FabSwingers.com forum: Things that turn you off .?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What turns you off in a letter here.?? For me its People telling me about others they have shagged and making me feel like a notch on there bed post .

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Being told what to wear, what to do, and what will happen like a scripted meet.

Also, people jumping straight to naughty chat, and being overly crude

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

People telling me all about what they want, as if I'll be excited to do it for them for the sheer joy of making their fantasies happen and getting them off.

People who ask what I'm in to.

People who tell me they are a heavy cummer (yuk!).

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

"Being told what to wear, what to do, and what will happen like a scripted meet.

Also, people jumping straight to naughty chat, and being overly crude"

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By *tu griffMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Turn up for a meet and the woman barely says hello, hardly acknowledges me and walks straight into the bed room and into bed, I strip off and she doesn't even bat an eyelid, virtually no eye contact no kissing! Awful! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As flattering as it is when people are overkeen - pushing for a meet when you have said probably not for a few weeks and they say how about this friday -

not once but over and again - makes me think what will they be like on meeting - gives me an uneasy feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being told what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pushy men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who send you a message with Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in!!!!

How is that meant to convey anything remotely sexy. Just reminds us of Austin Powers and Carry On films.

May as well follow it up with a Phwoar and a ding dong!!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Bad hats

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"What turns you off in a letter here.?? For me its People telling me about others they have shagged and making me feel like a notch on there bed post .

Arrogance

Indiscretion

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"People who send you a message with Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in!!!!

How is that meant to convey anything remotely sexy. Just reminds us of Austin Powers and Carry On films.

May as well follow it up with a Phwoar and a ding dong!!! "

Just consider yourself lucky it isn't nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn - 'cos we know what they are doing then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who want to plan a meet would much rather just see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seekers who use their status to draw attention, then complain about having too much mail.

A recent one "I need a massage"

Same person an hour later

"Guys stop mailing me, I can't keep up "

Be careful what you wish for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who message you asking to meet and they havent saw a face photo

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Bad hats"

Like fezezezezezes?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Bad hats

Like fezezezezezes?"

Don't you dare dis the prince of hats!

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Being told what to wear, what to do, and what will happen like a scripted meet.

Also, people jumping straight to naughty chat, and being overly crude"

I hate these and being directed when playing " do this" " do that" puts me off

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Being told what to wear, what to do, and what will happen like a scripted meet.

Also, people jumping straight to naughty chat, and being overly crude"

Ditto.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

97 cock photos, some oozing cum and a few pics of him fucking or being sucked by someone else.

Messages asking if I'd like to take their virginity.

Messages saying I see you like (insert activity), so do I, when can we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who say how weird it is that my hubby lets me see other men and that he stays down stairs when I meet people.

people who also tell me everything about the people they have met and who are on their friends list, and tell me all about their wives or girlfriends, sometimes its better not to know about these things and you just know they will be telling them things about you as well. I want to meet reasonably nice men for sex, not hear their life story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seeing people posting for meets, needs now and when you reply they shun you and then repeat posts again, to be quite frank some of the profiles read more like the terms of a lease. what a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attention seekers who use their status to draw attention, then complain about having too much mail.

A recent one "I need a massage"

Same person an hour later

"Guys stop mailing me, I can't keep up "

Be careful what you wish for....

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People sending a fantasy story as a first message.. Instant delete.

Asking "are you having much luck on here?".. Instant delete.

Starting with "I know I'm under your age limit, but...". Go away.

Grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People sending a fantasy story as a first message.. Instant delete.

Asking "are you having much luck on here?".. Instant delete.

Starting with "I know I'm under your age limit, but...". Go away.

Grrr

If you don't like people outside your age limit contacting you, then just put a block on those outside your remit, preventing them from messaging you in the first place.

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"People telling me all about what they want, as if I'll be excited to do it for them for the sheer joy of making their fantasies happen and getting them off.

People who ask what I'm in to.

People who tell me they are a heavy cummer (yuk!)."

Heavy cummers "heaving"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People sending a fantasy story as a first message.. Instant delete.

Asking "are you having much luck on here?".. Instant delete.

Starting with "I know I'm under your age limit, but...". Go away.

Grrr

If you don't like people outside your age limit contacting you, then just put a block on those outside your remit, preventing them from messaging you in the first place."

It's not the fact they are under my limit, it's the apology and the phrasing I don't like... As I say in my profile, I change my mind regularly and some younger men do know how to push my buttons. But can guarantee that they don't start with an apology when messaging me, they ooze confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting to see that no physical acts are `turning people off`.... oh what a mucky lot we are!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Interesting to see that no physical acts are `turning people off`.... oh what a mucky lot we are!!"

Haha, there's plenty turn me off - I'm not kinky at all, and I tend to avoid people who are overtly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorance

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overly graphic verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said; being pushy, going on about their wants, and demanding stuff. People who go over the top with compliments, erm?

I'm getting a lot of messages lately from people saying 'they want to get to know me', not sure how i respond to that? So also messages i can't even respond to are annoying. Just try and start a normal conversation, maybe chuck a sincere compliment in and that'll do.

"People who send you a message with Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in!!!!

How is that meant to convey anything remotely sexy. Just reminds us of Austin Powers and Carry On films.

May as well follow it up with a Phwoar and a ding dong!!! "

Hahaha, this really made me laugh. Thanks.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

For me (Dave) it's a 'what are you into?' Message, we prefer to get to know people and if we agree to meet at a club and all goes well we can then discuss the boundaries.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Guys that message as if addressing a single lady and not even acknowledging or respecting that we are in fact a couple !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not reading profiles -

and not having Austin Powers next door

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