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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya

What would be your favourite valentines treat ??

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nothing I dislike valentines day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be doing with it, like any other over commercialised 'day' just let it pass by without fuss

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

time and happiness and sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An evening,night and morning of lovely sex with a hot man will do me

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.

Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.

Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon..."

So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.

Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...

So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?"

He can't reach the taps yet, I've had imaginary tea in a plastic cup.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I'd be happy with a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do valentines, not even a card.. It's all a load of poppy cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id long for just a day of kissing, massage n being together. chips on sea front,, penny arcades, few drinks in a small pub with an open fire

or a log cabin break with hot tub would be lavish..

the day is about the company you share though so could be anywhere really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer the odd little surprise/gift for no reason other than he wants you to have it - dont need a special day for that Sx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"id long for just a day of kissing, massage n being together. chips on sea front,, penny arcades, few drinks in a small pub with an open fire

or a log cabin break with hot tub would be lavish..

the day is about the company you share though so could be anywhere really

Oh log cabin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way we both see it is, why only make an effort and be romantic on one day a year? We do things through out the year, like cards for no reason, a small gift and weekends away, and we tell each other a few times a day that we love each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have a boyfriend would be nice. This will be my 6th valentines day as a singleton!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will pass by... Like always.

Its a non event.

Romance and passion is not defined by a card and a restaurant full of couples looking each other up and down..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It will pass by... Like always.

Its a non event.

Romance and passion is not defined by a card and a restaurant full of couples looking each other up and down.."

Or mostly on their phones thinking dear god I want to go home

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"To have a boyfriend would be nice. This will be my 6th valentines day as a singleton! "

It will happen when it's the right time and the right place....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a work trip away in a hotel on Valentines day. It was a hotel where the restaurant was over the car park.. No alternatives nearby.

Apart from the bar staff, I was the only one there alone.

Nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a work trip away in a hotel on Valentines day. It was a hotel where the restaurant was over the car park.. No alternatives nearby.

Apart from the bar staff, I was the only one there alone.

Nightmare"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Where romantic all year, I will probably cook something nice as I rarely cook for him in fact only cooked for him once since last valentines day lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Where romantic all year, I will probably cook something nice as I rarely cook for him in fact only cooked for him once since last valentines day lol"

Was he still standing afterwards?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The way we both see it is, why only make an effort and be romantic on one day a year? We do things through out the year, like cards for no reason, a small gift and weekends away, and we tell each other a few times a day that we love each other

we do that too but still enjoy being cheesey romantic on valentines day....well i do, not sure about letsbe but he has not choice haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Where romantic all year, I will probably cook something nice as I rarely cook for him in fact only cooked for him once since last valentines day lol

Was he still standing afterwards?

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cheeky bitch lol, last valentines day we started on the billinis before I started cooking so was half pissed had bought a lovely big bit of fillet it steak and it literally got thrown in the pan and back out again. Good job he doesn't love me for my cooking skills

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Where romantic all year, I will probably cook something nice as I rarely cook for him in fact only cooked for him once since last valentines day lol

Was he still standing afterwards?

cheeky bitch lol, last valentines day we started on the billinis before I started cooking so was half pissed had bought a lovely big bit of fillet it steak and it literally got thrown in the pan and back out again. Good job he doesn't love me for my cooking skills

I can understand why he loves you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gorgeous bouquet of flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find my men go very quiet just before Valentine's day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a nice bouquet of flowers, meal, wine and a lot of steamy sex... i know im getting half of that this year x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would be happy with a night of hot passion, that doesn't to cost money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mates flying into the uk... so best valentines day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Anyway as far as valentines days go my ex husband walked out on me the day after valentines day leaving behind the bouquet he had bought me and another relationship I was in split up on valentines day so history suggests its not a good day for me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have

why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have

why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept

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its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Having a boyfriend on valentines day would be lovely, but highly unlikely!

Just spending quality time with said imaginary bf and doing nice things together would be perfect. A little gift wouldn't be unappreciated but it's certainly not necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's how you treat your soecial person throughout the year that matters. Not buying all that tacky tat you see adorning the shelves os BM Bargains.... Though chocolate is always welcome. As is Pandora lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have

why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept

its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you

not celebrating it i understand, its the assumption or insinuation that because you celebrate it you do nothing to show you love them any other time of the year that i dont get.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have

why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept

its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you

not celebrating it i understand, its the assumption or insinuation that because you celebrate it you do nothing to show you love them any other time of the year that i dont get."
well you make your own insinuations and assumptions about things that others don't get

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"Hiya

What would be your favourite valentines treat ??

