I don't have "in love" feelings for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27yrs and would still be married if he hadn't popped his clogs 3 1/2 yrs ago., and was still very much in love with a really good sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 24 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently just over 25 years xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 years and still married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 18 years...long when you see it written down...

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By *ady G and GTCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Her...married almost 40 years when I was widowed.

Him..11 years.

Current situation getting on for a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just four years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hats off to those who have chosen well and had long and happy relationships xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 5 years. In all honesty it only lasted so long because I settled for good, rather than wanting amazing.

This is my second longest one, most last a couple of years. I'll confess long erm relationships are not my forte...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

54 years and counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Around 5 years. In all honesty it only lasted so long because I settled for good, rather than wanting amazing.

This is my second longest one, most last a couple of years. I'll confess long erm relationships are not my forte..."

with the exception of this one of course which will last forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From 2005-2012

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

the most recent 2 years for me she walked out, left kids behind for grass is greener that never lasted before she moved to the next and the next

a couple of others at 2 years

before that 6 years

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Been together 26 years, married for 20, and love her more now than I ever did

(God I'm gonna get a good blow job when she reads that!)

(True though

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Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine is 50 years in may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever had one relationship it lasted 9 years, I've been single more years than I've been with someome

Same here though mine was about 5 yrs, not sure I don't actually prefer the singleton life though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mine is 50 years in may

Congratulations.

And long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P and myself have been together 26 years.

And it don't seem a day too much

And there ain't a girl in the whole wide world

That Id compare to my dear old dutch.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Its amazing how many of us stay in relationships even when we know its way past its sell by date "

i think a lot of it is hind sight. Its hard to let go of something or someone when you are living in the moment but looking back you can see the point hen it should have ended.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

31 years..

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

15 years , could have got less for murder with a guilty plee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7.5 years so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years or so had to do a bit of.catching up to get out the grey boring life i had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 years 361 days

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

34 years and still happily married otherwise we wouldn't be here.

It's the strength of our marriage that lets us swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years and counting she would been out ages ago for diminished responsibility lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband. been with him since I was 14, got married just before my 20th birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years 6 months.

Been single almost 2 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was 4 and a half years and that was with my first ex. Its a pity she was blind though

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