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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you politely tell someone that they have a personal hygiene issue? I've got this mate, he's a good lad but he smells. He's apparently been humming for months but I only noticed it in the gym last night and I wanted to barf. I just want to help him out,he's single and no one wants a smelly dude. Plus I don't want to heave every time I deadlift. Anyone got any tips or ideas for approaching this sensitive issue? Thanks in advance.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

hand him your shower gel and tell him to keep it..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes you just have to be honest in the nicest way possible. It's a tough one though. Good luck.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Ask him if he's changed his deodorant .Then before he can answer say as you thought you better let him know the new ones not working well and didn't want him having problems due to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close friends I would say "You're chucking up a bit,has your water been cut off?". Thankfully my friends are not afraid of soap,water and deodorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My close friends I would say "You're chucking up a bit,has your water been cut off?". Thankfully my friends are not afraid of soap,water and deodorant "
. That's what I'd do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tell him"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your input ladies and gents, I think I'll try the jokey approach tonight.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Thanks for your input ladies and gents, I think I'll try the jokey approach tonight. "

Don't do jokey!!!! Be honest and upfront. Tough one to broach, but it is for his benefit more than yours, he should be initially embarrassed but maybe has an underlying issue and would love to talk about it..... Who knows?!?!??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just mention it to him..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tell him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I'll try upfront and honest instead then. Like you say it's for his benefit more than mine, although I don't want anyone thinking it's me. Just gotta think up how I'm gonna break it to him now. Thanks again.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"Stinking you today mate"

Doesnt make it sound like he always smells like a tramps bum and will get the ball rolling.

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