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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here before on different occasions and im increasingly noticing how many more bi sexual folk there are....i dont have a problem with it, just passing comment...is it all about fashion or are we as race all becoming asexual and will therefore extinguish ourselfs...maybe we are all to become hemaprodites...spelling crap...lol

Smart thoughts please

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By *iss_serenityWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

oh i just doing to be in the "in" crowd.

i surcome to the peer pressure of it all............ lol

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

nope im just greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i read somewhere that sexuality is like a bell shaped curve and whilst some folks are at the ends, most are in the middle

Most places still are pretty represssed about gay, let alone bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched a programme some years ago that said the level of certain chemicals found in water would sooner than later make men more feminine and eventually change to female.

Especially men who ate more fish.

lmao

It was one of these "today" type programmes.

Get ya lippy on fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!! i love being bisexual,,,its a very nice way of saying u enjoy both which i do...

Its nice that..

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I watched a programme some years ago that said the level of certain chemicals found in water would sooner than later make men more feminine and eventually change to female.

Especially men who ate more fish.

lmao

It was one of these "today" type programmes.

Get ya lippy on fellas "

IIRC very high levels of Oestrogen from the female pill are turning much of nature female, never mind blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I watched a programme some years ago that said the level of certain chemicals found in water would sooner than later make men more feminine and eventually change to female.

Especially men who ate more fish.

lmao

It was one of these "today" type programmes.

Get ya lippy on fellas

IIRC very high levels of Oestrogen from the female pill are turning much of nature female, never mind blokes."

Yeah ! wotever ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Or it could be the fact that society or especially sites like this are more bi friendly. Bi people no longer have to hide the fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or it could be the fact that society or especially sites like this are more bi friendly. Bi people no longer have to hide the fact. "

well yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the world is changing simple infact its for the better, no i am not saying everyone needs to be bi, I am just saying that people are more accepting of bi and gay people than they were 10,20,30 years ago

so i think that people are feeling more ok to try thier curious side as they are learning thier are alot of other curious people.

i think the numbers were alot similar, just nowadays we have the net on tap!!!!

think about it, without the internet you wouldnt realize this many people are actually bi? and alot! of the straight profiles are bi (not all just a fair few) but if everybody had a face picture on thier profile i am sure thier would be less people openly bi on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps are just more comfortable with their sexuality than they were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peeps are just more comfortable with their sexuality than they were "

took the words out my mouth, how ya doing bubbles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peeps are just more comfortable with their sexuality than they were

took the words out my mouth, how ya doing bubbles?"

Great mate and hope you are ok too and the new one

Just lookin forward ta the beach party xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there seem to be loads of bi women out there...in some circumstances im in the minority !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no simplistic explanation.

Some are born bi. Some become bi.

Those that become bi do so to varying degrees and for so many different reasons that I c.b.a to type it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no simplistic explanation.

Some are born bi. Some become bi.

Those that become bi do so to varying degrees and for so many different reasons that I c.b.a to type it up.

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Well its just a way of life 4 some cool dudes of men i guess,,,,like it or lump it..lol lol

i like it,,,,i lump it,,,,but which is better?

oooooooooooo u know! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer jokin, bi-sexual activities are described in the kama sutra. nothing new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOBs ya Uncle! give it a try u mite like it.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Older than that as well: the term comes from Latin and before that it seems to have been quite common in a few cultures - Alexander the Great is generally agreed by historians to be bi, amongst the Spartans there was the culture of the Gymnasia where same-sex relations were encouraged as a way to bond, even though Spartan men were expected to marry (their culture placed great shame on not having children to follow you), in more modern times, James I and VI was definitely bisexual and as recently as the Victorian period we have OScar Wilde whom historians now believe was more bi than gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older than that as well: the term comes from Latin and before that it seems to have been quite common in a few cultures - Alexander the Great is generally agreed by historians to be bi, amongst the Spartans there was the culture of the Gymnasia where same-sex relations were encouraged as a way to bond, even though Spartan men were expected to marry (their culture placed great shame on not having children to follow you), in more modern times, James I and VI was definitely bisexual and as recently as the Victorian period we have OScar Wilde whom historians now believe was more bi than gay."

