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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you not think that our partners/husbands read the messages ? Just putting it out there that my husband/soul mate/best friend/lover and the person I trust most in the world is more important to me than a quick sneaky fumble with anyone. This is fabswingers not fab cheaters or have I missed the point. End of rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that our partners/husbands read the messages ? Just putting it out there that my husband/soul mate/best friend/lover and the person I trust most in the world is more important to me than a quick sneaky fumble with anyone. This is fabswingers not fab cheaters or have I missed the point. End of rant. "

A rant worth having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol. "

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe because they just want sex with the woman lol. Mind you the site is for all sorts, there are loads of cheating men and women on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol. "

Because some partners DO meet without their partners knowledge.

I don't think it is acceptable, but nevertheless some do, men and women alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some female parts of a couple on here attempt to cheat behind their man's back?

Nothing strange as folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

This too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go girl you tell them we had a similar message this morning ha it's usually Mr on here then I show mrs . Tossers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."
Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

Beat me to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

Also experienced this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't care as long as they get sex . Shag and go and move to the next sex fix . You care they don't .. its sex So they will have a go .. you can rant and block but for some its the name of the game here on a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol. "

because lots of people on here with couples profile do meet behind their partners back I've had a few messages from male half's of couples who have asked me to meet them without their wife's knowing, maybe this guy who asked you has met a women on here alone without her partner knowing, it happens and they don't know if your one of them till they ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shocked people do it we don't play seperate no need to and you can swap partners without being cheats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol.

because lots of people on here with couples profile do meet behind their partners back I've had a few messages from male half's of couples who have asked me to meet them without their wife's knowing, maybe this guy who asked you has met a women on here alone without her partner knowing, it happens and they don't know if your one of them till they ask"
I get these type of messages all the time. Up to them if they want to try it on but how they think the other half won't see the message just baffles me tbh.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op We all get these type of messages all the time ... its normal here i find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol. "

Fair point, missus. Fancy a fumble?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Before I start I will say there are some wonderful and kind respectful single guys on here. This is not aimed at you. However, to those at the opposite end of the spectrum I ask you this. Why would you think it appropriate to ask the lady of a couple to cheat/meet behind partners back ? Especially on a couples profile lol.

Fair point, missus. Fancy a fumble? "
aye why not. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you on this OP.

And as for the comment about single males only wanting sex with the lady of the couple my answer is simple. What difference does that make?

I have met with couples before, and only played with the female - but at least they are both included in the whole thing - whether it's the hubby watching etc

The important thing here is that if a couple is on fab together, they are on here as a couple - and play as a couple and that should be respected.

As for those men or women who are married but only have a single profile up, well, that is their choice and they are playing as they choose.

Some with partners knowledge and some without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married with a couples profile as well as this single one.

I meet alone as well as with my husband.

A guy asked to meet me behind my husbands back. Why?? He knew I'd meet him anyway? And then started talking about kidnap fantasies he had of me and yeah... block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get them all the time.

Message is only directed at jools and they seem to blank me totally.

Then start asking if she wants to meet, blah blah blah.. Block!

And yes have had male half of couple hinting for a meet and constantly, complimenting jools. Hinting for a threesome.

BLOCK.

There is one guy in particular who has been relentless in his pursuit of trying to get a meet with jools even though he is supposed to be a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand why part of a swinging couple would cheat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand why part of a swinging couple would cheat?

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Exactly

Some people are just greedy.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Completely agree...there are lots of single women here who are looking to meet single men, so there is also no point unless people feel it is some sort of 'victory' which is plain ridiculous

I wasn't aware that this particularly went on though...but I imagined it must sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

Beat me to it too. Lost count of how many straight guys from couples message asking to meet.

They chat, delete all the messages, block, then unblock to message more.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I personally think couples are the worst! One message stands out as asking to meet me, but their profile text said they do not meet alone ever! Once pointed out, it was changed lol

That all I thought was yeah right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

Sadly this is true, also had male of a couple slip me his phone number and tell me not to mention it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways.

Sadly this is true, also had male of a couple slip me his phone number and tell me not to mention it! "

That's disgusting, did you tell the fem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways.

Beat me to it too. Lost count of how many straight guys from couples message asking to meet.

They chat, delete all the messages, block, then unblock to message more. "
I get loads too ... I was thinking its normal .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Another day, another rant keep up the good work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another day, another rant keep up the good work"
And its not Thursday yet lol.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Another day, another rant keep up the good workAnd its not Thursday yet lol."

oh dear nieither it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be interesting to know how many singles would tell the other party, if they were asked to meet alone with part of the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that our partners/husbands read the messages ? Just putting it out there that my husband/soul mate/best friend/lover and the person I trust most in the world is more important to me than a quick sneaky fumble with anyone. This is fabswingers not fab cheaters or have I missed the point. End of rant. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another day, another rant keep up the good workAnd its not Thursday yet lol.

oh dear nieither it is"
Apologies for being a little premature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be interesting to know how many singles would tell the other party, if they were asked to meet alone with part of the couple"
Maybe they should just say, or it could blow up in their face, either way anyone with intelligence would see the truth, and if one half of a couple is playing up, wonder if it would be worth not being with their partner no more.

Some thinking grass is greener and all that.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another day, another rant keep up the good workAnd its not Thursday yet lol.

oh dear nieither it is Apologies for being a little premature "
Its ok, we don't mind lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all the comments. It is interesting to see peoples different _iew points and to look at things from a new perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all the comments. It is interesting to see peoples different _iew points and to look at things from a new perspective. "

Have you tried standing on your head? #another dumb suggestion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all the comments. It is interesting to see peoples different _iew points and to look at things from a new perspective.

Have you tried standing on your head? #another dumb suggestion "
No but I can still do handstands does that count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all the comments. It is interesting to see peoples different _iew points and to look at things from a new perspective.

Have you tried standing on your head? #another dumb suggestion No but I can still do handstands does that count ? "

Yep.

Curious why you said 'still'. I can 'still' walk on my hands and I'm half way to 90!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for all the comments. It is interesting to see peoples different _iew points and to look at things from a new perspective.

Have you tried standing on your head? #another dumb suggestion No but I can still do handstands does that count ?

Yep.

Curious why you said 'still'. I can 'still' walk on my hands and I'm half way to 90!!!"
Because I can't do many of the other things I used to be able to due to being less fit and fatter. The splits for example and the crab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all the comments. It is interesting to see peoples different _iew points and to look at things from a new perspective.

Have you tried standing on your head? #another dumb suggestion No but I can still do handstands does that count ?

Yep.

Curious why you said 'still'. I can 'still' walk on my hands and I'm half way to 90!!! Because I can't do many of the other things I used to be able to due to being less fit and fatter. The splits for example and the crab. "

The crab was always pointless. The splits however.....

I think it'd be worth getting that talent back

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

We play separate but we talk it through 1st.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget that this is exactly what some peoples fantasies are. They like the thrill of nearly getting caught etc. Just block and delete them if it's not for you.

I try not to judge others myself, what they want to do is up to them. We are all entitled to our own opinion.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We get this a lot, they get a swift brush off and a block.

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By *olores mister jCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

I have a couple profile whit my wife but must of the time a meet alone whit her concent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some couples think it is ok to message asking to have a sneaky meet behind their partners backs?

Sorry this works both ways."

Absolutely to the point that the guy also had his own profile and went to clubs without her knowing

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