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Deciding who to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you advertise a meet and get several replies how do you decide which one to meet and not sound like a time waster to the ones you say no to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite all...you will have an amazing time xx

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Flip a few coins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for the nearest one to me (which means they will get here the quickest).

Then i shove a status up thanking the people who replied but i found someone.

So what if people think you are time waster? If they get bitchy about it block them, i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them when they contact you that you need attraction. Wanting sex doesn't mean wanting it with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invite all...you will have an amazing time xx "

Several replies you say?! Unheard of im

My experience!!

How you had a good one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invite all...you will have an amazing time xx "

haha, imagine inviting 30+ guys round, am sure my gossipy neighbour would love that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one who sounds the nicest, sends the best message, looks ok, has the best profile and verifications, one I think I will get on with best.

just say to the others you have already got someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only meet in clubs and no guarantee of play anyhow. Invite the ones you like the sound of and have fun.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Eenie meenie miney moe.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eenie meenie miney moe.

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one you like the look and sound of the most and trust your gut.....there's a lot to be said for your instincts....for all the advice anyone could give on here, it's you that knows best, take your time and choose wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally the meet now thing seems a bit desperate to me. Unless you use it to tell friends you already know. Just asking for a random to meet and play would be a huge turn off for me because I need attraction . However I can see why some might find it exciting.

If this is your thing id go for whoever ticks the most boxes for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We invite them round and have an impromptu game of 'take me out'

Those that don't make the grade are free to shag each other in the green room

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"The one you like the look and sound of the most and trust your gut.....there's a lot to be said for your instincts....for all the advice anyone could give on here, it's you that knows best, take your time and choose wisely "

This.

Sound advice as far we can see. Just to add we also put up in our status a big thank you to everyone who wanted to meet, it seems to do the trick and most people in our experience find that okay. Just be careful of appearing to lead people on or being pushed ever so slightly into a corner. We always say the latest a meet is confirmed is 3pm on the day and everyone is aware of that, if they have other options themselves that's their decision to wait around or not, if people need to know earlier we'll commit or politely decline till next time. It really can be a juggling act but reasonable grown up understand the ones that don't aren't the type we'd like to meet. We've missed out on meets as people have chosen other couples, no offence taken there's always another day.

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