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"Arse to mouth. Rimming. Squirting into mouths. Watersports. " Oh water sports for me to! Can't get my head around that one at all. | |||
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"Oh and Foot Worship." See now I like foot worship. | |||
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"What sexual antics (none of the banned ones) do you see mentioned on here and think GROSS!!!! For me it's sniffing knickers, snowballing cum and I'm sure I'll think of more as the thread progresses.. The stepdad father son mother daughter stepmum stories Just make me cringe and sick to the bottom of the stomach " OMG yes. I don't want to be anyone's little girl. | |||
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"Oh and Foot Worship. See now I like foot worship. " I've always hated feet for some reason. | |||
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"Oh and Foot Worship. See now I like foot worship. I've always hated feet for some reason." I'm not a foot fan but it doesn't make me cringe with other people's feet pics. I would probably kick someone In the face if they tried to touch mine they're that ticklish x | |||
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"Fisting. " ouch | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta " Oh. I didn't know that. Oops. Sorry. | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta " ...s subject? ... | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta " No snogging folks! A | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta " I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were | |||
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"What sexual antics (none of the banned ones) do you see mentioned on here and think GROSS!!!! For me it's sniffing knickers, snowballing cum and I'm sure I'll think of more as the thread progresses.. The stepdad father son mother daughter stepmum stories Just make me cringe and sick to the bottom of the stomach OMG yes. I don't want to be anyone's little girl. " I get so many messages like this even though I'm the least babyfaced or girly person I know! I really don't know what it is about my profile that says I want them to be my "daddy" Sniffing knickers makes me think of horrible dirty greasy old men | |||
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"cryptic ...scared to say anything with a 'S' now " Hahaha. | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta ...s subject? ..." Just think of stuff that should only be done alone in a locked cubicle.. Lol x | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta ...s subject? ..." Cat | |||
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"Bukkake" First time I read that word I thought it was baklava the turkish delicacy. | |||
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"Bukkake" I saw a video clip once of that and nearly threw up... (Plus it's a fucker to clean off your glasses ) | |||
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"Bukkake" That's a good one. I don't want that at all. | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta ...s subject? ... Just think of stuff that should only be done alone in a locked cubicle.. Lol x " All number of things can be done alone in a locked cubicle. | |||
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"Dredging " Yes. And having a sub man "clean up". | |||
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"Felching" you beat us to it! | |||
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"Dredging Yes. And having a sub man "clean up". " Yeah this too | |||
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"Arse to mouth. Rimming. Squirting into mouths. Watersports. " Yep! All of the above for me. | |||
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"I had a guy ask me if he could watch me crush a snail under a stiletto heel once about a year ago on here.. Hands down the most bizarre request ever!!! " You said the "s" word | |||
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"Dredging Yes. And having a sub man "clean up". " Oh yes. The clean up duties make me a bit yucky. | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were " Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee | |||
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"Eating food covered in semen " Frozen cum ice cubes. I wanted that thread to die more than any thread. | |||
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"Felching" yuck there's at least one limit for me | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee " Spitting??? Yay!! | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee " Sweating!? | |||
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"Anything to do with arse holes and one that I keep seeing pop up is pregnancy sex - I find it weird that the thought of a child growing inside a woman turns some men on. All grim " | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee " Snot ? | |||
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"PS my answer is talking about licking knickers....makes me want to upchuck " Oh no... CRINGE!!! | |||
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"Dredging " Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it | |||
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"I don't like spitting either. " | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it " I've forgotten what that is.. Thank god | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it " That one has me scarred for life | |||
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"Holy 'shit' you lot would be no good on give us a clue... And that's all I'm saying I don't wanna get in trouble " I'd be great at "Free Willy".....Probs get thrown out quick though | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it I've forgotten what that is.. Thank god " I don't know what that is... but really don't think I want to... | |||
