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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find when someone replies to you with a lol, that tends to end the conversation for me. I already spend half my time blathering on about shit and although i don't find it too hard to keep a conversation going, one word replies i just can't be arsed with.

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find when someone replies to you with a lol, that tends to end the conversation for me. I already spend half my time blathering on about shit and although i don't find it too hard to keep a conversation going, one word replies i just can't be arsed with.

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?"

Sometimes people are busy and can't construct long replies.

I get into trouble for this often.

Usually the conversation killer is my fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?"

I'm with you on that, its hard enough chatting without feeling like you've got to come up with all the interesting stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?"

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway."

Or no reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway.

Or no reply....

That too.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't bother with people that can't type a proper message I need something to work with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway.

Or no reply....

That too.

Or "I have a free couple of hours want to come halfway across London for a leg over? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway.

Or no reply....

That too.

Or "I have a free couple of hours want to come halfway across London for a leg over? ""

Damn!! You get all the good offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway.

Or no reply....

That too.

Or "I have a free couple of hours want to come halfway across London for a leg over? "

Damn!! You get all the good offers. "

I know, cream of the crop!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Sometimes people are busy and can't construct long replies.

I get into trouble for this often.

Usually the conversation killer is my fault.

Yeah i get that some people don't have time to chat, and i probably kill convos myself too (by lolling or not).

Probably a lot of people aren't that good at chatting as well and that's not their fault i guess. Feel bitchy now...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Lol x"

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me one way chatting where I will always ask the questions and you get an ok, yes or no or a little answer with no question back, it shows they are not interested and easy to sus out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway."

I'm with you here, sometimes you just sense the conversation declining and can't be bothered putting the effort in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Sometimes people are busy and can't construct long replies.

I get into trouble for this often.

Usually the conversation killer is my fault.

Yeah i get that some people don't have time to chat, and i probably kill convos myself too (by lolling or not).

Probably a lot of people aren't that good at chatting as well and that's not their fault i guess. Feel bitchy now...

Nah. Don't forget it's a difficult thing to converse onine.

You're not bitchy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't bother with people that can't type a proper message I need something to work with

Think i've got to the point where i can't be bothered to chat with anyone now. Too many shitty messages, got some alright ones and nice ones today and i can't be bothered to start chatting.

*goes back into my hermit hole*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to explain but replies that leave you nowhere to go. I always take lol as an end of conversation anyway.

Or no reply....

That too.

Or "I have a free couple of hours want to come halfway across London for a leg over? "

Damn!! You get all the good offers.

I know, cream of the crop! "

I wonder if that approach will work in a meet posting?

Back in a mo, I'm gonna find out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Sometimes people are busy and can't construct long replies.

I get into trouble for this often.

Usually the conversation killer is my fault.

Yeah i get that some people don't have time to chat, and i probably kill convos myself too (by lolling or not).

Probably a lot of people aren't that good at chatting as well and that's not their fault i guess. Feel bitchy now...

Nah. Don't forget it's a difficult thing to converse onine.

You're not bitchy."

Thanks, i try not to be bitchy but sometimes it's hard to hold back.

Yeah i think some people it's hard for them to just hold a conversation anyway, surprised anyone wants to chat with me really, i talk so much about nothing much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some are actually hunting down an easy lay.

Thinking it's a site full of brain dead nymphs sitting around on fluffy cushions twiddling their thumbs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I'm clean, don't need to worry about me, I just stick my cock in a bucket of sand and if anything sticks I pop along to the doctor......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find when someone replies to you with a lol, that tends to end the conversation for me"

Same for me, always seen lol as a sign they aren't interested anymore, so I don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Sometimes people are busy and can't construct long replies.

I get into trouble for this often.

Usually the conversation killer is my fault.

Yeah i get that some people don't have time to chat, and i probably kill convos myself too (by lolling or not).

Probably a lot of people aren't that good at chatting as well and that's not their fault i guess. Feel bitchy now...

Nah. Don't forget it's a difficult thing to converse onine.

You're not bitchy.

Thanks, i try not to be bitchy but sometimes it's hard to hold back.

Yeah i think some people it's hard for them to just hold a conversation anyway, surprised anyone wants to chat with me really, i talk so much about nothing much.

I can talk about nothing for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to write long chats buy confess to lol lmao etc and would not ever presume to ask for a leg over .half way across London....how ever I live in hope

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?"

