FabSwingers.com forum: Being Alone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive just been talking to a lovely lady friend about being alone.

Does any one else love being alone? I don't mean lonely. I mean spending time just by yourself to do what you want? I can happily sit at home all weekend and chill by myself, or go for a walk on my own and soak up the countryside.

I think alone time is underrated. I love my friends and family but I think I love being by myself more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, I look forwards to the days all my kids are out and I have the house to myself

I can walk for hours with the dogs and my own thoughts, infact I think I could happily live totally alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my own company, I have a child so getting peace and free time is amazing.

Although I tend to fill it with naughty times

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I love being on my own, love my friends and family but really enjoy being on my own. That's why jay and I get on so well because he's the same and neither of us want to live together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep love my me time. Walking in the hills or just playing music. Perfecto every one should have some time.for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I could happily live totally alone "

I agree. So could I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when my kids are in bed after lots of cuddles and a story and it's just me! Don't get me wrong - I love cuddling up with a handsome friend from time to time - but it would take a very special guy to give up being single for!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solitude allows you to reboot your brain and unwind. Constantly being "on" doesn't give your brain a chance to rest and replenish itself. Being by yourself with no distractions gives you the chance to clear your mind, focus, and think more clearly. It's an opportunity to revitalize your mind and body at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. I can't stand being around people all the time. If I don't get my space I get very arsey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not one for craving company regularly, really enjoy just chilling by myself. Obviously alongside healthy levels of socialising

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I live in a bubble world, just my own little world

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh sitting down on a nice evening with some good music and shutting everything out. All issues temporarily abandoned - bliss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being alone. More so since having a child.

But saying that, I can't imagine her not running around now.. But I think it's safe to say I count down every day to her bedtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really love seeing things iother people take for granted..thats why I'm almost never without my camera..especially when out in all nature around me..whether its a bee,a bird or someone woman squatting to have a shite...am there snapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like being on my own everday and been so all my life and I look forwaard to my own company, becos I got so much to do when home so my time flys by, I study spanish and web developement html and c++, plus gym and muscle diet. Being a lonewolf is no problem for me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy chatting in the forums but I wouldn't like you all to be sitting in the same room as me every night

I like my own space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh sitting down on a nice evening with some good music and shutting everything out. All issues temporarily abandoned - bliss. "

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By *iscomanMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I like to get away occassionally to do my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like being on my own everday and been so all my life and I look forwaard to my own company, becos I got so much to do when home so my time flys by, I study spanish and web developement html and c++, plus gym and muscle diet. Being a lonewolf is no problem for me.

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my alone time. I sit in the quiet and look out of the windows or have a bath in peace.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I love my 'me time'. Couldn't stand getting home from a stressful day to someone pecking my head! Yep, alone time is good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love "me" time, I like my own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very rarely get alone time together let alone by ourselves. Love to curl up with a good book and revel in the peace and quiet on those rare occasions.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Lol Paula

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

"
Sí, yo hablo español para ti

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that's why there's so many single men on fab, plenty of me time....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Hi have we met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm alone is when I think the most, I don't like thinking, I like people around me so my mind is occupied. Weeknights are fine when my daughter goes to bed at 7pm I'll sit down with my munch and I'll watch the soaps or a documentary or question time or the agenda. Weekends when my daughter goes to her dads every Saturday and stays for the night, I feel like cos I'm free I should be doing something but instead I'm rattling round on my own I've felt it quite bad the last 2 months because my best friends boyfriend has been home from leave in the army and for the last 5 years me and her had been single together so weekends I'd be with her. Felt very lonely since November time!

Really really want a boyfriend, my daughter my friends and family give me so much love but I miss the closeness of having a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

Sí, yo hablo español para ti

Muy Bueno!! vivdo en México durante 5 años

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always liked my own company, it doesn't bother me at all. I love the peace and quiet. I am very social when out with my friends or family, but the evenings when my children are out and I come back to an empty house - bliss!

