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Couple Profiles lacking guy pics....

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By *rightonCheeky OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Recently rejoined this wonderful site and when last on it was a constant frustration that many couple profiles lack pics of the male half.

Ellie and I want to play with couples where she fancies the guy and we both fancy the girl.

So why are so many guys absent in the pics on their profile?

We do get that there are likely to be more pics of the lady than the guy (our profile is exactly like that that)

Thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need more pictures of the guy on your profile. I'm straight, but he is great looking with a good body. Men should never be overshadowed on couples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all couples look as good as you two... (definitely include myself in that!)

We have pics of us both on our profile and we are not shy about using face pics, however many males in couples aren't willing I guess.

Perhaps it is easier to ride on the looks of their wives and hope the other party don't mind when it comes to a meet?

(Male replying here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed that to and this is what I think.

The pussey sells so they would get more offers by just showing that

and

single women and couples will be as fussie as if he would be a single man (as we know) and the other couple or single woman that wants to meet them, still need to fancy him even tho they might like the woman in the couple.

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By *rightonCheeky OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


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Perhaps it is easier to ride on the looks of their wives and hope the other party don't mind when it comes to a meet?

(Male replying here)"

You are very likely spot on here, but we'd never meet a couple without knowing what they both looked like......

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By *arks_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Wife doesn't take great pictures...

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We are guilty as charged on this offence. I suppose it's because men in general respond to visual stimulation whereas women to mental stimulation.

That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it. Lol

Dave

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We have pictures of Keith in private on our profile because of his job there are no pictures on general view. Yes he answers the messages as it's our profile its how we want to run it. We do send face pictures of us both before a meet. Yes we have both attended social events.

Does this make us fake? Some will say yes but we are not.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We do get that there are likely to be more pics of the lady than the guy (our profile is exactly like that that)

Thoughts on this?

"

this is REALLY simple.

Fanny works on here.

It just does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another possible explanation is some are fake profiles set up by single/married men....and they are stupid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none of nick on ours but this is because he doesn't play as of yet only films

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I may be old fashioned but I like to see couples in couples pics......otherwise it's more like two separate singles on one profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be worse could be a profile with no pics at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to think we've got a fairly good mix, not all of them are public of course.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Recently rejoined this wonderful site and when last on it was a constant frustration that many couple profiles lack pics of the male half.

Ellie and I want to play with couples where she fancies the guy and we both fancy the girl.

So why are so many guys absent in the pics on their profile?

We do get that there are likely to be more pics of the lady than the guy (our profile is exactly like that that)

Thoughts on this?

"

We only have pic of me (mrs) but then we are only looking for straight guys to play with me while hubby joins in with. So he doesn't need to be on show. We do have his pic in private that would be sent to any potential meet so they can at least see him before we meet. But as not looking for couples or fems to play with him there is no need for more than myself on the profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently rejoined this wonderful site and when last on it was a constant frustration that many couple profiles lack pics of the male half.

Ellie and I want to play with couples where she fancies the guy and we both fancy the girl.

So why are so many guys absent in the pics on their profile?

We do get that there are likely to be more pics of the lady than the guy (our profile is exactly like that that)

Thoughts on this?

We only have pic of me (mrs) but then we are only looking for straight guys to play with me while hubby joins in with. So he doesn't need to be on show. We do have his pic in private that would be sent to any potential meet so they can at least see him before we meet. But as not looking for couples or fems to play with him there is no need for more than myself on the profile pic."

same for us

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By *aster n subCouple
over a year ago

pickering

I think its a confidence thing us blokes we hate to admit it but our body's cannot compete with what we have in our minds as perfect .mine is out of proportion due to manual labour it tends to be the job we do that shapes us if we didnt do the jobs we do and spend all our time in the gym it would be different hell if i dont like looking in the mirror who else would want to look at me ?

Not a great sales pitch but hey ho lol

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

because he doesnt want his pictures on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we have tried no pic's of Mr, all pic's, some pic's. Even had Mr as profile pics.

Still 99.9 % of mail is directed at jools.

We hope once we get some verifications from couples we have actually played with as apposed to just social meets other couples may take Mr more seriously.

Also jools is shit at taking pics and mr is fuck ugly

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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago

northampton


"Recently rejoined this wonderful site and when last on it was a constant frustration that many couple profiles lack pics of the male half.

Ellie and I want to play with couples where she fancies the guy and we both fancy the girl.

So why are so many guys absent in the pics on their profile?

We do get that there are likely to be more pics of the lady than the guy (our profile is exactly like that that)

Thoughts on this? maybe it's just easier for the ladies to look sexy, not all of us guys do.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to think we've got a fairly good mix, not all of them are public of course."

+1 this

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We also have to be careful what pics we show of him, which is made more difficult by his various tattoos!

We have face pics to show anyone we arrange a meet with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently rejoined this wonderful site and when last on it was a constant frustration that many couple profiles lack pics of the male half.

Ellie and I want to play with couples where she fancies the guy and we both fancy the girl.

So why are so many guys absent in the pics on their profile?

We do get that there are likely to be more pics of the lady than the guy (our profile is exactly like that that)

Thoughts on this?

"

We are guilty of this too... More in our private pictures but still the ratio is vast, not on purpose, Hes not the fussed over having his picture taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are a couple wanting to meet couples and the guy thinks he looks ugly, why the hell are they on here? If he thinks he looks so bad he can't show a photo there's no way in hell we'd be meeting them.

Disgusting attitude. They clearly think the other poor woman will fuck him anyway as she won't want to offend him when they turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are a couple wanting to meet couples and the guy thinks he looks ugly, why the hell are they on here? If he thinks he looks so bad he can't show a photo there's no way in hell we'd be meeting them.

Disgusting attitude. They clearly think the other poor woman will fuck him anyway as she won't want to offend him when they turn up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are a couple wanting to meet couples and the guy thinks he looks ugly, why the hell are they on here? If he thinks he looks so bad he can't show a photo there's no way in hell we'd be meeting them.

Disgusting attitude. They clearly think the other poor woman will fuck him anyway as she won't want to offend him when they turn up. "

I would imagine people are just being flippant when they say this, I dot think it should be taken so literally.

That said I don't understand why people make excuses for no pics of the males. Just state they are not going to have male pics in public and leave it like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we have a mix, as we do in friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't make first contact with people anymore if there arn't face pics of both on display...

Just saves disappointment later if we don't find them attractive and have made the first move so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are a couple wanting to meet couples and the guy thinks he looks ugly, why the hell are they on here? If he thinks he looks so bad he can't show a photo there's no way in hell we'd be meeting them.

Disgusting attitude. They clearly think the other poor woman will fuck him anyway as she won't want to offend him when they turn up.

I would imagine people are just being flippant when they say this, I dot think it should be taken so literally.

That said I don't understand why people make excuses for no pics of the males. Just state they are not going to have male pics in public and leave it like that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are a couple wanting to meet couples and the guy thinks he looks ugly, why the hell are they on here? If he thinks he looks so bad he can't show a photo there's no way in hell we'd be meeting them.

Disgusting attitude. They clearly think the other poor woman will fuck him anyway as she won't want to offend him when they turn up.

I would imagine people are just being flippant when they say this, I dot think it should be taken so literally.

That said I don't understand why people make excuses for no pics of the males. Just state they are not going to have male pics in public and leave it like that. "

Fair point about people being flippant.

Although I am a grumpy old bag about couples meeting couples not having pics of the male, I do actually agree with you about them doing what makes them happy with their profile.

I do think it's daft if they just have pics of the female half but I also know they won't give a flying fuck what I think because they wouldn't want to meet someone like me anyway.

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