FabSwingers.com forum: taking things to heart

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its odd. with swinging I have never taken things personally e.g if a sent message is deleted, people dont get back intouch, you arnt thier type etc

and when i see threads on it i tend to think wow just move on

but recently i have had a situation wher yes i am going to move on but i do find it a bit gutting, I was chatting to a couple (verified etc), things were going great then out of the blue no contact

end of the day i am just going to move on but still...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its odd. with swinging I have never taken things personally e.g if a sent message is deleted, people dont get back intouch, you arnt thier type etc

and when i see threads on it i tend to think wow just move on

but recently i have had a situation wher yes i am going to move on but i do find it a bit gutting, I was chatting to a couple (verified etc), things were going great then out of the blue no contact

end of the day i am just going to move on but still..."

maybe they are on holiday ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

nar they definitly aint.

dont worry though, i aint one of them who is going to pester them with male saying "WHY DONT YOU LIKE ME!!!!!" haha

just leave it, end off the day thier is a good chance i will bump into them and its them who will feel awkward not me

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over what length of time were you chatting to them ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have discussed things between themselves and decided to swing with couples only. Kinda tough on you but hey it's no big loss, you don't miss what you never had etc etc..