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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so naive to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest. "

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol "

Maybe it prevents a conversation if the verifications would mean a meet is not going to happen.

I've seen verifications detailing sex acts that I don't enjoy, so I choose to not engage with that person as we aren't compatible sexually.

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

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"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so naive to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own. "

Actually I wrote a bad VERI for my last meet because it was a bad meet. I say it how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

Maybe it prevents a conversation if the verifications would mean a meet is not going to happen.

I've seen verifications detailing sex acts that I don't enjoy, so I choose to not engage with that person as we aren't compatible sexually. "

Why does that make you assume you won't enjoy meeting someone? We don't always have the same sexual experience with the same people - that's the beauty of physical attraction between different people - it's different.

Verifications can be far too personal sometimes, and I've read some that although they're well meant, are actually really offputting when they're overly graphic.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol "

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again, I agree to a point. I was polite (as ever lol) and gave my point of view but to go off on one was a little out of order. I wasn't crying myself to sleep a night but I am curious to know if it's just my opinion or if anyone feels the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so naive to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own. "

I don't see why people get so hung up on it. I've met a couple of people from here socially and they've been unverified, so none of us have got any further. I'm not sure I'd display them on my profile if I *was* verified, because to be honest I don't want people to know who I've been sleeping with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

Maybe it prevents a conversation if the verifications would mean a meet is not going to happen.

I've seen verifications detailing sex acts that I don't enjoy, so I choose to not engage with that person as we aren't compatible sexually.

Why does that make you assume you won't enjoy meeting someone? We don't always have the same sexual experience with the same people - that's the beauty of physical attraction between different people - it's different.

Verifications can be far too personal sometimes, and I've read some that although they're well meant, are actually really offputting when they're overly graphic."

Because I know what I'm looking for.

If someone were to have the majority of their verifications detailing watersports or extreme Dom situations, I know we're not a match.

I'd rather meet someone who is on my level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it prevents a conversation if the verifications would mean a meet is not going to happen.

I've seen verifications detailing sex acts that I don't enjoy, so I choose to not engage with that person as we aren't compatible sexually.

Why does that make you assume you won't enjoy meeting someone? We don't always have the same sexual experience with the same people - that's the beauty of physical attraction between different people - it's different.

Verifications can be far too personal sometimes, and I've read some that although they're well meant, are actually really offputting when they're overly graphic.

Because I know what I'm looking for.

If someone were to have the majority of their verifications detailing watersports or extreme Dom situations, I know we're not a match.

I'd rather meet someone who is on my level. "

Fair point - I guess if you're talking about slightly more extreme sexual play then yes, you might not want to get involved. I guess my mind was a little further down the scale when I read your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really like veris its off putting viewing a profile with 20 .I think 2or3 though does help to prove you're a genuine person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont really like veris its off putting viewing a profile with 20 .I think 2or3 though does help to prove you're a genuine person. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed."

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards. "

You aren't the only one to get harsh message over that scenario!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so Naïve to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own.

Actually I wrote a bad VERI for my last meet because it was a bad meet. I say it how it is "

Good for you but they won't publish it and that's what I meant. Is like to think I tell it as it is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have your summary showing 5 meets with different woman think that's anough to show your genuine, really isn't any need to be told to show them, if there private That's your choice, people are so nosey (I am abit and if thinking of meeting someone I will have a nosey if showing verification, if not I respect that as meet new people at party's anyway.rarely meet local always social first anyhow so it dosent matter who they met)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have your summary showing 5 meets with different woman think that's anough to show your genuine, really isn't any need to be told to show them, if there private That's your choice, people are so nosey (I am abit and if thinking of meeting someone I will have a nosey if showing verification, if not I respect that as meet new people at party's anyway.rarely meet local always social first anyhow so it dosent matter who they met)"

Thank you one and all. There's nothing wrong with being nosey

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so Naïve to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own.

Actually I wrote a bad VERI for my last meet because it was a bad meet. I say it how it is

Good for you but they won't publish it and that's what I meant. Is like to think I tell it as it is too"

Yes it was publish but he left the site anyway

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed.

