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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Which compliment would please you more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive. No one likes a smart arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. Don't want a guy in bed to scream "you're so fucking clever!" in the heat of the moment, but I'd probably be more accepting of "intelligent" than "attractive".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be elated with either of them, It'd make a refreshing change from "twat".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None I'm going for stud

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Intelligent. Looks aren't everything.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"Depends on the situation. Don't want a guy in bed to scream "you're so fucking clever!" in the heat of the moment, but I'd probably be more accepting of "intelligent" than "attractive". "

This made me laugh. But I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attractive. No one likes a smart arse. "

I hide my smart arse well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be elated with either of them, It'd make a refreshing change from "twat"."

Shut up twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather be smart and ugly

Than dumb and really really incredibly good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both would be rather lovely and probably a miracle lol.

Most of the time I will settle for not bad looking geek ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be elated with either of them, It'd make a refreshing change from "twat".

Shut up twat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda like being called a combination of both - and fortunately I frequently am! Men are very complimentary when they desire access to your vagina, I find!!

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

what do you mean "or" ?

in my experience they are always said together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy! "

Yep there all fuck ugly ass kisses with no morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy! "

A lot of the richest/most successful people in the world aren't very attractive. Bill Gates, for example, didn't ooze sex appeal when he started out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I'm neither (Jane) either or would be nice

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

My age, either would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy!

A lot of the richest/most successful people in the world aren't very attractive. Bill Gates, for example, didn't ooze sex appeal when he started out. "

Valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy!

A lot of the richest/most successful people in the world aren't very attractive. Bill Gates, for example, didn't ooze sex appeal when he started out. "

When he became a multi billionaire he suddenly become very attractive.

Does happen alot this doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy!

A lot of the richest/most successful people in the world aren't very attractive. Bill Gates, for example, didn't ooze sex appeal when he started out.

When he became a multi billionaire he suddenly become very attractive.

Does happen alot this doesn't it "

Yeah of course, success and power are incredibly attractive characteristics. Plus he's very altruistic as a result. There's very little to dislike about him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attractive.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Attractive. I already know I'm intelligent

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I think there may be a logical right answer to this ?

Based upon the op they are not asking which attributes you would like to posses but the one you would like to be told ?

Thus I would like to be told I'm attractive, being told this has no bearing upon what a person may think of my personality although only a comment upon my intelligence could indeed be a reflection upon my percieved attractiveness

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Although I'm ok with

"Ugly twat" as at least you noticed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm both....so either will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there may be a logical right answer to this ?

Based upon the op they are not asking which attributes you would like to posses but the one you would like to be told ?

Thus I would like to be told I'm attractive, being told this has no bearing upon what a person may think of my personality although only a comment upon my intelligence could indeed be a reflection upon my percieved attractiveness "

Reading your posts you sound like Shakespeare.

What I mean is you're smart but I don't want to fuck you.

Now..just to flip that. .

..if someone actually said that yes it's a compliment but it's also a fucking insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there may be a logical right answer to this ?

Based upon the op they are not asking which attributes you would like to posses but the one you would like to be told ?

Thus I would like to be told I'm attractive, being told this has no bearing upon what a person may think of my personality although only a comment upon my intelligence could indeed be a reflection upon my percieved attractiveness "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligent

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"What I mean is you're smart but I don't want to fuck you.

Now..just to flip that. .

..if someone actually said that yes it's a compliment but it's also a fucking insult. "

Not wanting to fuck someone isn't an insult, surely?

Gadzooks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I know I'm both,I don't need to be told

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'd prefer both. But I do have the odd blonde moment like most people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of the scene in Working Girl where Melanie Griffiths says "I've got a head for business and a body for sin". I think if someone said that about me I'd be very flattered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to be called large arse than smart arse, would probably never be called attractive as I'm okay but most people are complimentary about my sense of humour or good hair. Sure sign I'm not attractive in the conventional sense

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'd like to think I've got a spoonful of looks and dash of intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. I know I'm both,I don't need to be told "

Well you look lovely and read as intelligent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attractive. No one likes a smart arse. "

Have to agree to a point but like an intelligent and interesting mind with easy conversation rather than academic bore with no sexual allure... vanity and conceit are two big turn offs no matter how great a fuck you purport to be.

But then this is not a dating site is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I mean is you're smart but I don't want to fuck you.

Now..just to flip that. .

..if someone actually said that yes it's a compliment but it's also a fucking insult.

Not wanting to fuck someone isn't an insult, surely?

Gadzooks! "

Tut tut..you know what I mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

I was called 'mardy' earlier. Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive. I'm completely confident in my own intelligence.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"I kinda like being called a combination of both - and fortunately I frequently am! Men are very complimentary when they desire access to your vagina, I find!! "
ha ha oooooh thats soooooooo true...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which compliment would please you more"

What do you do when you've got it both ways like me though?! :P

No really, I'd rather someone compliment me on my brains and my intelligence, rather than my outward appearance, which, on the whole, I can't really change. 'You have beautiful lips!' 'THANKS I GREW THEM MYSELF'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dumb and incredible good looking people get ahead in life lol... just take a look at your works hierarchy! "

Not in mine they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely intelligence, it's more how I see my self rather than good looking.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I find intelligence attractive. Even more so if it comes nicely wrapped

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Well if can enter the realms of fantasy to answer this one....

Attractiveness for a change as for the other one.....

I just don,tunderstand the question..

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I'd prefer both. But I do have the odd blonde moment like most people lol "

I have blond moments every second of my life xx

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Attractive.

Let's be honest. It gets your attention first.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

As far as the OPs question....it depends.

If I was walking down a street and a passerby said I was attractive then I would be very chuffed.

If soneone I was talking to said I was intelligent, then that would have a similar effect.

I am ok looking and quite bright, so either would be a stretch of the truth I would be wiling to receive graciously

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

attractive .. who needs intelligence then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's look at it this way: If the village idiot calls you intelligent is it better than Quasimodo saying you're attractive?

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Maybe as a couple we can hope one is intelligent and one attractive... Best of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's look at it this way: If the village idiot calls you intelligent is it better than Quasimodo saying you're attractive? "

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