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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request? "

Can we send you one ? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't even look at them

I was under the impression that if you ignored them they couldn't send another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its a ice breaker in the world that they live in ?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Ok, in that case, "fancy a fuck?".

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I don't even look at them

I was under the impression that if you ignored them they couldn't send another one"

True. Leave them there and they can't send another. I must have hundreds on my 'pending' list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't delete the requests. If you leave they can't send one again for a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What are they thinking?!

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Yeah WTF are they thinking indeed!...

I don't send random friend requests but I can see why you might you know...have that problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request?

Can we send you one ? lol "
me to pleeeaaassseee lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned above, ignore if you don't want to accept it - keeps them from sending it again very soon. Or if you're getting a lot of bad messages, amend the filters to block males / couples / whoever and go looking yourself - keeps it simple.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Unexpected friends requests just get deleted by us or we will try and get to know someone if they actually interest us. Got to be honest though don't think we've ever accepted a friends request having even done that. Our experience tells us it's part and parcel of FAB unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I don't mind the friend request or if they are silent

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request? "

So let's start a conversation then seen as we actually live close to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even look at them

I was under the impression that if you ignored them they couldn't send another one"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't even look at them

I was under the impression that if you ignored them they couldn't send another one"

Of course you can I gore them. But then you are talking to someone, get on really well and they say 'I send you a friend request the other day...'

Then you are thinking FUCK gonna take me whole day to find it!

And looks so messy

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We just leave them as they cannot re send for 30 days. I know some people will have a look at friends only pictures while the sender is off line.

We may have done that.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unexpected friends requests just get deleted by us or we will try and get to know someone if they actually interest us. Got to be honest though don't think we've ever accepted a friends request having even done that. Our experience tells us it's part and parcel of FAB unfortunately. "

Yeah they are making things so much more interesting for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request? "

It don't bother me, I don't even check them I certainly don't get wound up over them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only ask for a message first in an attempt to worm out the profile pic watchers. People who friend request, constantly look at our pics without so much as a "hi" to us or some form of introduction.

Also we have lots of face pics in our friends file (as well as the usual naughty ones) so it's always nice to swap face pics and establish an attraction before friending one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Of course you can I gore them. But then you are talking to someone, get on really well and they say 'I send you a friend request the other day...'

Then you are thinking FUCK gonna take me whole day to find it!

And looks so messy "

No..you can send them one, they just can't re-send you one..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request? "

Dont remove them or delete requested then they cant do it again.! Usually they only request to see your private photos . JUST IGNORE!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People!!! Stop sending a random friend invitation!! They keep sending and sending and sending - don't seem to take no for an answer especially, when there has not been any conversation. They don't bother with reading the profile either.

What are they thinking?!

Are there people on here who actually don't mind a silent friend request?

Dont remove them or delete requested then they cant do it again.! Usually they only request to see your private photos . JUST IGNORE! "

Yeah But there was a time I never had private pics so...... That brings me to another question - Why just not sending a Wink (which get ignored anyway) instead a Friend Request.....

Did I overthink that?! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no harm in sending friends request imo good way to break the ice, but if you the strong silent type who never chats bit pointless i think # one mans opinion

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