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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do you prefer your partner to surprise you with a sexy MMFF, MFF, MMF or other multisum where you have no idea what is in store for you? All you know is that he/ she has taken great care in selecting what they think will please you....

Or do you prefer the anticipation of knowing who will be there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do you prefer your partner to surprise you with a sexy MMFF, MFF, MMF or other multisum where you have no idea what is in store for you? All you know is that he/ she has taken great care in selecting what they think will please you....

Or do you prefer the anticipation of knowing who will be there? "

Absolutely, the former, which is why I spend so much time blindfold!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or do you prefer the anticipation of knowing who will be there?

Absolutely, the former, which is why I spend so much time blindfold!"

Just to clarify ...so surprise "gathering" of people you might not know...in preference over an organised party?

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over a year ago

Or do you prefer the anticipation of knowing who will be there?

Absolutely, the former, which is why I spend so much time blindfold!

Just to clarify ...so surprise "gathering" of people you might not know...in preference over an organised party? "

That seems to be the question!

Neither would appeal to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or do you prefer the anticipation of knowing who will be there? "

I assume that as your partner knows your tastes you would be happy with his choice as he will know your tastes.

Both have their merits, anticipation can be sooooooooooo much fun. But then again, the not knowing can bring it's own pleasures

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I tried to surprise K for her birthday last week. Arranged a night out at what I thought would be a sophisticatd evening to find it had been hijacked by several screaming hen parties - I counted 5 guys in the place as punters and another 6 as bar staff. We left almost as soon as we finished the meal with heads ringing. I shall never try and be romantic again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, the former, which is why I spend so much time blindfold!

Just to clarify ...so surprise "gathering" of people you might not know...in preference over an organised party? "

Yes, correct - I love the anticipation, the not knowing who they are, what they look like, what they'll do, what they'll want - it's so exciting to me and also, imagination is by far the best turnon!

Of course you need a LOT of faith in your partner to do the right thing, get the right people, tell them what is and isnt ok etc etc.

Don't get me wrong, we do other things as well, this is just one type of play that I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume that as your partner knows your tastes you would be happy with his choice as he will know your tastes."

Totaly. The funny thing is that I know he finds men that I would find attractive, even though I'll never see them!

Hows that for consideration

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