Ditto.

But when I want to stop a conversation I find short replies or even a smiley does the job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And some are actually hunting down an easy lay.

Thinking it's a site full of brain dead nymphs sitting around on fluffy cushions twiddling their thumbs. "

I'm pretty easy tbh and sat on fluffy cushions haha, but dirty chat doesn't turn me on and neither do most of the messages i get really. If anything they turn me off. :/

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

When I tell people I'm a traffic warden*..

*this isn't true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And some are actually hunting down an easy lay.

Thinking it's a site full of brain dead nymphs sitting around on fluffy cushions twiddling their thumbs.

I'm pretty easy tbh and sat on fluffy cushions haha, but dirty chat doesn't turn me on and neither do most of the messages i get really. If anything they turn me off. :/

Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And some are actually hunting down an easy lay.

Thinking it's a site full of brain dead nymphs sitting around on fluffy cushions twiddling their thumbs.

I'm pretty easy tbh and sat on fluffy cushions haha, but dirty chat doesn't turn me on and neither do most of the messages i get really. If anything they turn me off. :/

A good conversation is about stimulation, whatever the topic.

Knowing that what you are saying is interesting to the other party and in turn that what they say will pique yours is the key.

Chatting for hours but seemingly only for minutes is the true sign of a great chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

Implode?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And some are actually hunting down an easy lay.

Thinking it's a site full of brain dead nymphs sitting around on fluffy cushions twiddling their thumbs.

I'm pretty easy tbh and sat on fluffy cushions haha, but dirty chat doesn't turn me on and neither do most of the messages i get really. If anything they turn me off. :/

A good conversation is about stimulation, whatever the topic.

Knowing that what you are saying is interesting to the other party and in turn that what they say will pique yours is the key.

Chatting for hours but seemingly only for minutes is the true sign of a great chat."

Yeah, i like conversation that flows all day long, have had 12 hour conversations with people before now. Think i'm missing this kind of stuff coz my life has got busy with real life. (Should be going out now but not done...)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

Implode?"

Hope they do.

ps not had a single message yet, apart from people i usually chat to.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

I keep telling them, they have to wait for the BUYING SIGNAL before getting dirty, lol! Push on it before I've decided and it's just a turnoff....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

Implode?

Hope they do.

ps not had a single message yet, apart from people i usually chat to."

I go looking. Browse profiles.

There are interesting and sexy men out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?"

Same as you any dirty talk puts us right off, although we do say please don't talk dirty if they try, and then if they try again delete, and one word answers, sometimes it's like pulling teeth to get a conversation out of people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

I keep telling them, they have to wait for the BUYING SIGNAL before getting dirty, lol! Push on it before I've decided and it's just a turnoff....

Yeah that's why it turns me off i think, coz idk if i fancy them or not and it feels like they're being pushy.

Some guys i do like dirty chatting with, especially if we've already met and planning something naughty- then i like talking about it. I made a topic about this yesterday coz i was confused about it, now i get why i feel that way, thanks for that input.

Same for guys who want to meet but if idk when i can meet then i feel pestered or stressed out about them asking. I stop talking to these guys because of it. But i like reading the forums and being in here so i don't want to limit my time on here to only when i want to meet.

Also i got a meet tonight, and the guy been pestering about it since we planned it (not much but enough to bug me) but this morning i woke up dead excited about it, then he texted me about it again today that turned me off a bit as well. Think i don't like being pestered lol.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?"

Same as you:

Lol, lmao, pmsl or just a smiley.

Ive usually run out of enough respect to reply by that stage.

Besides, they arn't lol'ing, lmao'ing, pmsl'ing at all, its just a saying with no strength

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

This week I've killed two chats simply by replying:

'No, babe - they are from ebay. However, they are real enough to be on the household insurance.'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aaaand your inbox goes nuts.....

It won't, trust me.

I've created a paradox right there, they start thinking sex- but dirty chat turns me off- so what do they do?

Implode?

Hope they do.

ps not had a single message yet, apart from people i usually chat to.

I go looking. Browse profiles.

There are interesting and sexy men out there.

I have a few regulars, and when i'm desperate i can find guys easy enough. Might actually start socialising with people out of my area because i've had some good chats with people who aren't near me but let them taper off because they were so far away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Same as you:

Lol, lmao, pmsl or just a smiley.

Ive usually run out of enough respect to reply by that stage.