Good old Oscar Wild,,,,,Leading the way 4 the modern day public! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about not getting bored,,, so people look to do new things thay become brave and open there minds up to new things well some do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there seem to be loads of bi women out there...in some circumstances im in the minority !!!! "

there only bi when the hubbys watching lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Does reading Vogue mean I'm bi-sexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does reading Vogue mean I'm bi-sexual?"
do you really read that ,, I like that too .. lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Does reading Vogue mean I'm bi-sexual?do you really read that ,, I like that too .. lol "

Of course! I'll read anything that has pictures of ladies in their knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think bi is the newest fad, it used to be oral, then anal now its bi, where else can we go?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I think bi is the newest fad, it used to be oral, then anal now its bi, where else can we go? "

Shagging sheep has never really been fashionable (for the most part), possibly in that direction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think bi is the newest fad, it used to be oral, then anal now its bi, where else can we go? "

Yeah .......... it's fad

All those homosexuals and lesbians and people who do both ...... bloody fashionistas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hairy pussies will make a comeback any day now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hairy pussies will make a comeback any day now "

Yeah, love fannies that look like Davy Crockett's hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hairy pussies will make a comeback any day now

Yeah, love fannies that look like Davy Crockett's hat "

what about the hat on yer chin then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here before on different occasions and im increasingly noticing how many more bi sexual folk there are....i dont have a problem with it, just passing comment...is it all about fashion or are we as race all becoming asexual and will therefore extinguish ourselfs...maybe we are all to become hemaprodites...spelling crap...lol

Smart thoughts please"

There are no smart thoughts to match such an utterly pathetic thread title, sorry.

My sexuality has been my sexuality for all my life and in no way will I let anyone colour me as "the in thing".

Good god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BOBs ya Uncle! give it a try u mite like it. "

Or he could be your auntie! R

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Been on here before on different occasions and im increasingly noticing how many more bi sexual folk there are....i dont have a problem with it, just passing comment...is it all about fashion or are we as race all becoming asexual and will therefore extinguish ourselfs...maybe we are all to become hemaprodites...spelling crap...lol

Smart thoughts please

There are no smart thoughts to match such an utterly pathetic thread title, sorry.

My sexuality has been my sexuality for all my life and in no way will I let anyone colour me as "the in thing".

Good god."

Mmmmm Anger issues? The Op was not suggesting that all bi-sexual people were just following fashion! As I read it, it is the amount of people who seem to be suddenly Bi that is in question!

Mrs R is not Bi, but is Bi-friendly. she is not Bi but will play with women if there is an attraction, if that makes her a fashionista, so be it! BUT she is not looking for it... I am not Bi, but I have not ruled out some lightweight Bi action in the heat of a tangle!

Little outbursts that are contrary to the spirit of the thread could be a sign of insecurity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been 'out' and openly bi in swinging circles but my vanilla friends know nothing about that side of my sexuality with the exception of my best pal. And that's exactly how I want it to remain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really amazes me is some people still believe that bisexuals and gay actually choose ta be that way lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What really amazes me is some people still believe that bisexuals and gay actually choose ta be that way lol xx "

I may have to take issue with you there soapy as it was a conscientious decision on my part to see what it was like. I don't attribute it to always being bi but not doing anything about it. As a younger man I was staunchly heterosexual to the point where I'd advocate gays being taken out and shot. A blinkered view I know, but I was genuinely hetero and the thought of man-man contact repulsed me. As the years went by I found my inquisitiveness about it growing and it was cemeneted in my mind to try it when I realised that my partner at the time got really horny watching gay porn. So I gave it a go, decided I liked it and it's now something else I like to do sexually.

I really do rebel against the ideaology that gays/bis are born gay/bi - I believe it IS a conscious choice and then becomes a preference (gay/lesbian). Even now, a confirmed bisexual man, I cringe when I see men camping it up. I feel embarrassed to be of the same sex as them and see no reason for it - apart from to shock.

