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By *immy2x OP Man
over a year ago

aberdeen/inverness/ highlands

Hi all, first time post in the forum, and only on here a few days ( if any ladies come or visit north of scotland add me as a friend). Anyway was wondering how woman feel about sime guy randomly walking up to them and asking if they would like to go on a date. I did this a couple of days ago for the first time without any alcohol involved or chat beforehand to clear the pathway. I just looked right over at a woman in the supermarket car park, gave her a big smile and saw her smile back, so i took my cue walked right up to her still smiling and asking if she was martied. She replied no and i asked if she fancied going out for a drink sometime, my.luck was in and she said yes. I gave her my number, and there you have it. Date planned for next week.

i know not everyone can do this, you really do need a lot of confidence and brush off any knick backs without a blink, but im starting to think this might be tge best way of all to pick up women. I think they are very flattered that a guy comes rught up to them like this. I hope it dint seem creepy. Another thing i think in this scenario a kind of buisness card would be the best way, the fumble for tge phone and exchange of numbers could lose the moment.

what you all think?

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

An Impulse moment can be nice if done well.

By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I was happy for you until I read 'pick up women'....

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me feel flattered, and i think it's a compliment that a guy would ask me out randomly, but it can come off as creepy if it happens near my house (like it did last week) coz then i worry the guy knows where i live.

Don't know if a business card would be a good idea really, might think you're chatting them up to get business lol?

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Welcome to the forums, if you have the confidence to do it then keep it up, your approach seems to be working

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think a business card would need to be handled correctly - you don't want to look as if you try it on that often, it was worth your while to have a run of 200 cards printed off...

By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Damn right! Its a numbers game. If they say no then you have lost er.... Well... Nothing!