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"Anything to do with arse holes and one that I keep seeing pop up is pregnancy sex - I find it weird that the thought of a child growing inside a woman turns some men on. All grim " | |||
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"I don't like spitting either. " In fact I'm not good with any body secretions , including my own. | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it I've forgotten what that is.. Thank god I don't know what that is... but really don't think I want to... " Oh it just came back to me.. Dammit... RANK!! | |||
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"Whoops. I live and learn. OK, so the thing that must remain un-named? Not into that. Or foot worship. Or domming anyone. I have however enjoyed some of the other things people have stated they hate, proving the each to their own adage. " Same here, which surprised me, always thought I was as tame as they come | |||
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"I've just googled Felching as I'd no idea what it was. Why would anyone do that? Urgh! " Gobsmacked Who on earth thought this up !! | |||
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"Anything to do with arse holes and one that I keep seeing pop up is pregnancy sex - I find it weird that the thought of a child growing inside a woman turns some men on. All grim " Indeed. While I have myself had sex with a pregnant woman, it was while I was in a relationship and living with her, and I was the one who had put her in said condition. Didn't and don't consider that grim at all. But..... I don't get turned on by the idea of sex with a pregnant stranger. | |||
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"I know it's all about individual tatse and preference but I'm surprised by how prudish some people are on this site" Whys that? Swinger doesn't have to mean into the weird and wonderful. | |||
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"Disclaimer before someone gets on their high horse If you like it crack on.. Just the thought of it makes me cringe (a bit like baked beans in real life lol) " What do you do with baked beans? | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta " Sex? | |||
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"I know it's all about individual tatse and preference but I'm surprised by how prudish some people are on this site" I just like playing swapsie, if that makes me a prude so be it. I still ain't telling the vicar though. | |||
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"I know it's all about individual tatse and preference but I'm surprised by how prudish some people are on this site Whys that? Swinger doesn't have to mean into the weird and wonderful. " No, it doesn't but I associate swingers with a less rigid attitude to sex and some of the opinions I've seen voiced on threads are very conservative imho of course | |||
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"I know it's all about individual tatse and preference but I'm surprised by how prudish some people are on this site Whys that? Swinger doesn't have to mean into the weird and wonderful. No, it doesn't but I associate swingers with a less rigid attitude to sex and some of the opinions I've seen voiced on threads are very conservative imho of course" Well some of your associations may be wrong then. Swingers do not have to be highly sexed or into every sexual practice out there, neither do they have to be non judgemental - swingers are not another species, they are normal people with the same hang ups as everyone else | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee " Being sick | |||
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"Nothing, really. I may not care for it, but nothing makes me cringe. Mind you, I put 4 sugars in my tea " Well I always knew you were a sweetie | |||
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"Disclaimer before someone gets on their high horse If you like it crack on.. Just the thought of it makes me cringe (a bit like baked beans in real life lol) " so I can't interest you in a session in a jacuzzi filled with baked beans then | |||
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"Oh and Foot Worship. See now I like foot worship. " Me too got into mid last year | |||
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"I really need to hit google I don't know what more the half of this stuff is " Keep away from Google. | |||
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"Disclaimer before someone gets on their high horse If you like it crack on.. Just the thought of it makes me cringe (a bit like baked beans in real life lol) What do you do with baked beans? " Stay as far away from them as possible. Nasty bloody things.. I just meant baked beans make me cringe. | |||
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"I really need to hit google I don't know what more the half of this stuff is " You'll regret it... | |||
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"I really need to hit google I don't know what more the half of this stuff is " Try the urban dictionary, it's an eye opener!! | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it I've forgotten what that is.. Thank god I don't know what that is... but really don't think I want to... Oh it just came back to me.. Dammit... RANK!! " I googled this and it said the removing of sediment from the bottom of lakes and water ways ?? | |||
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"Its "Spunk" isn't it , we can't say spunk now ffs ! " No it's sycophant, makes 'em puke!! | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee " Snot bogies is it? anything to do with parental type role play, no feckin ty.. | |||
