FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I didn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cos the one I got sais none published as the user left the site lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the reasons vary, an example is that they have used my name. I've never had a bad one though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Someone I never met gave me a cam-verification. I don't want his name on my profile.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yep because I don't want to put it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I meet.people who I don't want the site to know I've met..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like ones that give my name away or go into to much detail

So selective about those I show

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? "

Yeah, I had a veri from DiamondSmiles saying I was a shit shag so I removed it cos I didn't want people to know.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I tend to wait to put new ones up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason?

Yeah, I had a veri from DiamondSmiles saying I was a shit shag so I removed it cos I didn't want people to know.

She's brutally honest that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm verified. That's all that needs to be public. The verifications themselves I find are very personal to me and will only show them to prospective meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I always put them on but may remove them later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a creepy experience on a social guy verified me I did not return the favour I refuse to be groped by a creep then him verify me saying hope we met up soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but we cant display all of them because its too long..... but the people on it know why and understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? "

Haven't put any of mine up because I don't really see the point. I'm real, am a woman and that's all the verification that's needed. People don't really need to know they need to treat me with respect and not pass me by, do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't want all my veri's on my page, a few is enough.

Tend to keep up the most recent ones, or the ones who i will be having a 3sum with so the other person can check out their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no particular reason, don't show a few repeat meets no point, also don't show those, that have called us esmeralda and grinch!

how rude!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as with everything on here, I decide what I do, what I show and how I interact and with who...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason?

Yeah, I had a veri from DiamondSmiles saying I was a shit shag so I removed it cos I didn't want people to know.

She's brutally honest that one. "

Not really cos she said all veris had to be shown cos I was a silver member and only golds were allowed not to

show. I was innocent and easily lead astray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes loads, I have lots of hidden veris, main reasons because they contain my real name or are to graphic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine, I get to man massages if I do,, and then also people question who ive meet if I say no to them,, well one of your veris is off somebody older than me,,, so best to leave them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its subjective, had good meets, then boom, they block.or leave and I genuinely don't know why..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't put them up. Why cause a stampede right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't show mine, I get to man massages if I do,, and then also people question who ive meet if I say no to them,, well one of your veris is off somebody older than me,,, so best to leave them off "

I met a guy under 30 once and I had that off young guys when I said they were to young, well you met so and so and yes younger than me.....so I removed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't show mine, I get to man massages if I do,, and then also people question who ive meet if I say no to them,, well one of your veris is off somebody older than me,,, so best to leave them off

I met a guy under 30 once and I had that off young guys when I said they were to young, well you met so and so and yes younger than me.....so I removed it"

I know, just accept my refusal, I was trying to be polite haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually show all of mine but I have hidden a couple this morning for reasons that I'll keep to myself.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? "

I dont display verifications from those who dont want it displayed : to ensure their privacy and confidentiality.

The verification summary suffice to tell im meeting and genuine.

Shrugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't put them up. Why cause a stampede right?

Go on! Put them up! I'd have a field day writing your veris!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show all mine - and occasionally decide to hide them all - same goes for my face pics! I have one or two that are just plain silly in their fawning (so they'll get another meet) or so explicit that it reads like a porn mag! I'd be mortified to show them! Xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

After having a few pissing up the lamp post messages from women I don't put up my meet verifications bar one guy who I meet I can't be bothered with the bloody drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After having a few pissing up the lamp post messages from women I don't put up my meet verifications bar one guy who I meet I can't be bothered with the bloody drama "

Is that your phrase of the week now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete your profile then you can get rid of all your verifications, then rejoin and just ask a couple of people you have met before to verify you.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"After having a few pissing up the lamp post messages from women I don't put up my meet verifications bar one guy who I meet I can't be bothered with the bloody drama

Is that your phrase of the week now

Yep lol

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I don't show any. Most say the same thing anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't show any. Most say the same thing anyway"

Yup! Most veris are pretty generic and OTT and therefore pointless other than to confirm that the person verified is who they say they are, and actually turns up to meet! Whether the sex is mind-blowing or not is down to both of us - not just him! XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't added any new ones for years, that doesn't mean I haven't met anyone just means it's not that important, although the amount of people who when messaging ask why no new ones, simply assume you haven't been meeting or a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I was on webcam on video chat and received a verification from a guy - I hadn't asked for one.

I just didnt want to give the impression that I was after meets with single guys (and their sometimes lewd descriptions!) - so I removed it.

No harm done, although I eventually blobked the guy. Not because he was annoying - just so it did not show on my summary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes I will.

but I found some issues about playing with and wasnt the men! like cheeky says cant be bothered with the drama.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Yeap .... No particular reason other than choose not to show all of em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy I met twice has now left so his veri's have gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atrocious grammar/spelling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? "

All of them.

Privacy.

We don't veri sex meets either for the same reason.

The green tick is there.

People want to see more ?

Well, there's no shortage of guys to choose from who do show ...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I had a rare d*unken evening and popped into a chatroom and woke up to a few verifications from guys who'd spotted me. Since I don't often cam I thought displaying them gave the wrong impression. As for meet veris I had a couple go UNLOS. I have yet to receive a graphic veri but probably wouldn't display if I did. I exist. That's surely all anyone actually needs to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show any of mine, just the summary. An embarrassing number of them have since gone UNLOS and I don't want anyone to link it to the suspicious bulge under my patio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I eventually blobked the guy. Not because he was annoying - just so it did not show on my summary!"