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards. "

I can see why you might feel that way, but to me it's not necessarily. I meet people who are not verified, that's fine, so far my judgement has been good with those guys and if they have none they have nothing to hide. But if a man has verifications and chooses to hide them - hmm, I am suspicious he doesn't have any good enough to display or he is hiding something. I once met someone who never showed their veris and it was the worst meet ever, I vowed never again.

Sadly it is often from bitter experience, though I would never 'go off on one' I would just move along probably, we ladies are spoiled for choice, I accept that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so Naïve to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own.

Actually I wrote a bad VERI for my last meet because it was a bad meet. I say it how it is

Good for you but they won't publish it and that's what I meant. Is like to think I tell it as it is too

Yes it was publish but he left the site anyway "

Mollified by your acerbic criticism no doubt

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Displaying veri's surely a personal choice and makes little difference to us... Sometimes nice to see a veri from a meet as offers some assurance they may be real... Also if looking at someone we look at who veri'd them as can hint what type of people they may be looking for.... And if we are playing out of our league

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed.

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards.

I can see why you might feel that way, but to me it's not necessarily. I meet people who are not verified, that's fine, so far my judgement has been good with those guys and if they have none they have nothing to hide. But if a man has verifications and chooses to hide them - hmm, I am suspicious he doesn't have any good enough to display or he is hiding something. I once met someone who never showed their veris and it was the worst meet ever, I vowed never again.

Sadly it is often from bitter experience, though I would never 'go off on one' I would just move along probably, we ladies are spoiled for choice, I accept that. "

Tis the nature of the site I guess. I never said I wouldn't show them but I choose not to initially. They are obviously glowing reports of my wit and charm I accept that us men are in the majority and you woman have to be extra careful.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed.

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards.

I can see why you might feel that way, but to me it's not necessarily. I meet people who are not verified, that's fine, so far my judgement has been good with those guys and if they have none they have nothing to hide. But if a man has verifications and chooses to hide them - hmm, I am suspicious he doesn't have any good enough to display or he is hiding something. I once met someone who never showed their veris and it was the worst meet ever, I vowed never again.

Sadly it is often from bitter experience, though I would never 'go off on one' I would just move along probably, we ladies are spoiled for choice, I accept that.

Tis the nature of the site I guess. I never said I wouldn't show them but I choose not to initially. They are obviously glowing reports of my wit and charm I accept that us men are in the majority and you woman have to be extra careful. "

Ah well, only considerable wit and charm might make me wait for the confirmation of godlike status in other areas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed.

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards.

I can see why you might feel that way, but to me it's not necessarily. I meet people who are not verified, that's fine, so far my judgement has been good with those guys and if they have none they have nothing to hide. But if a man has verifications and chooses to hide them - hmm, I am suspicious he doesn't have any good enough to display or he is hiding something. I once met someone who never showed their veris and it was the worst meet ever, I vowed never again.

Sadly it is often from bitter experience, though I would never 'go off on one' I would just move along probably, we ladies are spoiled for choice, I accept that.

Tis the nature of the site I guess. I never said I wouldn't show them but I choose not to initially. They are obviously glowing reports of my wit and charm I accept that us men are in the majority and you woman have to be extra careful.

Ah well, only considerable wit and charm might make me wait for the confirmation of godlike status in other areas.

"

Lol. Nice veris btw Frisky. Ah sweet irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not inclined to show mine to anyone, even if they want to meet. They're personal to me and the individuals who left them, and have no bearing at all on what a meet between me and another person would be like, and they're none of anyone else's business.

Likewise i wouldn't ask the same of anyone else if they choose not to display.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'd show some if I were looking to meet, and I would like to see at least one to see what other people think of that person. It would make me feel more comfortable about meeting a stranger, it's not a comment on your personality.

It's a good tool and usually works in your interest.

Yes, true but as an opening conversation? I understand why someone would ask pre-meet. And I understand that someone would want to know the kind if people you've been with but again conversation would cover that. Additionally, I was also asked if that was my ass lol

We women may get a lot more attention than the men on here, but there's a heck of a lot of 'chaff' to sort through to get to the good ones!! there are also guys who will hide things until they are well in to a conversation in order to try and con you into meeting getting involved.

I'd say show the lady immediately, she may just be trying to reassure herself you are not wasting her time, sadly a lot will do. I am afraid I too would be suspicious if no veris were displayed.