Besides, they arn't lol'ing, lmao'ing, pmsl'ing at all, its just a saying with no strength"

I'm definitely lolling when i say i am, lol.

But yeah can be hard to keep a conversation going if they can't converse.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Same as you:

Lol, lmao, pmsl or just a smiley.

Ive usually run out of enough respect to reply by that stage.

Besides, they arn't lol'ing, lmao'ing, pmsl'ing at all, its just a saying with no strength

I'm definitely lolling when i say i am, lol.

But yeah can be hard to keep a conversation going if they can't converse."

Ive never seen anyone Laugh Out Loud at a text, or a pc screen.

I will snigger or even in head say 'Haha'.

Im an ol grumpy fart I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Same as you:

Lol, lmao, pmsl or just a smiley.

Ive usually run out of enough respect to reply by that stage.

Besides, they arn't lol'ing, lmao'ing, pmsl'ing at all, its just a saying with no strength

I'm definitely lolling when i say i am, lol.

But yeah can be hard to keep a conversation going if they can't converse.

Ive never seen anyone Laugh Out Loud at a text, or a pc screen.

I will snigger or even in head say 'Haha'.

Im an ol grumpy fart I know"

I laugh a lot tbh. Even had guys asking what's wrong when we're doing 'stuff'. Dunno if i'm not right in the head or just enjoying life too much, maybe both.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Same as you:

Lol, lmao, pmsl or just a smiley.

Ive usually run out of enough respect to reply by that stage.

Besides, they arn't lol'ing, lmao'ing, pmsl'ing at all, its just a saying with no strength

I'm definitely lolling when i say i am, lol.

But yeah can be hard to keep a conversation going if they can't converse.

Ive never seen anyone Laugh Out Loud at a text, or a pc screen.

I will snigger or even in head say 'Haha'.

Im an ol grumpy fart I know

I laugh a lot tbh. Even had guys asking what's wrong when we're doing 'stuff'. Dunno if i'm not right in the head or just enjoying life too much, maybe both."

Same here, I make people laugh more than they make me but have a dry yet sick sence of humour so can find a laugh in most things, when I do though I dont say LOL, but that wasnt the point I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Same as you:

Lol, lmao, pmsl or just a smiley.

Ive usually run out of enough respect to reply by that stage.

Besides, they arn't lol'ing, lmao'ing, pmsl'ing at all, its just a saying with no strength

I'm definitely lolling when i say i am, lol.

But yeah can be hard to keep a conversation going if they can't converse.

Ive never seen anyone Laugh Out Loud at a text, or a pc screen.

I will snigger or even in head say 'Haha'.

Im an ol grumpy fart I know

I laugh a lot tbh. Even had guys asking what's wrong when we're doing 'stuff'. Dunno if i'm not right in the head or just enjoying life too much, maybe both."

You sound as though you possess an active imagination.

Nothing wrong with that.

Laughing in bed MIGHT put him off....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sound as though you possess an active imagination.

Nothing wrong with that.

Laughing in bed MIGHT put him off....

I think it does put them off, that's probably why they ask what's up. Did change my profile to reflect that i am just giggly in bed. I know some guys love it though so it's ok.

I have a good imagination when it's stimulated, occasionally have the odd random thought too. But not really that imaginative overall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same here, I make people laugh more than they make me but have a dry yet sick sence of humour so can find a laugh in most things, when I do though I dont say LOL, but that wasnt the point I know."

No it's right, maybe saying haha is better. I reserve haha for big belly laughs though personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sound as though you possess an active imagination.

Nothing wrong with that.

Laughing in bed MIGHT put him off....

I think it does put them off, that's probably why they ask what's up. Did change my profile to reflect that i am just giggly in bed. I know some guys love it though so it's ok.

I have a good imagination when it's stimulated, occasionally have the odd random thought too. But not really that imaginative overall."

Don't be so down on yourself!

You sound great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sound as though you possess an active imagination.

Nothing wrong with that.

Laughing in bed MIGHT put him off....

I think it does put them off, that's probably why they ask what's up. Did change my profile to reflect that i am just giggly in bed. I know some guys love it though so it's ok.

I have a good imagination when it's stimulated, occasionally have the odd random thought too. But not really that imaginative overall.

Don't be so down on yourself!

You sound great.

I am great haha.

Seriously, just trying to work stuff out in my head atm that's all. I'm fine being me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sound as though you possess an active imagination.