Xx"

Yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flowers, card, dinner, drinks, laughter & hot sex

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't assume that those who celebrate it don't do anything else at any other time of year, but I do find the concept of an enforced day of love to be rather odd.

And yes I know no one is forced to do it, but having the day at all implies that everyone should celebrate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

I agree....I'm a bitter married person and we never celebrate it. Really don't see the point in buying into it. Bah humbug! !

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day. "

That sounds lovely

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day. "

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

A few scented candles, some good music, a little blues dancing and a night of sensuous passion would do me fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

im way more primitive - ive always imagined a cave with a huge fire in the doorway (to keep away the wildlife

) lots of furs and blankets to roll on - Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Valentines day is our wedding anniversary. We did not want to get married on the 14th but believe it or not the venue we wanted did not have the weekend before or after free so we went for valentines instead. We don't tend to celebrate our anniversary on the 14th as like all commercial bullshit, all hotels,restaurants spas etc double their prices overnight. Restaurants especially get my goat as they all charge you more and generally do a fixed valentines menu(I like to choose what I eat when I am paying through the nose for it,not be told).

Whatever we do is done weekend after. When prices have gone back to normal... On the plus side I don't have to buy another valentines card sgain

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Nothing I dislike valentines day...

B'ah humbug

Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have

why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept

its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you

not celebrating it i understand, its the assumption or insinuation that because you celebrate it you do nothing to show you love them any other time of the year that i dont get.well you make your own insinuations and assumptions about things that others don't get

Lol.....ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

Alps is sounds great I was thinking Sweden for the northern lights

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

im way more primitive - ive always imagined a cave with a huge fire in the doorway (to keep away the wildlife

) lots of furs and blankets to roll on - Sx"

Ooh I like your thinking!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

Alps is sounds great I was thinking Sweden for the northern lights

Good thinking batman, I'm sure there are some hilly bits in Sweden anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day. "

Mmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to a surprise 30th. Unless i get a better offer

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By *ady SalfordWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Be nice to have a bf to celebrate valentines day with, I've been single 7 yrs and just find it another way to spend money. My romance is on hold!!!!!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

I've done exactly that a couple of times now. Believe me, it's as good as you imagine it to be.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.

Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...

So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?

He can't reach the taps yet, I've had imaginary tea in a plastic cup.

My son is 27 and 2 weekends ago he offered to make me a cup of coffee for the first time ever!!!!!!!!!

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.

Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...

So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?

He can't reach the taps yet, I've had imaginary tea in a plastic cup.

My son is 27 and 2 weekends ago he offered to make me a cup of coffee for the first time ever!!!!!!!!!

Did you say 'yes'

hopefully a plate of biscuits were brought with it as a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing as always, Nothing.

It's just a day that places like Clintons, card factory, etc, count their profits.

I'd be happy with a hug tbh.

Does that make me sad?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Same thing as always, Nothing.

It's just a day that places like Clintons, card factory, etc, count their profits.

I'd be happy with a hug tbh.

Does that make me sad?"

Did fuck all for Clintons as they went bust a while back lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.

Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!

I've done exactly that a couple of times now. Believe me, it's as good as you imagine it to be."

Oooh I'm jealous! Someone on here did offer ..... have not heard from him for some months though lol!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My sister got married in the ice palace in Finland on valentines day. That's quite romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same thing as always, Nothing.

It's just a day that places like Clintons, card factory, etc, count their profits.

I'd be happy with a hug tbh.

Does that make me sad?

Did fuck all for Clintons as they went bust a while back lol"

they did? Pretty sure there's one in my town.

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

I'm not looking forward to it this year . It's the first since my husband died.

He was one of those that did special things for me all year round he always woke me with a kiss, told me just how wonder I was, hid flowers for me to find sometimes in my car, we would cook together, snuggle up and just be happy .

This year I will see all the lovely Dovey stuff and just be reminded of how special he was how much he loved me and How damn lucky I was to have had him in my life. But mostly how much I miss him.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

i rather like valentines day yeah its costly but dosnt mean it has to cost anything as its the thought that counts the most

best thing is if theres a cupid that can post them up without the person knowing whos it from

but at least you get an admirer that does send you one even if its from a very unexpected source

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