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By *itty_Wench OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos some have got nowt better to do than whine.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol "

Strange status update, don't you think?

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By *itty_Wench OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Not if you can read...

I said IN not ON

Still amazes me how people jump to conclusions lol

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By *itty_Wench OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Tell me about it....and I thought this was all supposed to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol

Strange status update, don't you think?"

Agreed, a bit odd. Why didn't you put in the pub you were in ? Here would suggest this site as people don't know you were in a pub.

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By *itty_Wench OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

And yes I do have photos on here...just prefer my privacy as do most on here lol

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By *itty_Wench OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Not my problem how my status is interpreted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone must've hacked "witty's" account, clearly no wit involved in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone must've hacked "witty's" account, clearly no wit involved in this"

Oooooh! He went there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my problem how my status is interpreted lol

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Then don't moan about the abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have ago at the fab bees op for having ago at you as you've had a go at them poor miners in the pub what right have you got to criticise them people ? If you can't take it don't give it ...... Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More importantly why do status updates need to be completed? Not directed at OP but do we need to know you're in the pub/shops/bath etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you said ugly ones

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol "

Why is it OK for you to be rude but no one else? Even if they weren't on site that's still quite a rude thing to say.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also fairly interesting that someone who judges on appearance has no pics on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my problem how my status is interpreted lol

"

Perhaps it is? You were suggesting that it had been misinterpreted. Apart from it sounding a tad unpleasant, perhaps it should have been more accurately phrased? I am by no means being offensive, that is not the intention, but I am suggesting you might be more, erm, sensitive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my problem how my status is interpreted lol

Perhaps it is? You were suggesting that it had been misinterpreted. Apart from it sounding a tad unpleasant, perhaps it should have been more accurately phrased? I am by no means being offensive, that is not the intention, but I am suggesting you might be more, erm, sensitive?"

Sounds like not everyone agrees with your username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my problem how my status is interpreted lol

Perhaps it is? You were suggesting that it had been misinterpreted. Apart from it sounding a tad unpleasant, perhaps it should have been more accurately phrased? I am by no means being offensive, that is not the intention, but I am suggesting you might be more, erm, sensitive?

Sounds like not everyone agrees with your username "

Was a typo anyway

Supposed to be halfwit wench

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol

Why is it OK for you to be rude but no one else? Even if they weren't on site that's still quite a rude thing to say. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive/nasty statuses even if only generically are pretty unpleasant, it could be said like attracts like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a horrible status to write anyway

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By *itty_Wench OP   Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

oh dear...not one of you has asked if I was talking about people, you all jumped to the same conclusion and like sheep all posted your negative vibes.

I was referring to a line up of toby/character jugs over the bar!

Dipping my toes into the forum has proved what a lot of people have said....it's very cliquey.

No doubt you'll all jump on here now and post more negativity....happy posting

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP report any 'abuse' but any criticism take it on the chin and perhaps learn from it..

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

when I had my heart attack I put on my status that I had been ill and some bloke mailed me to ask why I had put it down as he for one didn't care about my health!!!

I didn't care when I blocked him either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh dear...not one of you has asked if I was talking about people, you all jumped to the same conclusion and like sheep all posted your negative vibes.

I was referring to a line up of toby/character jugs over the bar!

Dipping my toes into the forum has proved what a lot of people have said....it's very cliquey.

No doubt you'll all jump on here now and post more negativity....happy posting"

Of course you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah....was about Toby jugs....sure.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Yeah....was about Toby jugs....sure. "

as Jim Royle may have uttered..

my arse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP does have a point though............Toby Jugs are ugly lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"OP does have a point though............Toby Jugs are ugly lol "

maybe in Rotherham..

darn sarf they are bee yut ifull or gawjuss..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy, just report abusive statuses to admin lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Easy, just report abusive statuses to admin lol "

and ugly statues to the local council public works dept..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does have a point though............Toby Jugs are ugly lol

maybe in Rotherham..

darn sarf they are bee yut ifull or gawjuss..

