FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for a swinging newbie

By *onylooking99 OP Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

Been on here on and off for a year.... keep leaving as I am unsure what I am doing wrong

I am single, always polite and send face pics. I update my profile so it is current, I have tried listing my likes, tried listing phone number as I am not verified ...... but nothing.

I am new to swinging but I am not new to sex

, I know I am no Brad Pitt but didn't think I was that ugly either.....

Any tips?

Tony xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs and hang on in there, your one of thousands.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to clubs and hang on in there, your one of thousands.

Her"

meeting people in the flesh everytime

Get out there and enjoy it ! Anyone can hide behind a profile

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By *onylooking99 OP Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to clubs and hang on in there, your one of thousands.

Her

meeting people in the flesh everytime

Get out there and enjoy it ! Anyone can hide behind a profile Exactly! Get out and have a laugh, face to face.

Her

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By *onylooking99 OP Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

Just a bit nervous with clubs. .. didn't realise many people went to them.

Tried just social stuff as well but nothing

oh well will just have to man up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to clubs and hang on in there, your one of thousands.

Her

meeting people in the flesh everytime

Get out there and enjoy it ! Anyone can hide behind a profile

Not hiding ..... just a bit nervous ..... didn't realise so many people went ti the clubs..... thought a social meet with someone would be better but nothing there either

Nervous is normal. We were 21 when we first stepped inside a swingers club expecting a building full of sex maniacs waiting to pounce on us.......it's no different from stepping into a pub, once inside you'll wonder why you fussed so much.

Try search for socials local to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And by socials I mean organised events not just 1 on 1 meet for a coffee social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a bit nervous with clubs. .. didn't realise many people went to them.

Tried just social stuff as well but nothing

oh well will just have to man up!"

yes man up, get chatting dont hover in the corner lol

Her

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

If being a nice guy isn't working try something else

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By *onylooking99 OP Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

Thanks for the advice. ... will have to try a club

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