Blocking someone doesn't remove the veri from your summary, it will still show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason?

Yeah, I had a veri from DiamondSmiles saying I was a shit shag so I removed it cos I didn't want people to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only display the last six months and only those that they're not too graphic. I guess I do this to let people know if I say I'll meet, I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocking someone doesn't remove the veri from your summary, it will still show up."

Apologies, I meant the summary/list/whatever you like to call it on our 'Manage Verifications' page.

You are correct, still shows up in the little summary box though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocking someone doesn't remove the veri from your summary, it will still show up.

Apologies, I meant the summary/list/whatever you like to call it on our 'Manage Verifications' page.

You are correct, still shows up in the little summary box though x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After having a few pissing up the lamp post messages from women I don't put up my meet verifications bar one guy who I meet I can't be bothered with the bloody drama "

Bloody stinks all this pish.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I dont display verifications from those who dont want it displayed : to ensure their privacy and confidentiality.

I'm confused as to why someone would verify you but say not to display it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeap,cos I did,nt want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

I didn't want to. "

Haha! This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Lots. For many reasons. Some are so poorly spelled i couldn't bring myself to show it. Some are from social meets that will never lead to a sexual meet so i don't show them as i'm not intending to meet them again. One was so vulgar that i didn;t show it and didn't meet the guy again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Lots. For many reasons. Some are so poorly spelled i couldn't bring myself to show it. Some are from social meets that will never lead to a sexual meet so i don't show them as i'm not intending to meet them again. One was so vulgar that i didn;t show it and didn't meet the guy again."

All of the above. Some people write completely inappropriate nonsense.

The one that gets me is when men write, "treat her with respect". What? Why is that even an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? "
We wont show the veri from the lass we both meet as she gets hassle from a bloke on here...we do it out of respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Someone I never met gave me a cam-verification. I don't want his name on my profile."

Did you report the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shite at writing verifications.

I really am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above. Some people write completely inappropriate nonsense.

The one that gets me is when men write, "treat her with respect". What? Why is that even an issue? "
Dont let this one pass you by...pictures dont do her justice...lol...just a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? We wont show the veri from the lass we both meet as she gets hassle from a bloke on here...we do it out of respect"

Tell her to block and report him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I've hidden a few...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above. Some people write completely inappropriate nonsense.

The one that gets me is when men write, "treat her with respect". What? Why is that even an issue? Dont let this one pass you by...pictures dont do her justice...lol...just a few"

Yep, those too....so imaginative and personal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Someone I never met gave me a cam-verification. I don't want his name on my profile.

Did you report the profile?"
can you report a profile thats given you a cam veri?...they have seen you on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Someone I never met gave me a cam-verification. I don't want his name on my profile.

Did you report the profile?can you report a profile thats given you a cam veri?...they have seen you on cam

Jenna, I'm going to report you for NOT meeting me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very special friend on here. She can be very choosy!

When she was on here previously we were getting grief from guys she turned down. They considered themselves to be somehow "better" than me (taller, bigger cock or whatever). They would contact me asking why I could meet her, could I "arrange" a meet with her etc.

Hence the bit on my profile about not acting as a pimp for anyone. It got so bad she left the site.

She is now back on....doesn't show her verifications...although I did verify her when she came back. Her previous verifications won't show anyway....I asked her not to send any new ones. (I have enough anyway).

So there can be MANY reasons not to show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a veri that you haven't put up? What was the reason? "

Yes, two. They were far too graphic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a very special friend on here. She can be very choosy!

Hence the bit on my profile about not acting as a pimp for anyone. It got so bad she left the site.

So there can be MANY reasons not to show."

So many shallow and insecure people in life....how rude of those men.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Many...some from str8 blokes who dont wish to be outed..

Some i dont put out cos my competitors steal them!! ( i display the veri and they then wink &or msg them) offering a similar service..

i also respect others who dont display mine..

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Many...some from str8 blokes who dont wish to be outed..

I'm still confused - why give a veri and ask for it not to be displayed ? Surely if you write a veri the point is for it to be displayed. If you don't want it to show, don't write it ?

Unless I'm being a bit slow today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever display my last one, and only then if its not to too graphic.

Because that's how I choose to use my account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any

That's because you have a confusing profile, with a girls name on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That must explain why I only get mail from men ....

Meg is a nickname

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Someone I never met gave me a cam-verification. I don't want his name on my profile.

Did you report the profile?"

No, of course I didn't report him. He had seen me on cam, he sent me a nice cam-verification - no reason to report him. I just chose not to display his verification on my profile, as he is not someone I will be meeting, and I don't want people assuming that I will/have met him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show veris unless asked, although they are lovely, who I meet, and who chooses to meet me is personal. Once someone's verified, it's obviouse they are serious about meeting and that's good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

I didn't want to. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many...some from str8 blokes who dont wish to be outed..

Some i dont put out cos my competitors steal them!! ( i display the veri and they then wink &or msg them) offering a similar service..

i also respect others who dont display mine..

Are you an electrician ?

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