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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Prompted from earlier do people that use the forums get messages when they post a new thread or comment ?

We had one this morning and then got blocked lol !! Thought the whole point of forums was to discuss subjects on there ? lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, sometimes a forum comment does get a few PMs.

There have been a few who have become chat friends because of a shared silly moment in private!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never post a thread to get messages, only to either get something off my chest or to say something to the wider forum community.

As a way of attracting new messages, it has never worked for me! I do get blocked by people as a result of some of my comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen on occasion.

A while back, I had been providing some 'advice' on countless 'help with my profile' threads and a couple of fellow contributors messaged me complimenting me on my tips.

Sometimes you might post something that strikes a chord with someone and they might feel inclined to message you outside of the forum.

In some cases, it can even lead to meets.

What I like about the forum is that you can get a much better sense of someones personality from their posts than you would otherwise get just from reading their profile.

It's a great way of getting to know people on the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never post a thread to get messages, only to either get something off my chest or to say something to the wider forum community.

As a way of attracting new messages, it has never worked for me! I do get blocked by people as a result of some of my comments.

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We dont post to get messages either was just interested if others get them or it was just us and a random event lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hapends to me a lot and I agree its another way to get to know someone a lot better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one or two from people I seem to have offended with comments on here but I just reply block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We had one this morning and then got blocked lol !! "

That's happened to me....

I wonder if it's the same people?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We had one this morning and then got blocked lol !!

That's happened to me....

I wonder if it's the same people?... "

Lol that would be funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few and I (Jane) have sent a few,some of which quite hastily and looking back sometimes regret. But hey ho we all can't be perfect x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've had a few and I (Jane) have sent a few,some of which quite hastily and looking back sometimes regret. But hey ho we all can't be perfect x"

We can all be perfect , it just wouldnt be as much fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had a few and I (Jane) have sent a few,some of which quite hastily and looking back sometimes regret. But hey ho we all can't be perfect x

We can all be perfect , it just wouldnt be as much fun lol "

true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prompted from earlier do people that use the forums get messages when they post a new thread or comment ?

We had one this morning and then got blocked lol !! Thought the whole point of forums was to discuss subjects on there ? lol "

I get the odd bit of abuse and then get blocked. Usually LFC fans or socialists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread I'm fucking glad I'm not the only one who get's this shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading this thread I'm fucking glad I'm not the only one who get's this shit. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I generally do- Is a good way to interact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. There are quite a few fabbers I've become friendly with as a result of forum-ing

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banter on a thread has led to me sending some well received messages, but it is rare to get a first message...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There are some lovely people in this forum and it's always wonderful to receive a nice message and to send them to peeps.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

sometimes ..i recently spent a whole evening chatting with a nice lady on here because of something i posted on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all of my messages come as a result of my forum posts - I got a surprising amount thanking me for the Chinese Whisper thread, and how much people enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many on the back of forum posts, but I don't tend to start threads myself. I'm obviously not controversial or annoying enough

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

You mean there are other ways of getting messages on this site than being annoying in the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My forum experience has largely shown me how dense I can be. Lol

I came on to just have a laugh and post a few comments- just be myself, really- but found that people were actually reading what I wrote.

As a consequence, I've made some really good contacts and got a few meets... More may be in the offing

I've never started a thread and definitely not posted to get a message. Maybe I'll start. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get many on the back of forum posts, but I don't tend to start threads myself. I'm obviously not controversial or annoying enough "

Absolutely, you don't And clearly self-aware

Haha

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