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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever find yourself, bowed down with problems and worries and woes, that it just seem worth carrying on?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Charlie Hebdo

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

oh yes

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Rarely but a few events in the last week has kinda of got me thinking when is my bad luck going to run out but I genuinely try and keep a smile on my face and don't let the shit grind me down. If you are feeling that way OP it maybe a thought to go and speak with someone if you are feeling a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I should have said "just doesn't seem worth carrying on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone does at some point it's the way we get ourselves out of feeling that way which dictates the outcome ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think we all do, depends if you mean not carry on with the day to day life or whether you mean don't carry on in a depressive way. If its the later seek medical help if its the former see what you can do to change things

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Never; I'm very lucky. I can see the funny side to most things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op spring summer is around the corner this time of the year after Xmas lots get very low .. Nothing is ever that bad and things they change with time its just hanging in there and staying positive and yes hard at times I know.. If things OP get so bad you need to let it out call Samaritans get things off your chest it could help and they are there 24/7 to help .. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think we all do, depends if you mean not carry on with the day to day life or whether you mean don't carry on in a depressive way. If its the later seek medical help if its the former see what you can do to change things

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It's the latter

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think we all do, depends if you mean not carry on with the day to day life or whether you mean don't carry on in a depressive way. If its the later seek medical help if its the former see what you can do to change things

It's the latter"
my only suggestion is talk to your doctor you've done the first step by admitting there is a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never; I'm very lucky. I can see the funny side to most things. "

can I join Tina's world please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never; I'm very lucky. I can see the funny side to most things.

can I join Tina's world please?"
I only have to read Tina s post s as they make me smile here in the forum xx ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never; I'm very lucky. I can see the funny side to most things.

can I join Tina's world please?I only have to read Tina s post s as they make me smile here in the forum xx .. "

They certainly do xxx

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"Never; I'm very lucky. I can see the funny side to most things.

can I join Tina's world please?I only have to read Tina s post s as they make me smile here in the forum xx ..

They certainly do xxx"

starts singing theres noone quite like tina

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I should have said "just doesn't seem worth carrying on""

respect that to have reached the point where you have thought that, then your having a hard time of it..

stay strong and try and remain positive, bad shit will end at some time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever find yourself, bowed down with problems and worries and woes, that it just seem worth carrying on? "

Share your problems with others ....it helps .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever find yourself, bowed down with problems and worries and woes, that it just seem worth carrying on?

Share your problems with others ....it helps . "
sure do ..... just letting it out getting things of your chest it all helps I find . And it takes guts to do that I know. x

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree


"Ever find yourself, bowed down with problems and worries and woes, that it just seem worth carrying on? "

Not sure whether you mean this as it sounds but a friend of mine who had split from his wife just before xmas said a similar thing. He was seriously down (kids involved etc) and couldnt snap.out of his depressive state.

So being the good samaritan i bought him a newspaper. Told him to read about the news and what others are going through.

Always someone worse off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever find yourself, bowed down with problems and worries and woes, that it just seem worth carrying on? "

Whatever it is, it will pass. You didn't feel like this a while ago, and you will stop feeling like this again.

Get help sorting your problems not just feeling down, but get help with all the things getting you down too.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Never; I'm very lucky. I can see the funny side to most things.

can I join Tina's world please?I only have to read Tina s post s as they make me smile here in the forum xx ..

They certainly do xxx

starts singing theres noone quite like tina"

Forsooth! No one wants to join my world. I keep on getting barred as undesirable element myself xxxxxxxxxxx

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's always worth carrying on.

You may not think it, or believe it - but it honestly is.

As others have said it's best to talk to someone - a friend, family or if that's too close to home - the Samaritans.

No problem gets better by ignoring it or bottling it up.

Good luck.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun I've been there (Mr) and lots of others too , I got help best thing I ever did and there isn't always a reason to be so low . Don't bottle it up I did and it's not the right thing to do . Good luck and get help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever find yourself, bowed down with problems and worries and woes, that it just seem worth carrying on? "

Whatever it is m8, it's always worth carrying on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I vividly remember feeling suicidal when my husband left me when I was 3 months pregnant.

Things do get better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a carer for some whos mentally ill.I learnt the hard way how to cope.I dont mind sharing my experiences with anyone if it helps.

I wouldnt be giving advise tho ...Im not qualified to do so .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the supportive posts and messages. Sadly it's been a long haul. Heavy depression, lasting for the past two to three years, with no sight in end. Wears you down. Matt

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

It always looks better the next day well worth to keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a weeks notice from work last week..but I have a trial period in another area...felt my world was caving in..but then thought I've been much lower in the past.life is life...and I can face it...distractions are always a welcome idea..if it makes you smile at least a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got kick arse depression and anxiety and i'm having a list of problems but I am not giving in.

I'll be here for the long haul.

Live...laugh...

love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the supportive posts and messages. Sadly it's been a long haul. Heavy depression, lasting for the past two to three years, with no sight in end. Wears you down. Matt"

Try to seek out more positive things.

Tell the negative it won't win.

Over and over.

It's exhausting but works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap I have suffered periodically and very much so at the minute

I try to find ways of pulling myself out I watch silly comedy films and re-read a book again exercise and try to look more positively at things

I'm not religious but like quotes

"Long is the way and hard that out of hell leads to the light"

Chin up and take one day at a time

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

I know that feeling very well. Often wondered how much my life really means to me. I sometime struggle to find any positives so if its any consolation, you're not alone in that thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also....bring yourself outside.

It washes some of the misery off.

Don't hide.

No horrible self talk.

Be Only kind to yourself.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes but realise that most problems can be overcome.

Everyone deals with it differently. Seek support and help if needed it is out there but don't throw in the towel.

It's harder to think positive sometimes, it shouldn't be that difficult but it makes it worthwhile when you do come through the other side.

Do more of the things you like doing when you get down, even if it's going for a walk, read a book (you get the idea ) but find an outlet.

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