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"I really need to hit google I don't know what more the half of this stuff is " My thoughts Exactly | |||
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"Disclaimer before someone gets on their high horse If you like it crack on.. Just the thought of it makes me cringe (a bit like baked beans in real life lol) What do you do with baked beans? Stay as far away from them as possible. Nasty bloody things.. I just meant baked beans make me cringe. " cold baked beans are yummy.. | |||
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"What sexual antics (none of the banned ones) do you see mentioned on here and think GROSS!!!! For me it's sniffing knickers, snowballing cum and I'm sure I'll think of more as the thread progresses.. " Just looking at some of the pics is bad enough tbh | |||
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"Nothing, really. I may not care for it, but nothing makes me cringe. Mind you, I put 4 sugars in my tea " Four sugars, that's the most disgusting post on this thread. | |||
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"What sexual antics (none of the banned ones) do you see mentioned on here and think GROSS!!!! For me it's sniffing knickers, snowballing cum and I'm sure I'll think of more as the thread progresses.. Just looking at some of the pics is bad enough tbh" yep, you said it.. | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it I've forgotten what that is.. Thank god I don't know what that is... but really don't think I want to... Oh it just came back to me.. Dammit... RANK!! " I need mind bleach... | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta I did say apart from the banned ones in the OP but I suppose not everyone knew what they were Exactly and why I mentioned it to anyone confused, the word isn't snogging ( haha Obi ) it is to do with bodily functions that isn't pee " And I thought sneezing was acceptable | |||
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"PS my answer is talking about licking knickers....makes me want to upchuck " Especially ones covered in that stuff we can't mention | |||
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"We quite enjoy a lot of the stuff on this thread You might as well all just block us now That said, 95% of it we would only ever do between us two. Some things are not for meets. In fact, we tend to be quite vanilla meet wise " You sniff each other's knickers?? | |||
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"PS my answer is talking about licking knickers....makes me want to upchuck Especially ones covered in that stuff we can't mention " Oh god...is that a thing?! | |||
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"We quite enjoy a lot of the stuff on this thread You might as well all just block us now That said, 95% of it we would only ever do between us two. Some things are not for meets. In fact, we tend to be quite vanilla meet wise You sniff each other's knickers?? " Only on Birthdays and special occasions | |||
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"Fisting is amazing!!! Don't knock it until you've tried it. I was totally against it until I was actually fisted... its mind blowingly intense when done by the right person. Looks awesome too! " | |||
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"We've had a meet where the other couple decided to play out their Sub-Dom roles while they were with us. We had no idea that was their thing, they had admitted to being FB's: fair play, we're not going to judge you on that score. But when he smacked her hard on the vagina for a supposed infraction I was like "NOPE.. Nope nope nope nope nope..." left the bedroom as did my partner and we left them to it. Made me feel bad and definitely NOT what a relationship is about in my books. Second time was an MF couple who came round and she was literally talking to his cock as he was fucking her. "Ohh, you're so big and strong and manly.. Push it hard and deep inside me.." Meanwhile, He's muttering away to himself "I am the man I AM the MAN.. I AM THE MAN!!" It all got a bit Alan Partridge-esque and I had an attack of Diplomatic coughing and had to leave the bedroom for a few moments for a drink. So, one that we found distasteful and one that was plain funny/cringeworthy." We once met someone very similar to your second example. I had to avoid catching my guy's eye so I didn't laugh. | |||
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"has doing a Spider man got a mention yet?" Tell us..... | |||
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"As the S subject is not allowed on here, can we not mention it please. Ta " Six sizzling sausages sizzling a in a pan | |||
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"has doing a Spider man got a mention yet? Tell us....." It is where you wank about 3ft away from a lady, cum in your hand, and with a spidey flourish, sling a web across her face | |||
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"has doing a Spider man got a mention yet? Tell us..... It is where you wank about 3ft away from a lady, cum in your hand, and with a spidey flourish, sling a web across her face " Corrrr that's so romantic. | |||
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"has doing a Spider man got a mention yet? Tell us..... It is where you wank about 3ft away from a lady, cum in your hand, and with a spidey flourish, sling a web across her face Corrrr that's so romantic. " A 'mate' told me about it | |||
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"Anything to do with arse holes and one that I keep seeing pop up is pregnancy sex - I find it weird that the thought of a child growing inside a woman turns some men on. All grim " There,s a site I know on the internet and I forget what You call the condition is but one guy has female sexual organs and can get Fertilized up the only entrance he likes Getting pregnant for A while anyway before the baby aborts The last one was 5 months how perverted is that. | |||
