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"I am also on the doners list , it made me want to do it more when my daughter let her sons organs used for transplant the courage she showed was amazing. And he saved 2 babies and a teenage girl.." And the unfortunate typo of the day award goes to... Sorry! | |||
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"Jolly thread... " Organ donation is one of the most altruistic things that a person can do, and I take a great deal of pleasure in the fact that so many of us are willing to do it, so yes, I agree, it is a jolly thread. | |||
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"Jolly thread... " Humbling thread, to think that after losing a child at 6 days old, fucking 6 days!! and the parents could see through their grief to help others | |||
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"I wd love to but due to my health being shit na its never allowed to happen my parts wont help no one im afraid x " Let medical science study your body. It might help to a breakthrough in the problems with your health that others suffer from. | |||
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"I am also on the doners list , it made me want to do it more when my daughter let her sons organs used for transplant the courage she showed was amazing. And he saved 2 babies and a teenage girl.. And the unfortunate typo of the day award goes to... Sorry! " | |||
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"I have been on the register for as long as I can remember. I am so full of admiration to parents who can give their consent for their childs organs to be used. I will be honest and say, I'm not sure I could Our youngest daughter has a genetic condition (not hereditary) and *touch wood* should the worst ever happen to her, we would be faced with the hardest decision ever - whether to donate her body for research into her condition. The logical part says yes as it could help with treatments & a cure that could set all other girls with her condition free but my parent heart says it couldn't bare it Hids" I feel selfish saying this but I'll admit that I'm not sure I could do it either... Take whatever you want from me but our son went through the same thing in the O.P and, had they not managed to resuscitate him, I'm not sure if I could see through the grief to allow it, even knowing it could save others, but I suppose that would in some cases be denial to accept that they weren't going to wake up/miraculously recover. I could give permission for Vincent but not sure if I could've for my Baby. And for that, I have the upmost respect for those parents. It's a heartbreaking decision. - Amy. x | |||
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"Yep. Also off to give blood this afternoon. Anyone else? Not trying to hyjack thread, but clearly linked. Anyone else a blood donor?" Yes I have donated blood since Uni days. My father had many pints of blood whilst he was terminally ill, so it feels like i'm giving something back for the extra time it gave us with him. | |||
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"I'm on the organ donor list too, but I don't understand why some have said "everything but my eyes". They're not "windows to the soul", they're just lumps of tissue and cartilage that are no good to you when you're dead." i know it is not logical, but I also used to think I didn't want to donate my heart. I can't really explain why. Now I am just down to the eyes, but it may change yet! | |||
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"Definite yes from me. My younger brother died in sept 2012. As he had made no wish ( he was too young to die ) as a family we agreed to organ donation. A few months after his death we received a letter from the hopsital to say that 4 of his organs had been successfully transplanted and the recipients were all making good progress. I would encourage everyone to do the same. We never know what the next day brings. It maybe us wanted someone's else organs. My brothers spirit lives on. Paul " What a beautiful post and his spirit certainly does. You were all brave to make that decision. | |||
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"Definite yes from me. My younger brother died in sept 2012. As he had made no wish ( he was too young to die ) as a family we agreed to organ donation. A few months after his death we received a letter from the hopsital to say that 4 of his organs had been successfully transplanted and the recipients were all making good progress. I would encourage everyone to do the same. We never know what the next day brings. It maybe us wanted someone's else organs. My brothers spirit lives on. Paul What a beautiful post and his spirit certainly does. You were all brave to make that decision. " Thanks It was the hardest decision I had ever made in my life, but the most worthwhile. | |||
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"Everything but my eyes and the same for my son" im the same im squeamish about eyes | |||
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"I lost my son when he was 20 months old and donated his organs, they have a desperate shortage of organs for children under 5 simply because most parents who loose kids that age don't want their bodies cutting up, for me a child of 20 months passing away seemed such a waste of life but by helping other children live it made it seem less of a waste Ask yourself this, if your child was I'll and needed a transplant would you take an organ from a dead child to save your child's life? If the answers yes then you should do the same in return " That is what leans me more to yes I would but tbh I really don't want to think about having to ever make that decision - not that any parent does Hids | |||
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"Everything but my eyes and the same for my son im the same im squeamish about eyes " I'm fairly sure they wait until you're dead before taking any organ, including eyes - just out of interest, if they took everything else, would you have your eyeballs cremated or buried in a small coffin? | |||
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"I lost my son when he was 20 months old and donated his organs, they have a desperate shortage of organs for children under 5 simply because most parents who loose kids that age don't want their bodies cutting up, for me a child of 20 months passing away seemed such a waste of life but by helping other children live it made it seem less of a waste Ask yourself this, if your child was I'll and needed a transplant would you take an organ from a dead child to save your child's life? If the answers yes then you should do the same in return " Lump in my throat reading your post I admire you and the decision you made, I'm sure their are some very grateful parents out there that just couldn't thank you enough. | |||