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Or gert lush further down south

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"OP does have a point though............Toby Jugs are ugly lol

maybe in Rotherham..

darn sarf they are bee yut ifull or gawjuss..

Or gert lush further down south "

proper ansome moi lover..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh dear...not one of you has asked if I was talking about people, you all jumped to the same conclusion and like sheep all posted your negative vibes.

I was referring to a line up of toby/character jugs over the bar!

Dipping my toes into the forum has proved what a lot of people have said....it's very cliquey.

No doubt you'll all jump on here now and post more negativity....happy posting"

If indeed you were talking about toby jugs, it might have been better to be more specific? Communication via the written word can cause offence when not phrased correctly. I myself have been guilty of this once or twice in e-mails and messages. When I have looked at what I have written, I then realise that it was not what I intended. If that is the case for you, by all means say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also fairly interesting that someone who judges on appearance has no pics on their profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stand by my comment and add your other posts to it too. Not very nice

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"oh dear...not one of you has asked if I was talking about people, you all jumped to the same conclusion and like sheep all posted your negative vibes.

I was referring to a line up of toby/character jugs over the bar!

Dipping my toes into the forum has proved what a lot of people have said....it's very cliquey.

No doubt you'll all jump on here now and post more negativity....happy posting"

Course you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh dear...not one of you has asked if I was talking about people, you all jumped to the same conclusion and like sheep all posted your negative vibes.

I was referring to a line up of toby/character jugs over the bar!

Dipping my toes into the forum has proved what a lot of people have said....it's very cliquey.

No doubt you'll all jump on here now and post more negativity....happy posting

Course you were "

I'd like to know who these "lot of people" are

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Had they been attractive 'Toby's' - the OP could have put 'Nice Jugs!' As s status update - and then incurred the wrath of the 'ooh that's a bit sexist!' brigade!

Because of course - it was about Toby Jugs.

And nothing else!!

A

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

If you have nothing nice to say, maybe it's better to say nothing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have nothing nice to say, maybe it's better to say nothing...."

Exactly this. Looks like the OP's attempt at humour back fired big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't know why anyone would want to post such a nasty negative status in the first place

Equally I don't know why people would automatically take a status from a profile on a swinging site personally?

Especially when it was blatently obvious it was about toby jugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose if you habitually put up "witty" statuses that people see and read out of context, it could have been the final straw?

I am tempted to hotlist you, purely for scientific research...

"those tits shouldn't be seen in public"

as those blue tits should have flown south for winter.

"fucking cock pics everywhere"

In Chicken farmers monthly.

"crap tattoos in Edinburgh" due to defence spending cuts.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I just had a jam sandwich.

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol "

I wouldn't be logging onto fab if I was in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on witless wench, if you fuck up, we'll let you know

But we're all friends here

I sense another ban on the horizon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/01/15 00:22:04]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too many whiney status updates! For me it shows desperation for some attention as they can't get it in a more positive method!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol "

I guess its a touch facebook, rather than of much swinging relevance unless, say, you were inviting fab friends to join you or to explain your absence.

You will always find someone not liking something but I guess you have learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol

I wouldn't be logging onto fab if I was in a pub "

Good point. I think its all bullshit !

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol "

Were you one of them?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Context is important in a status update. I do a new one everyday, trying to be witty - it's really good brain exercise - and with space for only 140 or so letters it's difficult not to be offensive without adding a context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status updates cause some people to be abusive?

I'm out having a drink after work and put on my status that there were some ugly feckers in here....oh boy did the insecure ones automatically assume I meant on site and not the pub I was in lol

Were you one of them?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we try our best not to associate with people who feel they need to be rude to others for no apparent reason on their status..... Speaks volumes to us about the person writing it,..... As I was taught as a child if you got nothing good to say then say nothing is best !!!!! Just our opinion !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I knew you didn't mean me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rude, abusive and judgemental status update if you ask me. Regardless of who it was aimed at.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I go through the good things of the day, before sleeping and aim not to offend anyone whilst awake. It's healthier to focus on the positive than other stuff.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Normally any thread about jugs will be more good humoured, folks like to keep abreast of such things..

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