I have friends who really struggle to be on their own. I now think I have been on my own for so long, I will struggle to ever give that freedom up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yeah.

I like my own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Hi have we met?

I believe it's on the cards!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

That works for me too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

Sí, yo hablo español para ti

Muy Bueno!! vivdo en México durante 5 años

"
lol not sure how much foreign language we can speak her, but you got good Spanish to

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

I love having 'me' time. Even when I have been in relationships. I've valued the times where I can get away and do something where I don't have to please anyone else. It can be reading, watching a movie, walking in the hills. It's just so relaxing.

It's also nice having a balance, I love hill walking with a small group of friends, we've done some seriously good walks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Hi have we met?

I believe it's on the cards!!

Damn! Are you going to beat me to it ?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Ahh sitting down on a nice evening with some good music and shutting everything out. All issues temporarily abandoned - bliss. "

Totally agree

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a little alone time but an hour here or there is fine, I'm happiest when I have people around me. Don't always have to be communicating - working from home is just better when someone is with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like and need my alone time. not getting too much of it at the moment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being alone. Very happy in my own company.

I have my daughter with me full time(not complaining at all) but I long for the days when she visits her dad or grandparents so I can be alone.

Love my family and friends but love to head off on my own...mountain climbing, surfing, horse riding or just holed up in my house alone.

My happy place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only sometimes.

I like bouncing off someone too.

I like the bit where you don't have to talk.

To just be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 4 kids and husband so time alone is scarce!! I'm a very very sociable person, I hate being alone for too long

At be moment 6 hrs at most is all I can cope with! Nice to get a shower, go to loo with no peeping eyes, lay in bed naked for an hour, laze around with no nagging, make a cuppa and have a biscuit with no one nagging for summat

It's amazing but I do love being surrounded by family & friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Hi have we met?

I believe it's on the cards!!

Damn! Are you going to beat me to it ?

I'm not posessive honey. If you get there first just pm me to let me know what he's like in the sack!!

Only joking Ejay sweetie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Hi have we met?

I believe it's on the cards!!

Damn! Are you going to beat me to it ?

I'm not posessive honey. If you get there first just pm me to let me know what he's like in the sack!!

Only joking Ejay sweetie!

Haha I think there is a que! As I'm in wales I'm at the back of it

boo hoo poor me

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend quite a lot of time alone and it doesn't bother me, and I quite like doing things like walking on a wild hill alone, or lying on a beach. I'd rather be alone with a horse though

And i'd rather be alone with someone who's hung like one!

Hi have we met?

I believe it's on the cards!!

Damn! Are you going to beat me to it ?

I'm not posessive honey. If you get there first just pm me to let me know what he's like in the sack!!

Only joking Ejay sweetie!

Haha I think there is a que! As I'm in wales I'm at the back of it

boo hoo poor me

lol "

How about we have him all at once - a reverse gang-bang? Then we can all have dinner and a giggle?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I live alone and cannot imagine living with anyone again.

When I was ill for a number of years I didn't see or speak to anyone on a Sunday. It was the only way I could recoup my energy for another week of work. I still do this occasionally just to allow my brain a rest.

Alone but never lonely.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Love a bit of 'me time'. Pampering myself, doing my crafty bits, listening to music, dancing naked. Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often alone, never ever been lonely.

You can get a load done, or do nothing, all as you wish.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday is dead and gone , and tomorrow's out of sight. And it's sad to be alone , help me make it through the night.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I started a thread about this a couple of years ago, is the answer any different ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started a thread about this a couple of years ago, is the answer any different ?"

How can you remember shit like that? Two years?? That's ages ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes,I had forgotten about walking around the flat naked after a bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started a thread about this a couple of years ago, is the answer any different ?

How can you remember shit like that? Two years?? That's ages ago! "

Shit sticks?

as in adheres. not pooh sticks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my own company & I enjoy having time out to do what I like. Ultimately tho I prefer to be in the company of family & friends.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I love it too. I can't stand being around people all the time. If I don't get my space I get very very arsey!