Wait till Sunday, you'll meet me then and realise that I am masculine in every sense of the word.

I hope I haven't pissed anyone off with what I've said above, but if I have, well, sorry, but that's the way I view sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mrs R is not Bi, but is Bi-friendly. she is not Bi but will play with women if there is an attraction, if that makes her a fashionista, so be it! BUT she is not looking for it... I am not Bi, but I have not ruled out some lightweight Bi action in the heat of a tangle!

"

Really subscribe to that - happy to play a bit as and when... a bit more when I feel like it... not driven by a need to perform for any men watching for bi-action between girls.

Yes, I like that stance... and it has nothing to do with fashion... just to do with being a true hedonist, enjoying what pleases... when one wants to...

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What really amazes me is some people still believe that bisexuals and gay actually choose ta be that way lol xx

I may have to take issue with you there soapy as it was a conscientious decision on my part to see what it was like. I don't attribute it to always being bi but not doing anything about it. As a younger man I was staunchly heterosexual to the point where I'd advocate gays being taken out and shot. A blinkered view I know, but I was genuinely hetero and the thought of man-man contact repulsed me. As the years went by I found my inquisitiveness about it growing and it was cemeneted in my mind to try it when I realised that my partner at the time got really horny watching gay porn. So I gave it a go, decided I liked it and it's now something else I like to do sexually.

I really do rebel against the ideaology that gays/bis are born gay/bi - I believe it IS a conscious choice and then becomes a preference (gay/lesbian). Even now, a confirmed bisexual man, I cringe when I see men camping it up. I feel embarrassed to be of the same sex as them and see no reason for it - apart from to shock.

Wait till Sunday, you'll meet me then and realise that I am masculine in every sense of the word.

I hope I haven't pissed anyone off with what I've said above, but if I have, well, sorry, but that's the way I view sexuality."

you choose to accept your sexuality.you didnt choose,to be that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What really amazes me is some people still believe that bisexuals and gay actually choose ta be that way lol xx

I may have to take issue with you there soapy as it was a conscientious decision on my part to see what it was like. I don't attribute it to always being bi but not doing anything about it. As a younger man I was staunchly heterosexual to the point where I'd advocate gays being taken out and shot. A blinkered view I know, but I was genuinely hetero and the thought of man-man contact repulsed me. As the years went by I found my inquisitiveness about it growing and it was cemeneted in my mind to try it when I realised that my partner at the time got really horny watching gay porn. So I gave it a go, decided I liked it and it's now something else I like to do sexually.

I really do rebel against the ideaology that gays/bis are born gay/bi - I believe it IS a conscious choice and then becomes a preference (gay/lesbian). Even now, a confirmed bisexual man, I cringe when I see men camping it up. I feel embarrassed to be of the same sex as them and see no reason for it - apart from to shock.

Wait till Sunday, you'll meet me then and realise that I am masculine in every sense of the word.

I hope I haven't pissed anyone off with what I've said above, but if I have, well, sorry, but that's the way I view sexuality."

Na i takes ya point mate and as for masculine so am i lol

However i still believe that we being made of man and woman in the first place do have the same tendencies of both gender

Some more that others

Being roughly the same age as you i also went thou the repulsed stage but in my particular case that was because i was lead ta believe it wasnt normal ta feel as i did

As some of ya know in me twenties i actually took four separate overdoses cause i didn't want ta be the way i was

But as time went on i accepted it and don't mind admittin it to anyone

We are all different in some way and that's mine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We are all different in some way and that's mine xx "

Great post!

And isnt that what makes the world interesting? And is not accepting others for what they are or choose to act out.. part of the fun? It is for me and my partner.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What really amazes me is some people still believe that bisexuals and gay actually choose ta be that way lol xx

I may have to take issue with you there soapy as it was a conscientious decision on my part to see what it was like. I don't attribute it to always being bi but not doing anything about it. As a younger man I was staunchly heterosexual to the point where I'd advocate gays being taken out and shot. A blinkered view I know, but I was genuinely hetero and the thought of man-man contact repulsed me. As the years went by I found my inquisitiveness about it growing and it was cemeneted in my mind to try it when I realised that my partner at the time got really horny watching gay porn. So I gave it a go, decided I liked it and it's now something else I like to do sexually.

