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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When looking at profiles do you look through the pics first or do you read the profile before having a good old fashioned perve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read then have a look at pics

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Pics - I am afraid if the pics are unappealing I rarely read the profile.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Pics - I'm a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics, if we don't find a spark of attraction, no amount of profile guff can make that up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics first. If none then I don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics first then if they interest me i will read the profile x

mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics - I am afraid if the pics are unappealing I rarely read the profile.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Pics then read the profile for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank God most are saying 'pics'. If anyone read my profile first, I'd be fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My usual approach goes something like: username (is it something like anal_destroyrr_cum_fest, in which case no....) then height, location, pics, text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank God most are saying 'pics'. If anyone read my profile first, I'd be fucked."

Is that not the idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank God most are saying 'pics'. If anyone read my profile first, I'd be fucked.

Is that not the idea? "

Ba-boom, tss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My usual approach goes something like: username (is it something like anal_destroyrr_cum_fest, in which case no....) then height, location, pics, text. "

Perfect me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics - I'm a bloke "

Pics - I'm a woman! But if the guy isn't quite as good looking as I like but still appealing - and has a well-written, humerous profile - it'll often sway me enough to message back! Xx

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

Pics too....on reading this thread i think i may need to add some more pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people in the forums first. Then come the pics, along with the chat in the forums.

I don't browse or check out the local updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really, if the profile photo has grabbed my attention then I'll perve through the other photos before reading the profile.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Pics then profile and only message if both interest us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics - I am afraid if the pics are unappealing I rarely read the profile.

"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics, if we don't find a spark of attraction, no amount of profile guff can make that up."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entirely depends....sometimes pics, sometimes profile.....I've met people I've got to know in the forums without ever looking at the profile at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you can be as charming as you like, if your ugly your not going to stand a chance, let's not sugar the plum here, or you might be good looking but have crap photos or no photos photos it key,

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"Pics - I am afraid if the pics are unappealing I rarely read the profile.

"
same as this were afraid. Dirty pervs first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If just looking to chat / make buds, forum posts, then profile, then pics.

If seeking sex, pics then profile. If no face pic, we send and hopefully exchange quite early on.

Our 'courting' process is quite short. I think we'd fail miserably on here if we sought women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics, if we don't find a spark of attraction, no amount of profile guff can make that up."

This. There has to be physical attraction as well as mental stimulation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So has this answered the age old question "why am I not getting any meets?" You won't get a meet if you ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly won't even open a profile based on the thumbnail, title and username alone. You can tell a lot from these three things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So has this answered the age old question "why am I not getting any meets?" You won't get a meet if you ugly "

Whoa ! Don't be saying that.

Read the fine print of the forums :

1. In threads like this, it is perfectly fine to say looks matter, but ...

2. If someone asks why they aren't getting meets, it is protocol to point them in the direction of their profile rather than a mirror

Fail to follow this rule and be blunt with someone and face tge wrath of the hyenas and the circling vultures

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics - I am afraid if the pics are unappealing I rarely read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures first, if they look good I'll check height then read the profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures first, if they look good I'll check height then read the profile text. "

See this is where I think I fail. Being only 5'6" limits me somewhat.

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo


"Pictures first, if they look good I'll check height then read the profile text. "

Whats your ideal height?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures first, if they look good I'll check height then read the profile text.

See this is where I think I fail. Being only 5'6" limits me somewhat."

Assuming you have limits is what limits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures first, if they look good I'll check height then read the profile text.

See this is where I think I fail. Being only 5'6" limits me somewhat.

Assuming you have limits is what limits you. "

Well, no, a lot of women want men who are 6'0"+. That's what limits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at able to accommodate,if no a no thank you is sent without looking at anything else. Then location, then a quick flick through the profile and then pics. If a face pic is their thumbnail or attached to the message I will look first at that

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"I read then have a look at pics "

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