Nothing wrong with that.

Laughing in bed MIGHT put him off....

I think it does put them off, that's probably why they ask what's up. Did change my profile to reflect that i am just giggly in bed. I know some guys love it though so it's ok.

I have a good imagination when it's stimulated, occasionally have the odd random thought too. But not really that imaginative overall.

Don't be so down on yourself!

You sound great.

I am great haha.

Seriously, just trying to work stuff out in my head atm that's all. I'm fine being me.

Ah you'll never work out (stuff) men....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sound as though you possess an active imagination.

Nothing wrong with that.

Laughing in bed MIGHT put him off....

I think it does put them off, that's probably why they ask what's up. Did change my profile to reflect that i am just giggly in bed. I know some guys love it though so it's ok.

I have a good imagination when it's stimulated, occasionally have the odd random thought too. But not really that imaginative overall.

Don't be so down on yourself!

You sound great.

I am great haha.

Seriously, just trying to work stuff out in my head atm that's all. I'm fine being me.

I think sometimes it's good to stand back and take stock. Have a break, don't look for anyone new - as that can be a pressure unexpectedly. Say to guys, you'll chat but not meet. Just enjoy being you for a bit. Not sure that makes sense, it's hard to write it clearly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah you'll never work out (stuff) men....

I only need to work out me, then everything else will just fall into place. But yeah might not even manage that either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think sometimes it's good to stand back and take stock. Have a break, don't look for anyone new - as that can be a pressure unexpectedly. Say to guys, you'll chat but not meet. Just enjoy being you for a bit. Not sure that makes sense, it's hard to write it clearly. "

Yeah. That makes sense. I don't even want to chat to anyone right now either.

I don't mind meeting, i think i'm getting skeptical because i've had some liars on here and they're making me wary of being open with new people. Thanks, working stuff out with your help as well.

Think i've worked out everything actually.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

When you tell them what you'd like to do at a meet or them to do. Then you ask for there input and they say' go with the flow' aaaaaaaaaaaaagh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. That makes sense. I don't even want to chat to anyone right now either.

I don't mind meeting, i think i'm getting skeptical because i've had some liars on here and they're making me wary of being open with new people. Thanks, working stuff out with your help as well.

Think i've worked out everything actually.

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shame people have done that to u as I think ur a top lady !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you tell them what you'd like to do at a meet or them to do. Then you ask for there input and they say' go with the flow' aaaaaaaaaaaaagh"

Guilty! I do that, it makes me feel put on the spot as well sometimes because i don't fantasize about sex, unless it's sex i've already had.

I also say i like straight normal sex with anyone i don't know, other people i like to talk to them face to face about personal stuff to get a feel of whether they really are ok with what i like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah. That makes sense. I don't even want to chat to anyone right now either.

I don't mind meeting, i think i'm getting skeptical because i've had some liars on here and they're making me wary of being open with new people. Thanks, working stuff out with your help as well.

Think i've worked out everything actually.

shame people have done that to u as I think ur a top lady ! "

I know you do greg, and thanks.

People are selfish, i know i wanna be selfish too though. it's good to be selfish sometimes i guess i'm not comfortable with the idea completely though. If it was in a relationship then i expect to have to compromise, but on here with people who give me no commitment i don't feel like i should have to compromise and i won't do.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Usually the word "when" kills a conversation for us, it's fine all the way up to "yes, we'd love to meet you", as soon as the "ok, when" is sent, the conversation ends

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

What kills off conversation for you?"

I usually find a bullet to the head from close range does the trick

Oops sorry thought you said , what kills off people for you, damn Specsavers shut early

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh the one that just makes me shake my head is "how are you finding the site so far"

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"Oh the one that just makes me shake my head is "how are you finding the site so far"

The answer to that is "I click on IE/ Chrome/safari/Firefox/mozilla, type in fabswingers dot com and there you go"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort..."

Its like the first date on The Undateables.

Do you like Oven Chips?

Jacket Potatoes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh the one that just makes me shake my head is "how are you finding the site so far"

The answer to that is "I click on IE/ Chrome/safari/Firefox/mozilla, type in fabswingers dot com and there you go"

I tell them it's great and i get fucked loads every day, then ask them how they're finding it.

yeah...

