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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Read an article that suggest fellas with big bellies make for better lovers....

As i,m border on a 12 pack i,d like to gauge opinon on this one..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends on the criteria for 'better lover' I guess. I've had overweight lovers and I've had fit lovers, and the fit lovers certainly had more stamina, which suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to call bs on that one

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

Id better start having more takeaways lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id better start having more takeaways lol"

Nooooo !

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Read an article that suggest fellas with big bellies make for better lovers....

As i,m border on a 12 pack i,d like to gauge opinon on this one.."

was the article in beer drinkers weekly..?

disclaimer, only jesting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your criteria for better lover are.

Physical attributes like stamina strength and being able to shag a ladies arse off then I'm guessing not.

But then there are technique and empathy, listening to what your partners body is saying as you stimulate her. A fat lad is just as likely to be good at this as a thin one I'd imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I big belly is more comfortable to bounce off while doing doggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your criteria for better lover are.

Physical attributes like stamina strength and being able to shag a ladies arse off then I'm guessing not.

But then there are technique and empathy, listening to what your partners body is saying as you stimulate her. A fat lad is just as likely to be good at this as a thin one I'd imagine. "

Not all women want loads of stamina and having their arse shaggef off, personally a good sex session for me goes way beyond how long they can bang away

Maybe men who are not as fit so can't shag as long will put more effort into other less energetic things like oral etc if that's the case I can see where they are coming from as that would be a better session for me personally

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Can't see me chunking up anytime soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as with everything its subject to interpretation,, what works for one person wont work for another.

i dont find thin muscular men attractive, so someone who has a few pounds on them is already more appealing to my physical preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your criteria for better lover are.

Physical attributes like stamina strength and being able to shag a ladies arse off then I'm guessing not.

But then there are technique and empathy, listening to what your partners body is saying as you stimulate her. A fat lad is just as likely to be good at this as a thin one I'd imagine.

Not all women want loads of stamina and having their arse shaggef off, personally a good sex session for me goes way beyond how long they can bang away

Maybe men who are not as fit so can't shag as long will put more effort into other less energetic things like oral etc if that's the case I can see where they are coming from as that would be a better session for me personally "

The point I was making is that being good in bed isn't all about having a big cock and being able to pump like a steam train.

Being a skilled and sensitive lover can be quite different from this.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

The point I was making is that being good in bed isn't all about having a big cock and being able to pump like a steam train."

Err, its not?

ooh eck..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

In my experience leaner men are generally better lovers. There will be people who think the opposite though, as well as exceptions to my experiences.

I don't think it's likely that build is a major determining factor in sexual ability.

Was the study conducted by men with a little more to love, perchance?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"In my experience leaner men are generally better lovers. There will be people who think the opposite though, as well as exceptions to my experiences.

I don't think it's likely that build is a major determining factor in sexual ability.

Was the study conducted by men with a little more to love, perchance?"

the pie eaters journal often run such articles post the seasonal binge..

uplifting stuff..

or so i heard..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read an article that suggest fellas with big bellies make for better lovers...."

I think it said 'fellas with big BELLENDS' make better lovers

...or fellas who ARE big bellends, I forget, my memorie's not so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My semi-extensive survey has revealed no correlation whatsoever between body size and sexual ability. I assessed all the evidence very thoroughly.

Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information? "

Shag more? I could do with a control group though

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information? "

use it to console someone next time you bump into them in the street maybe..?

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I'm happy to continue this survey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

There will be the buff bods that are awful in bed and the less toned that aren't. It's down to the individual . If you are a selfish lover toned or not then it's not going to be a good session for me .

I find the best guys are the ones comfortable in their own skin who take time to find out what excites their partner and to read their reactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information?

use it to console someone next time you bump into them in the street maybe..?"

Between Annas boobs and the other persons belly though they'd just bounce off each other wouldn't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They reckon it's because men with big bellies harbour more of the female sex hormone estradiol, so yeah erm?

I've been with a lot of, and a wide variety of, (i am fussy honestly, they were all sexy as fuck) body shapes over my lifetime- and honestly, some guys are quick, some guys stay hard and are repeaters, some take ages, some take too bloody long for my liking, and there didn't seem to be any correlation between any of them. Personally i think it's more to do with when they last had sex, how much they find you attractive and things like this.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information?

use it to console someone next time you bump into them in the street maybe..?

Between Annas boobs and the other persons belly though they'd just bounce off each other wouldn't they?"

to prevent such a potential accident one would be obliged to cuddle the lady present till the effects of the impact had diminished..

only in the cause of health n safety mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information?

Shag more? I could do with a control group though "

If we all wear blindfolds we can test the placebo effect too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My semi-extensive survey has revealed no correlation whatsoever between body size and sexual ability. I assessed all the evidence very thoroughly.

Seems like one of those slightly pointless pieces of research...what exactly are we supposed to do with this information?

Shag more? I could do with a control group though

If we all wear blindfolds we can test the placebo effect too? "

Ladies, you crack me up!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think sexual chemistry has more to do with the people involved than body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not in my experience, depends how much you fancy them too I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The point I was making is that being good in bed isn't all about having a big cock and being able to pump like a steam train.

Err, its not?

ooh eck.."

Some of it is ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The point I was making is that being good in bed isn't all about having a big cock and being able to pump like a steam train.

Err, its not?

ooh eck..

