FabSwingers.com forum: a little query for ladies and couples.

By *oma OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Okay, you're in a group/multiple person situation, every one is having fun, for arguments sake you, your partner and other males and females are sharing and swapping.

Condoms are being used, as they should.

The guys naturally move from one to another. . Question is, if a man has penetrated a woman with his condom clad penis then moves to you, do you ask/inform him to change the rubber before he goes any further?

Maybe gangbang devotees would answer this better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he doesn't change the condom he's a dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he doesn't change condom he's a dickhead. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was thinking about this if a guy just uses his fingers,, are there plenty of hand washing facilities?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Wouldn't be much point in insisting on condoms if they weren't changed in between women. I prefer them to wash their hands too.

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By *oma OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Feck. . Now I need to turn my bedroom into a communal washroom lol . . Basins behind the wardrobe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay, you're in a group/multiple person situation, every one is having fun, for arguments sake you, your partner and other males and females are sharing and swapping.

Condoms are being used, as they should.

Maybe gangbang devotees would answer this better.

We are not gangbang devotees, but surely the answer to this is just common sense??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was at a party a week ago and the host was very quick to ask someone to change a condom when he was seen to jump to another body.

Just basic common sense and was good to see

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By *oma OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Was at a party a week ago and the host was very quick to ask someone to change a condom when he was seen to jump to another body.

Just basic common sense and was good to see "

Agreed . . Just wondered if it was a common thing and everyone changed condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was at a party a week ago and the host was very quick to ask someone to change a condom when he was seen to jump to another body.

Just basic common sense and was good to see

Agreed . . Just wondered if it was a common thing and everyone changed condoms "

Well while we understand swingers are a bit more outrageous, we would be VERY surprised if anyone wanted to play Russian roulette with their lives and let's be honest here that is what it is.

To be honest, we are surprised anyone needed to ask the question, especially with the OP's experience in this lifestyle.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Feck. . Now I need to turn my bedroom into a communal washroom lol . . Basins behind the wardrobe! "

Hand wipes and/or sanitising gel are decent alternatives.

70% isopropyl alcohol wipes are a good choice for surfaces, toys and hands.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Feck. . Now I need to turn my bedroom into a communal washroom lol . . Basins behind the wardrobe!

Hand wipes and/or sanitising gel are decent alternatives.

70% isopropyl alcohol wipes are a good choice for surfaces, toys and hands."

Hard surfaces, obviously. They're not going to do much on absorbant ones...

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

"Hard surfaces, obviously. They're not going to do much on absorbant ones..."

Speaking as a bloke, surely if you're not in posession of a hard surface then you're unlikely to be doing any penetrating?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to attend clubs a lot and one thing is certain - fingers , mouths etc .... are never cleaned between playing in a group session . Simple fact .

The condom issue ?

If a guy is in a position to shag more than one woman in a session he may or may not change it ... truth be known more often than not he won't .

This is from our experience and the same whatever club we went to .

Not gonna add any more to the debate than these facts and this is one of the reasons we stopped going .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't take part in groups. Being single, I've no one to watch out for me, and having to be on my guard would ruin it for me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This is why I don't take part in groups. Being single, I've no one to watch out for me, and having to be on my guard would ruin it for me."

It's a concern for me too. It's not the only reason I don't do groups but it is a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus I'm new to all this and even I know that's a no brainer!!!

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