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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Gents feel free to join in as well, I know you're going to anyway.

So my status updates are normally jokes, some funnier than others..would jokes about 'ex's' 'wife' the mrs etc put you off me?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes. I prefer to meet people who do not have hang ups - jokey or not - about exes.

And who also respect the person the professed to love above all others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I prefer to meet people who do not have hang ups - jokey or not - about exes.

And who also respect the person the professed to love above all others."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its a bit 70s isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... be respectful of your Ex Wife... even if you no longer love her

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Yes. I prefer to meet people who do not have hang ups - jokey or not - about exes.

And who also respect the person the professed to love above all others. "

Thanks guys

Interestin......

I've no hangups..

I don't point them at any one I've always thought of them as in the third person

Ill wait for more responses before I make a judgement call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they would. Your ex was current at one stage so she must have meant something to you, joking or being rude about her on here would be distasteful, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any jokes about woman would put me off it shows lack of respect

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes. I prefer to meet people who do not have hang ups - jokey or not - about exes.

And who also respect the person the professed to love above all others.

Thanks guys

Interestin......

I've no hangups..

I don't point them at any one I've always thought of them as in the third person

Ill wait for more responses before I make a judgement call "

But you're pointing them at women as a group. That would be my issue, if you thought that I would find jokes about "the wife" funny and find them funny yourself it would put me off. However if thats your sense of humour go ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it would put me off.

I'm not keen on profiles with jokes of any kind, find them more cringy than funny.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Nope....exes are there to be made fun of.

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'll stick to Jokes about husbands boyfriends ex boyfriends....

Or I'll be left with 'typing naked "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of pointless making jokes about exs on here ...I think it would put most people off ..and would show an immature streak xx

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Nope....exes are there to be made fun of. "

Looks like I'll have to pm you the ex jokes you re in the minority

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Kind of pointless making jokes about exs on here ...I think it would put most people off ..and would show an immature streak xx"

I'm a bloke,....we never grow up..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Nope your status updates always make me smile I know you are joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and a funny joke is a funny joke. My ex is the mother of my children and I will always have her a place in my heart as she is an amazing woman and I am pleased we parted on good terms. She still cant cook though!

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

So i mulled it over took on board the comments from this thread...

I came to the conclusion.....

My profile, my choices, if you don't like my jokes don't read them.. Easy to avoid..

If they put you off meeting me cest la vie we probably wouldn't have got on anyway.

Thanks for your opinions folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i mulled it over took on board the comments from this thread...

I came to the conclusion.....

My profile, my choices, if you don't like my jokes don't read them.. Easy to avoid..

If they put you off meeting me cest la vie we probably wouldn't have got on anyway.

Thanks for your opinions folks. "

Tut...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why make personal comments about someone who isn't on the site to respond? On a swinging site of all things?

If you want to share generic 'the wife' or 'the mother in law' jokes start a joke thread in the lounge. Posting them on your status will present you to the site as being either hung up on the past and bitter about it (too much drama, let's not pick him to play with) or stuck in a 70s sense of humour time warp (oh god, it's just too depressing where's that young stud who just wants a no stress shag let's pick him instead.

Unless of course that's the side of your personality you really want to share. In that case crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Jokes are one thing. Humour is great, but jokes about exes - ewwww.

Time and a place.

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

This post stemmed from a message I received from a lady we've never spoken before now since saying I like this I like that however your joke put me off,...

So I put the question out there, those that have said 'nope' I'll say thanks for taking the time to respond,

I use my profile to reflect me... and attract people that want to meet me, if my profile ( whatever part) puts someone off its done it's job.

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

*or since*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your words.

Type what you like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This post stemmed from a message I received from a lady we've never spoken before now since saying I like this I like that however your joke put me off,...

So I put the question out there, those that have said 'nope' I'll say thanks for taking the time to respond,

I use my profile to reflect me... and attract people that want to meet me, if my profile ( whatever part) puts someone off its done it's job. "

I have to ask JS, why did you post about

it then? I absolutely understand what you say about your profile but pointing out that those of us who responded with a no weren't what you're after is a bit superfluous.

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"This post stemmed from a message I received from a lady we've never spoken before now since saying I like this I like that however your joke put me off,...

So I put the question out there, those that have said 'nope' I'll say thanks for taking the time to respond,

I use my profile to reflect me... and attract people that want to meet me, if my profile ( whatever part) puts someone off its done it's job.

I have to ask JS, why did you post about

it then? I absolutely understand what you say about your profile but pointing out that those of us who responded with a no weren't what you're after is a bit superfluous. "

It was a question. Like many topics that are posted, it garnered opinions and might have gotten people thinking.

And

That's not what I said,...

my post says those that said 'nope I thank you for taking the time to respond..."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This post stemmed from a message I received from a lady we've never spoken before now since saying I like this I like that however your joke put me off,...

So I put the question out there, those that have said 'nope' I'll say thanks for taking the time to respond,

I use my profile to reflect me... and attract people that want to meet me, if my profile ( whatever part) puts someone off its done it's job.

I have to ask JS, why did you post about

it then? I absolutely understand what you say about your profile but pointing out that those of us who responded with a no weren't what you're after is a bit superfluous.

It was a question. Like many topics that are posted, it garnered opinions and might have gotten people thinking.

And

That's not what I said,...

my post says those that said 'nope I thank you for taking the time to respond...""

I was taking your comment in the context of your whole post which I have obviously misunderstood .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gents feel free to join in as well, I know you're going to anyway.

So my status updates are normally jokes, some funnier than others..would jokes about 'ex's' 'wife' the mrs etc put you off me? "
Yes, the past should be left there. If you meet someone would you spend the night talking about your ex? Move on!

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