Some of it is ;-p"

It's a bonus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overweight doesn't necessarily mean unfit......

It thought I would put that one in there

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chunkier men have the same stamina as the slim ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's going to be like anything physical if you keep yourself fit then you will perform better,

But it's not all about fitness talent also plays a part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. "
and slimmer fit men do that also .. lol yukkkkkkkkkkkkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. "

Do you like cum on your face?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. "

I have been with slim guys who sweat in your face too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I never quite get the 'better' thing when it is generalised to a certain grouping over another.

very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think sexual chemistry has more to do with the people involved than body type"

This is true....I was once a lot fatter and un fitter than i am now and found that with certain people we could go completely off the scale and yet with some not so much...now I'm not so heavy I find the same thing, I know people that between us we can do amazing things yet some others, not so much..

I've also known lasses through being both large and small but it's changed little in bed...that's my experience of my own personal size in a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read an article that suggest fellas with big bellies make for better lovers....

As i,m border on a 12 pack i,d like to gauge opinon on this one.."

At the end of the day its down to personal choice, Do you prefer bigger or smaller blokes reaching round the front

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

I have been with slim guys who sweat in your face too"

Hey it's quite physically, demanding laying the pipe I'll have you know, have to forgive us a little sweat now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. "

Got to go on top. With my short legs and small pelvis i enjoy this challenge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just average in bed

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. and slimmer fit men do that also .. lol yukkkkkkkkkkkkk"

Not in my experience.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Got to go on top. With my short legs and small pelvis i enjoy this challenge... "

I love a lady who's up for a challenge lol.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Got to go on top. With my short legs and small pelvis i enjoy this challenge... "

My arthritis means I can't do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. and slimmer fit men do that also .. lol yukkkkkkkkkkkkk

Not in my experience. "

you must have been lucky as had this more then once . lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

The point I was making is that being good in bed isn't all about having a big cock and being able to pump like a steam train.

Err, its not?

ooh eck..

Some of it is ;-p"

phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Got to go on top. With my short legs and small pelvis i enjoy this challenge...

My arthritis means I can't do this. "

Sorry.

It is quite fun and makes you feel a lot taller as well. Well looks like plating giant is out for you then. Am sure you have loads of fun anyway.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Do you like cum on your face?"

No.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I am just average in bed "

yeah but you have a 6 pack Shag..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Got to go on top. With my short legs and small pelvis i enjoy this challenge...

My arthritis means I can't do this.

Sorry.

It is quite fun and makes you feel a lot taller as well. Well looks like plating giant is out for you then. Am sure you have loads of fun anyway."

I do! At my age I just know what works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just sweat more then others . I don't sweat easy myself.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

I have been with slim guys who sweat in your face too

Hey it's quite physically, demanding laying the pipe I'll have you know, have to forgive us a little sweat now and then"

Ohhh I know that, when I am on top it makes me hot too, all that bumping and grinding, frantic fucking then slow paced sliding up and down the shaft

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

I have been with slim guys who sweat in your face too

Hey it's quite physically, demanding laying the pipe I'll have you know, have to forgive us a little sweat now and then

Ohhh I know that, when I am on top it makes me hot too, all that bumping and grinding, frantic fucking then slow paced sliding up and down the shaft "

Someone is horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Got to go on top. With my short legs and small pelvis i enjoy this challenge...

My arthritis means I can't do this.

Sorry.

It is quite fun and makes you feel a lot taller as well. Well looks like playing giant is out for you then. Am sure you have loads of fun anyway.

I do! At my age I just know what works for me. "

Thought so.

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off. "

Must remember to wear a sweat headband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Must remember to wear a sweat headband "

Yes . lol one of them sports one s . Now there is a look.

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

Must remember to wear a sweat headband Yes . lol one of them sports one s . Now there is a look. "

A sexy look

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

I have been with slim guys who sweat in your face too

Hey it's quite physically, demanding laying the pipe I'll have you know, have to forgive us a little sweat now and then

Ohhh I know that, when I am on top it makes me hot too, all that bumping and grinding, frantic fucking then slow paced sliding up and down the shaft

Someone is horny "

Me? never

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Overweight doesn't necessarily mean unfit......

It thought I would put that one in there "

Yep think of the rugger buggers..!!

Oh and wrestlers shall I go on.,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had more time to think about this and still on the same frame of mind, i prefer a guy with a toned body, good sized cock and talent! Ive had bigger guys before and tbh felt like i was being crushed by one or two and they couldnt keep up the level of sex i prefer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've had bigger guys I've found their sweat dripping in my face a turn off.

I have been with slim guys who sweat in your face too

Hey it's quite physically, demanding laying the pipe I'll have you know, have to forgive us a little sweat now and then

Ohhh I know that, when I am on top it makes me hot too, all that bumping and grinding, frantic fucking then slow paced sliding up and down the shaft "

Blimey that's made me feel a little warm

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Ive had more time to think about this and still on the same frame of mind, i prefer a guy with a toned body, good sized cock and talent! Ive had bigger guys before and tbh felt like i was being crushed by one or two and they couldnt keep up the level of sex i prefer! "

I had someone lay on top of me so I could barely breath. Asked him 3 times not to put his entire weight on me but he kept doing it.

I managed to push him off me in the end and then told him it wasn't working for me.

It didn't help that there was hardly any foreplay either.

That was some years ago. I wouldn't tolerate it now.

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