I get that. But she didn't have any. That's a little like double standards.

I can see why you might feel that way, but to me it's not necessarily. I meet people who are not verified, that's fine, so far my judgement has been good with those guys and if they have none they have nothing to hide. But if a man has verifications and chooses to hide them - hmm, I am suspicious he doesn't have any good enough to display or he is hiding something. I once met someone who never showed their veris and it was the worst meet ever, I vowed never again.

Sadly it is often from bitter experience, though I would never 'go off on one' I would just move along probably, we ladies are spoiled for choice, I accept that.

Tis the nature of the site I guess. I never said I wouldn't show them but I choose not to initially. They are obviously glowing reports of my wit and charm I accept that us men are in the majority and you woman have to be extra careful.

Ah well, only considerable wit and charm might make me wait for the confirmation of godlike status in other areas.

Lol. Nice veris btw Frisky. Ah sweet irony! "

Lol, QED!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so naive to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own. "

A lot just want to see who you have met, many on here will judge you on who you have met looks like, they more want to look at who's verified you's profile rather than read what they have put about your meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our verifications we show, not for our own ego but lots of our verifications are from peeps that have come to our club night so when we get new enquiries we can refer them to the verifications etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show my last one....if it's not too vulgar......

I don't see why what happened between me and someone else last month or whenever has much to do with what's likely to happen....all my meets have been different, and I hope they continue to be, if I wanted to repeat the same thing every time, I'd just date someone and wouldn't be on fab.

I have my summary up and I think a dozen or so folk prepared to verify me is good enough indication I am who I say I am, and I don't particularly want to jump through more hoops than that by showing or not showing them to suit anyone else...

I know I'm me.....I don't feel the need to provide 'proof' for people, it starts things on an uneven playing field I think if one half of a meet needs 'evidence' and the other half has to worry about providing that evidence....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't mind people seeing mine as I don't have graphic ones up. They really make me queasy but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind people seeing mine as I don't have graphic ones up. They really make me queasy but each to their own

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I don't particularly mind what mine say, but I've hidden certain ones off people who have gone on to become friends for various reasons, to lewd etc and then I get questioned why am I not displaying there's but am with other people's so I've come to the solution that I just display my last one...and that's that.

Beyond that, I just don't feel the need to show them all

To me though, if someone doesen't like that, and needs to see them to trust me, then I probably don't want to meet them, I don't like the idea I need to prove myself in that way...people trust me, or they don't, an odd filter of mine I guess

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't mind people seeing mine as I don't have graphic ones up. They really make me queasy but each to their own

I don't particularly mind what mine say, but I've hidden certain ones off people who have gone on to become friends for various reasons, to lewd etc and then I get questioned why am I not displaying there's but am with other people's so I've come to the solution that I just display my last one...and that's that.

Beyond that, I just don't feel the need to show them all

To me though, if someone doesen't like that, and needs to see them to trust me, then I probably don't want to meet them, I don't like the idea I need to prove myself in that way...people trust me, or they don't, an odd filter of mine I guess "

I find it weird you would get questioned why you weren't showing there's like their stalking your profile watching what you do and don't put up

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice in the space of 3 days I've been asked to show my veris and then only get hassle and general rudeness when I don't. For me veris are moot. No one is going to send a bad one and no one is going to post a bad one. They basically prove that I have met and I'm genuine. Now, I'm not so naive to think that some are false but surely time and conversation (as well as instinct) will prove that. Now, show them if you want that's your choice but don't get ugly when it's private. The irony was that both women had no veris of their own.

A lot just want to see who you have met, many on here will judge you on who you have met looks like, they more want to look at who's verified you's profile rather than read what they have put about your meet"

I agree totally its not what you do....its where you do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us veris are a filter .

We show ours as it deters those who may want to meet us socially .

We are here to enjoy nsa sexual encounters , not to make friends .

So those who hark on about quality over quantity and don't like our style can do one .

Works perfectly for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll display them temporarily for someone I've been chatting to for a while to give them a bit more assurance. But I don't meet many people, so each of my verifications are personal for me. If I had loads, or verifications from socials or cams I'd probably feel very different.

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