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"Doctors have performed the first organ transplants from a newborn in the UK. In a procedure described as a milestone in neonatal care, a six-day-old baby girl's kidneys and liver cells were given to two separate recipients after her heart stopped beating. Experts argue there is potential for more life-saving donations, but say current UK guidelines are prohibitive. An official review is expected by the Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health this year. 'Extraordinary generosity. the baby girl who was born in extremely poor health. Tests suggest she had been starved of oxygen before birth and despite resuscitation had profound brain damage. Doctors at Imperial College NHS Trust in London say in an act of "extraordinary generosity" her parents agreed that her organs could be donated once her heart stopped beating. Her kidneys were given to a patient with renal failure. And in a separate operation her liver cells were transfused to someone with a failing liver. I think this family are inspiring to have given such a gift at such a sad time. My family know I'm happy to donate everything, apart from my eyes - I don't know why , I know they're no use to me once I'm dead. Are you happy to donate anything after your death ? " yes I'm happy to donate everything.. If I can save lives once dead that makes me happy... Even my eyes | |||
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"I have a donor card and my family have discussed what we all want. I think it very brave to hand over organs from a new born. What a lovely kind thing to do when you are in such distress. " Such courageous people | |||
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"I'm down to donate everything. I donated blood in an unusual circumstance and got a letter later thanking me and telling me that the recipient made a full recovery. Knowing the differ a small act like that made to someone else I'm definitely happy to give up whatever left of me when I die, especially my eyes, if I could help two people see then that would be amazing. I definitely think it should be an opt out system not an opt in." I agree that for internal organs it should be an opt out service!! Perhaps things like eyes that ultimately affect how you appear at your wake should be excluded, but heart/kidneys/liver etc I really wanted to do bone marrow donations, but you cant if you have a bmi above 35 apparently, and I couldn't get the time off work for the recovery :-/ | |||
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"I'm down to donate everything. I donated blood in an unusual circumstance and got a letter later thanking me and telling me that the recipient made a full recovery. Knowing the differ a small act like that made to someone else I'm definitely happy to give up whatever left of me when I die, especially my eyes, if I could help two people see then that would be amazing. I definitely think it should be an opt out system not an opt in." I agree I think it should be an opt out system as well | |||
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"I'm down to donate everything. I donated blood in an unusual circumstance and got a letter later thanking me and telling me that the recipient made a full recovery. Knowing the differ a small act like that made to someone else I'm definitely happy to give up whatever left of me when I die, especially my eyes, if I could help two people see then that would be amazing. I definitely think it should be an opt out system not an opt in.I agree I think it should be an opt out system as well " | |||
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"Just out of interest why are so many so set against giving their eyes?" All i'd ask is that before they carve my eye's out they MUST make sure I am FULLY DEAD | |||
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"Just out of interest why are so many so set against giving their eyes? All i'd ask is that before they carve my eye's out they MUST make sure I am FULLY DEAD " Yeah make sure you state that or they may not check | |||
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"Just out of interest why are so many so set against giving their eyes? All i'd ask is that before they carve my eye's out they MUST make sure I am FULLY DEAD Yeah make sure you state that or they may not check " This is the thing see... | |||
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"Just out of interest why are so many so set against giving their eyes? All i'd ask is that before they carve my eye's out they MUST make sure I am FULLY DEAD Yeah make sure you state that or they may not check This is the thing see... " Its OK they remove the heart first you will be dead | |||
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"Just out of interest why are so many so set against giving their eyes? All i'd ask is that before they carve my eye's out they MUST make sure I am FULLY DEAD Yeah make sure you state that or they may not check This is the thing see... Its OK they remove the heart first you will be dead " I'm suspicious of your mind now.... | |||
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"Anything that can be used take it!* . . . . . . *Apart from my arse which has been promised to The Museum of Fine Arse in Geneva. " They can have my arse. It's as good as new. | |||
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"Anything that can be used take it!* . . . . . . *Apart from my arse which has been promised to The Museum of Fine Arse in Geneva. They can have my arse. It's as good as new. " I take issue with that as I think you've put a hole in it. | |||
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"Just out of interest why are so many so set against giving their eyes?" Alot of people see them as windows to the soul. Also the idea of have your eyes removed spooks alot of people. When harvesting the organs are removed in order of life they have outside the body. So hear,lungs,liver,spleen, then kidneys and last is bone and eyes as the corneas have no blood supply and breath for themselves.. As something is removed so something is put in its place so you don't look like an empty sack. (sorry couldn't think of a better analogy). | |||
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"The process isnt as simple as organ donation yes or no" Check your driving licence... Yes /no.. (but I get that it is a big decision for some) | |||
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