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"We quite enjoy a lot of the stuff on this thread You might as well all just block us now That said, 95% of it we would only ever do between us two. Some things are not for meets. In fact, we tend to be quite vanilla meet wise You sniff each other's knickers?? Only on Birthdays and special occasions" That's alright then | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? " ooh ooh *puts hand up* I know this one too | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? " You really are a BAD nanna | |||
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"Shit, just re-remembered. Wolfbagging?" I thought it was something to do with a wolf! It's gross whatever it's called,you can cough and get the same effect | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? " | |||
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"Shit, just re-remembered. Wolfbagging? I thought it was something to do with a wolf! It's gross whatever it's called,you can cough and get the same effect " A donkey punch has a similar effect without the mess | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? " I saw that one on a thread on here a few months back... http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/285676 | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? " Well I've just learnt something I didn't want to ,yuk | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? I saw that one on a thread on here a few months back... http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/285676 " I learned a lesson a longtime ago never to look or google ~ blue waffle, nuff said!! | |||
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"What's that thing called where the woman swallows a piece of liver or something tied to string,and then as the man comes he pulls it out and makes her vomit? I saw that one on a thread on here a few months back... http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/285676 I learned a lesson a longtime ago never to look or google ~ blue waffle, nuff said!!" noooooooooooo | |||
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"What sexual antics (none of the banned ones) do you see mentioned on here and think GROSS!!!! For me it's sniffing knickers, snowballing cum and I'm sure I'll think of more as the thread progresses.. " I get disturbed by people who are unable to keep what they find distasteful to themselves. If it is legal and the adults are consenting then each to their own. Threads such as this make a number of the contributors feel a little better about their own insecurities, at the expense of those who do have some of these interests, but are perhaps not secure in themselves. Indirect bullying one might argue. A decent mantra in these things is YKIOK. Your Kink Is OKay. If you don't like it, don't do it. But please don't pontificate or sit in judgement of those who do. | |||
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"What sexual antics (none of the banned ones) do you see mentioned on here and think GROSS!!!! For me it's sniffing knickers, snowballing cum and I'm sure I'll think of more as the thread progresses.. I get disturbed by people who are unable to keep what they find distasteful to themselves. If it is legal and the adults are consenting then each to their own. Threads such as this make a number of the contributors feel a little better about their own insecurities, at the expense of those who do have some of these interests, but are perhaps not secure in themselves. Indirect bullying one might argue. A decent mantra in these things is YKIOK. Your Kink Is OKay. If you don't like it, don't do it. But please don't pontificate or sit in judgement of those who do. " | |||
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"Dredging Beat me to it, it makes me heave just mentioning it I've forgotten what that is.. Thank god I don't know what that is... but really don't think I want to... Oh it just came back to me.. Dammit... RANK!! I googled this and it said the removing of sediment from the bottom of lakes and water ways ?? " Do a search on the forums as there's been a post about this I think | |||
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"Eating food covered in semen Frozen cum ice cubes. I wanted that thread to die more than any thread. " This just made me heave....never heard if people doing it before | |||
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"Don't like Necrophiliac Zoophilism, not really into pregnant, lactating stuff and anything that involves a jim'll fix it badge!" | |||
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"That is a bit OTT...if something doesn't turn someone on they are insecure...and if mentioning it they are bullying people who also have insecurities? I don't think I saw one person post that people shouldn't have their kinks , they are saying they wouldn't do it. just like your second to last sentance suggests they should do " You appear to have misunderstood what I said. Not being turned on by something is absolutely fine. Posting to a thread entitled Grim and waxing lyrical about certain Sexual proclivities of others, even if nameless others, suggests a need to feel a certain superiority, often, but not always driven by insecurity. This is a swinging site. By definition, contributors have stepped away from social and Sexual norms of society to a greater or lesser degree. Listing the grim aspects of others interests is rather like prisoners who feel better about themselves by looking down on those who have committed the "beyond the pale" offences. My penultimate sentence says if you don't like it don't do it. It doesn't say broadcast it in salacious or condescending tones. | |||