"I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort..."

made me laugh. gotta entertain yourself sometimes.

aw got loads of nice messages today, few shit ones, still cba to chat via my inbox really though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kills off conversation for you?"

That moment when one shat oneself enters the convo. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort...

Its like the first date on The Undateables.

Do you like Oven Chips?

Jacket Potatoes?

Ahh stop.

That was sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say. ..oi..stop fucking looking at me and not messaging!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort...

Its like the first date on The Undateables.

Do you like Oven Chips?

Jacket Potatoes?

Ahh stop.

That was sweet."

Yes it was, my comment was negative, just a comparison. Just like the previous weeks episode 'Do you hold any lifeguard qualifications'.

Hence my lack of green faced, toothfull smiley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort...

Its like the first date on The Undateables.

Do you like Oven Chips?

Jacket Potatoes?

Ahh stop.

That was sweet.

Yes it was, my comment was negative, just a comparison. Just like the previous weeks episode 'Do you hold any lifeguard qualifications'.

Hence my lack of green faced, toothfull smiley."

Grr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me one way chatting where I will always ask the questions and you get an ok, yes or no or a little answer with no question back, it shows they are not interested and easy to sus out lol

I do this often because I honestly don't like to chat,, doesn't seem to stop people carrying on

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Same for if they start up dirty chat and i don't really know them or if even i fancy them, instant not wanna chat feeling.

What kills off conversation for you?

Sometimes people are busy and can't construct long replies.

I get into trouble for this often.

Usually the conversation killer is my fault.

Yeah i get that some people don't have time to chat, and i probably kill convos myself too (by lolling or not).

Probably a lot of people aren't that good at chatting as well and that's not their fault i guess. Feel bitchy now...

Nah. Don't forget it's a difficult thing to converse onine.

You're not bitchy.

Thanks, i try not to be bitchy but sometimes it's hard to hold back.

Yeah i think some people it's hard for them to just hold a conversation anyway, surprised anyone wants to chat with me really, i talk so much about nothing much.

Sometimes that's the easiest type of conversation. Chatting on here can be a real strain sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh the one that just makes me shake my head is "how are you finding the site so far"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Too many lols in a message can be as bad as a message only saying lol.

Another killer for me is if they revert to their script, avoiding things Im interested in, especially if its along the lines of 'turn me on, tell me what youll do with me. . .'

'Got whatsapp (etc) send me some hot pics'. Yawn.

Ive got my place free, come now', when Ive no clue if theyre a match and my profile says I will accom.

Or they state something I clearly exclude in my profile or standards of decency.

If I make the error of replying when Im busy, going to sleep etc and they assume it means fuck now. It means fuck off now.

Their profile highlights someone from another dimension or galaxy to the actual person.

If they just want cyber.

Quite a few things end the chat, almost all of them predictable.

I block very new users as that was a way to attract hassle.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I hate those boring staccato conversations.

"Hi how are you?"

"I'm fine thanks you?"

"I'm fine...."

Well that was worth the effort...

Its like the first date on The Undateables.

Do you like Oven Chips?

Jacket Potatoes?

Ahh stop.

That was sweet.

Yes it was, my comment was negative, just a comparison. Just like the previous weeks episode 'Do you hold any lifeguard qualifications'.

Hence my lack of green faced, toothfull smiley.

Grr.

I have no idea what this means sorry

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

When I was young, I knew Jimmy Savile.

That usually kills the convo.....

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

After waiting a a week for a reply if I have an lol or an Mmm , or yeah they get a block xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many lols in a message can be as bad as a message only saying lol.

Another killer for me is if they revert to their script, avoiding things Im interested in, especially if its along the lines of 'turn me on, tell me what youll do with me. . .'

'Got whatsapp (etc) send me some hot pics'. Yawn.

Ive got my place free, come now', when Ive no clue if theyre a match and my profile says I will accom.

Or they state something I clearly exclude in my profile or standards of decency.

If I make the error of replying when Im busy, going to sleep etc and they assume it means fuck now. It means fuck off now.

Their profile highlights someone from another dimension or galaxy to the actual person.

If they just want cyber.

Quite a few things end the chat, almost all of them predictable.

I block very new users as that was a way to attract hassle."

first message with lols or haha in it and i just think they're a troll or teenager who joined the site for a laugh.

have had a few conversation with guys and every sentence ended with lol, put me right off.

"fuck off now" wanna nick this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's my shirt I need to blow my nose"

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