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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone know the legal implications if an individual fails to comply with a court ruling with regards to financial settlement? thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you will be taken to court and have it taken from you plus legal costs.

Look up the marital court site. Great advice.

I did all my own divorce using it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks,it is difficult when you are dealing with someone who believes they are above the law. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks,it is difficult when you are dealing with someone who believes they are above the law. x"

They can be put away for that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just wondering thats all if the person concerned will have the sense to abide with the ruling, whatever the outcome maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say you will be taken to court and have it taken from you plus legal costs.

Look up the marital court site. Great advice.

I did all my own divorce using it. "

Yep: me too!

Divorce cost me £342 instead of thousands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks,it is difficult when you are dealing with someone who believes they are above the law. x

They can be put away for that xx"

Not necessarilly!

Kudos GC for doing it (as ever ) your way... But if the other arse is digging in, wouldnt it be better to get a solicitor? The legal aid teams are no slouches!

Xxx and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks,it is difficult when you are dealing with someone who believes they are above the law. x

They can be put away for that xx

Not necessarilly!

Kudos GC for doing it (as ever ) your way... But if the other arse is digging in, wouldnt it be better to get a solicitor? The legal aid teams are no slouches!

Xxx and good luck. "

I did say they can i didnt say they would xx

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i think they can get done for that, am going through my financial setlement just now and its a nightmare as he want more than 50/50 but i have daughter so my solicitor is doing all she can for me to get 60/40, good luck i know what your going thro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone know the legal implications if an individual fails to comply with a court ruling with regards to financial settlement? thanks x"

What sort of financial settlement? Proceeds from house sale? Maintenance? Alimony?

They are dealt with differently by the courts. Maintenance for children can be deducted directly from his earnings before he gets his hands on it but I'm not sure what punitive measures can be taken to get half of the proceeds of a house sale for example, although I would have thought that solicitors handling the sale/purchase would have transferred to monnies to each party upon completion.

DIY divorces are fine if it's amicable and everything salis through without any hiccups but if you've got one partner being an arse over money then you really need to do it properly and engage a lawyer.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Financial proceedings are private proceedings, discussing them on a public forum may not be a wise thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Financial proceedings are private proceedings, discussing them on a public forum may not be a wise thing to do."

.. .. ..We wern't trying to discuss any details, just after advice around what road to take next - as its a minefield. Was just asking if anybody had experienced what might happen next . . Thanks all the same. x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Personally the split was done by the legal team and we never got the chance to mess each other about but i do know that a friend of mine has been chasing getting paid out for years as her fella kept the house and agreed to buy her out and just failed to give her the dosh. its cost her thousands in legal costs and she still has not got a penny

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would it not be easier to bury him under the patio? I've done that with all 9 of my husbands & not had a second of trouble. I have a MASSIVE patio.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally the split was done by the legal team and we never got the chance to mess each other about but i do know that a friend of mine has been chasing getting paid out for years as her fella kept the house and agreed to buy her out and just failed to give her the dosh. its cost her thousands in legal costs and she still has not got a penny

Steve "

Ouch!!

Thankfully didn't have that problem, as he was already doing more than his fair share for the kids, I'm financially independent so didn't need anything from him, and our love for our children ourweighed any animosity we may have felt towards each other.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"would it not be easier to bury him under the patio? I've done that with all 9 of my husbands & not had a second of trouble. I have a MASSIVE patio..... "
lol nine hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex didn't even send his financial declaration back to the court, just ignored it and so nothing is legally settled although doesn't stop the absolute, I'm still much happier just try to avoid all the stress over money sometimes it's much better to just cut your losses and be free. Sometimes they use the financial matters as a way of clinging on or to have that bit of control. Whatever happens it's never pleasant and I wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you will need a solicitor to take it back to court. They can garnish wages directly if the person is employed. If the person is self-employed and continues to default they can then turn to assests the person owns.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"would it not be easier to bury him under the patio? I've done that with all 9 of my husbands & not had a second of trouble. I have a MASSIVE patio..... lol nine hey "

..that she admits to...

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If atall possible, and i know it's not easy, avoid court if you can.

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