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"Mechanised formulaic sex, without personality, real interaction etc. " It has it's place though - in a dead-in-the water marriage perhaps S x | |||
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"That is a bit OTT...if something doesn't turn someone on they are insecure...and if mentioning it they are bullying people who also have insecurities? I don't think I saw one person post that people shouldn't have their kinks , they are saying they wouldn't do it. just like your second to last sentance suggests they should do You appear to have misunderstood what I said. Not being turned on by something is absolutely fine. Posting to a thread entitled Grim and waxing lyrical about certain Sexual proclivities of others, even if nameless others, suggests a need to feel a certain superiority, often, but not always driven by insecurity. ." No I don't think I have misunderstood as you mention some of it again. If the thread was in a style of " that disgusting shit who mentioned blah blah as a kink is a filthy low down idiot for liking it" etc etc then I could understand someone being offended enough to try and insult them. But when the thread has listed the things that don't turn others on then I am not sure were all the accusations of bullying etc come from. We have tried a couple of things that people are saying they don't like but don't feel inferior or bullied because they say this. | |||
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"That is a bit OTT...if something doesn't turn someone on they are insecure...and if mentioning it they are bullying people who also have insecurities? I don't think I saw one person post that people shouldn't have their kinks , they are saying they wouldn't do it. just like your second to last sentance suggests they should do You appear to have misunderstood what I said. Not being turned on by something is absolutely fine. Posting to a thread entitled Grim and waxing lyrical about certain Sexual proclivities of others, even if nameless others, suggests a need to feel a certain superiority, often, but not always driven by insecurity. . No I don't think I have misunderstood as you mention some of it again. If the thread was in a style of " that disgusting shit who mentioned blah blah as a kink is a filthy low down idiot for liking it" etc etc then I could understand someone being offended enough to try and insult them. But when the thread has listed the things that don't turn others on then I am not sure were all the accusations of bullying etc come from. We have tried a couple of things that people are saying they don't like but don't feel inferior or bullied because they say this. " Did you really just give a thumbs up to your own post? There is nothing quite like continuing to prove that you have misunderstood me by continuing to respond as you have. Based on your responses I can see that you are failing to read the words in front of you and thereby missing a number of key distinctions, choosing instead to focus on the most emotionally challenging words whilst ignoring the caveat of the surrounding sentence. I am thrilled that you are secure in yourselves and don't feel that a thread entitled Grim and listing things that people do not personally enjoy neither implies, nor infers a negative connotation to said listed activities. | |||
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" Did you really just give a thumbs up to your own post? " I did yes, is that not the right thing to do either? When patronising and condescending posts are posted instead of debating I always bow out so I will leave you to it. | |||
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"Disclaimer before someone gets on their high horse If you like it crack on.. Just the thought of it makes me cringe (a bit like baked beans in real life lol) " This disclaimer was included. It invited comment without judgement. It invites an individual to state a particular activity that does not appeal to them, or in some cases the majority of people of fab. I mentioned dredging. The exceptionally risky practice of drinking the contents of discarded condoms. Personally I think that individual who practice this do because they wish to. The idea of this repulses me. The act, not the individual that performs it is my issue. It is a very broad sweeping statement to say that condemnation and judgement is passed because of individual insecurities. That would imply that some of the frequent debates on here, especially those of a moral nature, are dictated by those who have issues in their own lives and take the high ground to feel better about themselves? | |||
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"That is a bit OTT...if something doesn't turn someone on they are insecure...and if mentioning it they are bullying people who also have insecurities? I don't think I saw one person post that people shouldn't have their kinks , they are saying they wouldn't do it. just like your second to last sentance suggests they should do You appear to have misunderstood what I said. Not being turned on by something is absolutely fine. Posting to a thread entitled Grim and waxing lyrical about certain Sexual proclivities of others, even if nameless others, suggests a need to feel a certain superiority, often, but not always driven by insecurity. . No I don't think I have misunderstood as you mention some of it again. If the thread was in a style of " that disgusting shit who mentioned blah blah as a kink is a filthy low down idiot for liking it" etc etc then I could understand someone being offended enough to try and insult them. But when the thread has listed the things that don't turn others on then I am not sure were all the accusations of bullying etc come from. We have tried a couple of things that people are saying they don't like but don't feel inferior or bullied because they say this. " | |||
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