FabSwingers.com forum: Does Swinging rule your life?

By *exine x OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

The reason I ask is this:

I was flicking through the TV Channels this morning and there was a certain shouty Lie Detector and DNA Special show on Ch3.

There was a 20 year old girl on there who do doesnt trust her partner. Even though she met him at a Swingers Party.

When they met they were having sex 9 times a day as well as having 3 somes, going to parties, clubs etc.

When he came on and started to talk and said he wasn't really interested in the swinging anymore and just wanted to spend time with her, she got a real mardy on!

It seemed to me like Swinging was an addiction for her. Anyone else experienced this?

For us, it's a nice bit of spice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an occasional optional extra for us, in the last year very occasional.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Didn't have many meets last year compared to other years. Life just seems to get in the way. So I'm probably not addicted!

It's something I enjoy doing when I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's very brave to be so open and honest about a tricky subject...

I mean, to come here and openly admit you watched the Jeremy Kyle show! Wow!

"The reason I ask is this:

I was flicking through the TV Channels this morning and there was a certain shouty Lie Detector and DNA Special show on Ch3.

There was a 20 year old girl on there who do doesnt trust her partner. Even though she met him at a Swingers Party.

When they met they were having sex 9 times a day as well as having 3 somes, going to parties, clubs etc.

When he came on and started to talk and said he wasn't really interested in the swinging anymore and just wanted to spend time with her, she got a real mardy on!

It seemed to me like Swinging was an addiction for her. Anyone else experienced this?

For us, it's a nice bit of spice.

Thoughts people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nothing more then a bit of fun to spice up the life now and again .

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

"It's an occasional optional extra for us, in the last year very occasional. "
us too other things going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With both of us working , and a 7 year old son we find we are addicted to the swinging which we see as an escape from the everyday humdrum .

A vanilla night out doesn't appeal .

We enjoy each others company enormously however and swinging is something we both enjoy equally .

If either of us got to the point of not enjoying it though , we would stop .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trying to get mrs b back into fabs...when into it yes it took over our lives....like a drug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet a lot more than I do now but if you meet to much things get samey and boring so I cut back on the amount I meet, I wouldn't say it ever ruled my life it was just getting ready and going to a club was a easy night out but I got to the point i'd get there and wonder why I was here, same people, same thing, I enjoy nights at clubs a lot more now I only go a few times a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No itd never took over my life

I have far more important things that come before fab. I mearly see it as a hobby i indulge in now and then. But i know plenty who live for fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually find that the ones, that have code words hidden in profiles? And whole list of do's and dont's and the whole list of things that you do and your blocked

Then update their status ask fit was Facebook

Are notso much addicted to swinging, just addicted to a swinging siite

People can use a site as they like , but I can soon spot the women with serious issues in my home town very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The reason I ask is this:

I was flicking through the TV Channels this morning and there was a certain shouty Lie Detector and DNA Special show on Ch3.

There was a 20 year old girl on there who do doesnt trust her partner. Even though she met him at a Swingers Party.

When they met they were having sex 9 times a day as well as having 3 somes, going to parties, clubs etc.

When he came on and started to talk and said he wasn't really interested in the swinging anymore and just wanted to spend time with her, she got a real mardy on!

It seemed to me like Swinging was an addiction for her. Anyone else experienced this?

For us, it's a nice bit of spice.

Thoughts people

She didn't trust her partner even though she met him at a swinger's party.... So swingers can't be trusted?

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