I really do rebel against the ideaology that gays/bis are born gay/bi - I believe it IS a conscious choice and then becomes a preference (gay/lesbian). Even now, a confirmed bisexual man, I cringe when I see men camping it up. I feel embarrassed to be of the same sex as them and see no reason for it - apart from to shock.

Wait till Sunday, you'll meet me then and realise that I am masculine in every sense of the word.

I hope I haven't pissed anyone off with what I've said above, but if I have, well, sorry, but that's the way I view sexuality.

Na i takes ya point mate and as for masculine so am i lol

However i still believe that we being made of man and woman in the first place do have the same tendencies of both gender

Some more that others

Being roughly the same age as you i also went thou the repulsed stage but in my particular case that was because i was lead ta believe it wasnt normal ta feel as i did

As some of ya know in me twenties i actually took four separate overdoses cause i didn't want ta be the way i was

But as time went on i accepted it and don't mind admittin it to anyone

We are all different in some way and that's mine xx "

thank fuck you were unsuccesfull,things would be a lot less fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for that Mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for that Mwah xx "

Oh rite ok then wotever that thanks was?! hehehehe but i say thanks 4 a bein a good supporter of me! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As some of ya know in me twenties i actually took four separate overdoses cause i didn't want ta be the way i was

But as time went on i accepted it and don't mind admittin it to anyone

We are all different in some way and that's mine xx "

It's bad that you felt so bad about your feelings that you had to go to such extreme measures. I've always looked at everything that happens to me as an experience, albeit good or bad. It enriches me, it gives me knowledge that I didn't possess before and I refuse to be beaten to the point that taking my own life is the only solution that I can see.

I may never play with another man for the rest of my life, and I wouldn't miss it, but I'd still regard myself as bisexual because I now know that if the right person and the opportunity presented itself, I would play, but it's not essential. It's not the only thing that makes me ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As some of ya know in me twenties i actually took four separate overdoses cause i didn't want ta be the way i was

But as time went on i accepted it and don't mind admittin it to anyone

We are all different in some way and that's mine xx

It's bad that you felt so bad about your feelings that you had to go to such extreme measures. I've always looked at everything that happens to me as an experience, albeit good or bad. It enriches me, it gives me knowledge that I didn't possess before and I refuse to be beaten to the point that taking my own life is the only solution that I can see.

I may never play with another man for the rest of my life, and I wouldn't miss it, but I'd still regard myself as bisexual because I now know that if the right person and the opportunity presented itself, I would play, but it's not essential. It's not the only thing that makes me ME."

Well there u go,,,,,thats a good long story 4 u all,,,simply wonderful..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and every season Gucci launch their new range, I change from bisexual to lesbian to tranvestite to straight to gay to black to white to asian to 6'1 to 5'3 to size 9 shoe to size 3.

costs a fecking fortune but must keep up with trendies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although on occasions I have "played " with women, especially in clubs when the heat of the moment takes over , I would not class myself as Bi.

It does get me though when I see that a lot of women are being harangued into being bi by their partners. It's obvious that they aren't, but as we all know it's every man's dream to have two women at the same time.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"Been on here before on different occasions and im increasingly noticing how many more bi sexual folk there are....i dont have a problem with it, just passing comment...is it all about fashion or are we as race all becoming asexual and will therefore extinguish ourselfs...maybe we are all to become hemaprodites...spelling crap...lol

Smart thoughts please"

you may want consider the issue of rejection.

so many couples will not respond to single guys they driving them to contact each other in order to get meets ergo more bi men on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! well consider this ---im bisexual yeah,,,but deffo NOT NOT gay!,,,,but i go shopping in that GAP (gay n pride) they do some really nice clothes nowadays.

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