But then POW! Refreshed! I want to be amid the throng again!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think I could easily end up a hermit in my old age

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I started a thread about this a couple of years ago, is the answer any different ?

How can you remember shit like that? Two years?? That's ages ago! "

I have been on here for just over 8 years, and there's not much that I can't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started a thread about this a couple of years ago, is the answer any different ?

How can you remember shit like that? Two years?? That's ages ago!

I have been on here for just over 8 years, and there's not much that I can't remember

Oh aye, here's a test then :

Who was the poster who went UNLOS on 6 March 2014?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ave no family an live on my own an ave just a handful of acquaintances an although I do luv being on my own sometimes I miss simples things like a cuddle or a smile. Christmas time is especially hard an I find I shut myself away from it all. There's alot of pros for being alone but deep inside we still need some sort of contact....

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

I abso love my own company

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Who was the poster who went UNLOS on 6 March 2014?"

How the hell do you expect me to remember that sort of bollocks, it was the day after mine and Diamondsmiles' birthday

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm surprised that no one has taxed being alone, I really value it. I wouldn't want all my time alone and part of its value is by contrast with social time, which I really value too.

I travel from around the world alone, can be fulfilled and content, without others around and am surprised when I meet others who don't.

A benefit of being single atm is that I don't have to do as much to get that me time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love living on my own, I lived with someone for 21 years and family before that, I did not think I would like it as scared of getting lonely however having a good social life, private sex life and buddy's, its great.

Me and my dogs walk for hours, chill at home snuggle up in the winter. garden in the summer life is good. Though there are people out there who need company so never forget them.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I love living on my own, I lived with someone for 21 years and family before that, I did not think I would like it as scared of getting lonely however having a good social life, private sex life and buddy's, its great.

Me and my dogs walk for hours, chill at home snuggle up in the winter. garden in the summer life is good. Though there are people out there who need company so never forget them. "

Ah that's what I mean about the horse though - you are not truly alone with your dogs, there are other 'souls' with you.

I relish that non-verbal connection - with horse or human. I don't mind being alone, and I'd rather live alone than with the wrong person, but I most love living with someone special - that close connection suits me best, that's where I thrive.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I honestly can't see me living with another human being again...I like alone time - had a lovely walk down the Sea Wall yesterday and just sat appreciating the silence and the gorgeous view (that's a scenic view, not our own raving pooftah, View). I have my cats for company and friends and family close by if I need to talk about anything, but seldom feel lonely (apart from when I'm ill when I could do with someone for a back rub and sympathy)

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I have had enough of me time lol

I want us time.

I love my own company but 6 years of it is enough now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my me time too. But ultimately I love being surrounded by friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

Sí, yo hablo español para ti

Muy Bueno!! vivdo en México durante 5 años

Yo no te vas a decir nada.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

Sí, yo hablo español para ti

Muy Bueno!! vivdo en México durante 5 años

That must have been a great experience hun! Xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm quite surprised the amount of people on this thread who couldn't live with anyone (including me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just been talking to a lovely lady friend about being alone.

I think alone time is underrated. I love my friends and family but I think I love being by myself more

I like me time for pampering and chilling but I also enjoy family/friends time it's about balance I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love alone time. I'm a definite introvert, when I spend too much time in the company of lots of other people I find it very tiring. Always need half an hour or so when I get home from work to wind down before I talk to anyone.

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham

"I love alone time. I'm a definite introvert, when I spend too much time in the company of lots of other people I find it very tiring. Always need half an hour or so when I get home from work to wind down before I talk to anyone. "

Me too, thank goodness I live on my tod, no one around to get pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola que tal?

Tu abalas espanol? Yo tambien

Sí, yo hablo español para ti

Muy Bueno!! vivdo en México durante 5 años

Yo no te vas a decir nada....."

Tu tambien?!

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